Some women can be as bad as some of the men!!!

Iwas on a dating site and came across this profile of a woman that i thought was fantastic. She was everything i was for in a woman. I also realized you don't always get the woman you want but u never know till u have tried. So i sent this woman a mail and i got a lovely reply from her and it all started from there. After about 2 weeks we met and went for a drink, we had a very good chat and found out we had a lot in common.

At the end of the night i put her into a taxi and she went home. The next thing was i got a text on my phone as i had asked her to do so when she was home safely and she thanked me for a beautiful night out. The next morning as i was working my phone rang and to my surprise it was herself again and she again thanked me and said she would like to return the favor and bring me out.

Me being of old stock would not let a woman spend anything as i have always seen it, if a man goes out with a woman he don't let her spend any money [i only speck for myself] Anyway i said yes I'd be delighted to see her again so we met a couple of nights later. I brought her for a game of bowling, Then we had something to eat, and then a few drinks. As the night was coming to an end she asked me if i would bring her back to my place for a coffee and i said of-course.

When we got to my house she said she was in no hurry home as she was off work the next day. As it happened i had a bottle of lovely wine i had got as a present from "France" so i asked if she would like a glass of wine or coffee and she said a glass of wine would be great. So not to drag the story out we ended up sleeping together that night.

As time went on we where really getting on great and i thought this was the woman for me. Then after about 3 months i brought her to a party of a friend of mine. As the night went on 1 of my friends called me over and said to me that a friend of his knew the woman i was with and he asked me did i know she was "MARRIED" He knew me as a person that would not mess around and that's why he said it to me.

10 minutes later i just said to her we where going as i was getting tired so we left. I brought her back to the house and said i was told u where married. Her face went pale as i told her i hate liars and to tell me the truth. She started to cry and said her and her husband slept in separate bedrooms and had nothing in common with each other. But the fact was she lied. I was gutted but i had to send her on her way as i would not like anyone to do the same on me. Even dough i did find out that they where supposed to be very happy together.

Comments (5)

happyslapper
can i get her number...i have sympathy for her and what motivated her to do this...and i have no interest in sleeping with her ..but her husband now!!!!!
46andlonely
I would say maybe she had her reasons for lying to you, I know it is very wrong to lie but isn't it more painful to be taken for a ride after going through a lot for a person you sacrificed everything for...just to be with him and find out later that he is going to marry another?.....sounds familiar???????????
RWWizard
It must have been very tough on you when you found out but it is better to let her go. The outcome later on down the road could have been very....how should we say it....painful if the husband had found out. I'm sure she went right out and found someone else to "play with" after you dumped her. More power to her but I am a firm believer in "what goes around comes around." She will no doubt pay the price one day. Good luck in finding a lady who truly likes you and doesn't play games.
hopeeyefindyou
I'm sorry you had to go through that!.. You did the right thing to stop seeing her. The woman should have got a divorce or at least filed for one before using a dating site!

This goes to show that all of us must be truthful in our profiles. You don't have to tell your life story but, be truthful about your motives, age, weight and height. The rest of your life can wait to tell to the right person...
midnight_angel_1
It is sad when we are deceived by someone we come to care about. You can't let it ruin your future relationships. As true as it is that women can be as bad as men, you have to keep the faith. comfort

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