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RE: Should we 'do it' on the first date?

cheers listen 6 bottles of stella artois beer , women get better looking every minute ,if they want your jump your bones you would not say no doh all this tosh about if men had woman,s bodies and women had men's bodies very mad at the end of the day if you have a laugh and both fancy a shag so what ,life is to short to be worrying about the next morning ,you might still be humpingcomfort

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lisaofflorida64

RE: Coping With Loneliness

I am alone . I like it tis way. People have been nuts and made my life hell.
I did the marriage and children family thing , now it's my time for some peace in what little time I have left.
Any friends I have ever had ended up being nut so now I don't try to get to know no one. I stay to myself and have been so happy this way. Now I have been feeling lately like it would be nice to find a nice man . I don't hing this site is a great place to do that but I'll give it a try. I am alone but not been lonely but am starting to feel a little that way. beer

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RE: Coping With Loneliness

Had to take breaks from people before as everyone has that option. It seems that the right friends make the difference. Some are takers and some are givers.Some are passing the time of day and it reflexs in how much they put into the relationship.

Good to have hobbies

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RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?

This site is being taken over by scammers and there seems to be no effort to stop them .the blatant lies total contradictions in their profiles with pictures that don't even match the description in the profile . What's worst is the insult to my intelligence . Do they think any woman over age 60 is so desperate for male flattery that they will be taken in by their expressions of love and other nonsense remarks ? . I receive an average of 3 scammers per day if I'm online they just trawl through and try hitting if your online. I think every one needs to start reporting them . I often reply and tell them they're scammers and then they delete the profile .I know they will just create another but if every one shows them they've been sussed every time maybe they'll get the message and go to another site . I have to block north America as most pretend to be from usa as if it's the most desirable nationality in the world . It is for them obviously but not for every one. They are mostly Nigerian or Romanians who spend their days behind banks of computer screens trying to scam people . I talked to guy who was in contact with Russian woman and had sent her expensive jewellery she had asked for 500 for fare to Ireland. I tried warning him but he wanted to believe some stunning Russian woman was going to love him . It seems the less desirable they actually are the more they want to believe the illusion .What can you say some people are deluded want to believe this successful handsome high-powered person had fallen for them . Life isn't a fairy tale and dating online is more fiction than fact .most men lie about their age marital status dating history . Most men want sex asap that's it .most men are huge disappointment .the world of dating online is .........I've no words left ......well one or two ......a fruitless quest yes thats 3 words lol

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1_SPCTR

RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?

Garnet, I have to agree with your photo comment, I see the same picture(s) on their profiles that's been there for the last 10/15 years, with no changes,
Wonder if the scammers think people don't notice ' WE DO NOTICE '
One person can have about 40 profiles, you block one then they try to contact you with another profile, the pattern is easy to notice....

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1_SPCTR

RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?

wave wave

Good morning ??
I can tell by the first intro, I don't even bother replying, I just delete their messages,
Their usual requests are the same, especially new members n how all of a sudden their previous profile(s) is deactivated,
The other day a man was talking about love n sex, then they ask about kids !!! Wow what the heck were YOU thinking when you mention sex then ask about kids ???? What is wrong about THIS situation ??? It kinda threw me..

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Onlyforums
Stranger1978HQ

RE: 20 Ways His Texts Show He's Into You

this is applicable on beta males
not on gurus like us cool

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RE: How old is too old!

You are never too old.

As long as you can spread them and enjoy.....life goes on.......

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RE: Should we 'do it' on the first date?

hi every1,being above 50 and single my attitude is, the more you know some 1, the emotions are more intensified which means more understanding and time you give your lover. i had 1 night stands when i was younger like most folk but the pleasure was physical not mentally rewarding, it all depends what u are searching for passion or sex
ray

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dallaskeenan

RE: How old is too old!

Its almost a 180 degree in belief systems. Young ladys learn after a few experiences realize older men...like their female counterparts are experienced, considerate...longer lasting..
Sure the ...kids..recover quicker but whats to recover after 90 seconds of selfish panting?
Go by feelings...if they treat you well, act as they should, have fun!!! If not show them the door!!!!
Best of Luck

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RE: How old is too old!

Older guys go after younger women :Fact . Older women do not want younger guys :fact .. Older guys want younger woman because it boosts their male ego .younger guys go after older women for sex they think your older are wiser and they can learn from you . Of course younger guys are more virile so the sex is great but theres more to life than sex. When your female and 55 yrs or older your chances of meeting an intelligent healthy solvent man are very slim indeed because hell be inundated with younger beautiful women after his money and security and there's not a man on the planet who doesn't want a younger beautiful woman so he can make his friends jealous because that's what he cares about most ,other men's opinions . Men will tell you anything and everything you want to hear to get you into bed and if his performance is below pat hell expect you to put up shut up cos that's what women politely do .my afvice is dont hold out too much hope and you won't be disappointed and in the meantime live your life fully and you'll find the happiest moments hours days sre often spent alone .if you had a good marriage your chances of meeting someone half as good are almost nil .all that will happen is disappointment angst pain it's not worth it . You're an attractive bright woman you don't need a man dragging you down coz most men do esp those on free dating sites . Check the paying sites because if he won't even pay a subscription he's either too skint or too mean or both good luck you'll need it in bucket loads. sigh

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RE: Practically Bare Bosoms

When in the Armed forces we had a saying, any more than a hand or a mouth full is to much

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RE: 20 Ways His Texts Show He's Into You

This is so sweet... Hoping to find someone like this to spend my life with... heart beating

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Smilingdaily

RE: Is Your Relationship Based on Sex?

OK,
Sex is definitely the thing we all need , it's something that we share with someone that cares about you?
confused

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Powerfulmind56

RE: Practically Bare Bosoms

I may be in the minority among men in my personal taste, but I like small breasts. Women with big boobs turn me off.

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ralsoeb

RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?

I notice most of the people posting in this thread , are using scammer grammar.

But that aside, lets answer your question.

A scammer is someone who says what they think you want to hear to give them what they want.
They are NOT open with their emotions (it is all a lie to get your money/bank account info)
They are NOT honest with you (they simply say what normally gets them your money/bank account info)
They are NOT complimentary in what they say (It is simply what normally gets them your money/bank account info).

Do you see the pattern yet?

And as a man who is health, wealthy (made my own money thank you very much) in good shape, and a lot of fun to be around... and not even 40 yet... I have found expressing my emotions like this does not get me a happy married life but instead emotionally traumatized/stunted proto chicks who want a live in butler/walking atm. (at least in the USA, I will probably go back to Europe to get some real women as non seem to exist state side anymore.)

But that is just my experience.

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RE: Should we 'do it' on the first date?

Generally a bad idea. Studies have shown a huge increase in STDs in American, college-aged women to the point that about one in four young White females have a serious STD (such as Herpes, Hepatitis, etc.. ) whereas only a short decade or so past, the average rate of STD infection in the US military stood at about 2.5%.

Getting back to the present day, for non-White females. the rates of infection are higher still, for Hispanics, and for Black females in this age cohort, in some studies the infection rate exceeded 50%.

Bottom line, get to know who you are going to sleep with, and if you are going to go to bed right away, it's best you exchange recent clinical results with your pleasantries.

There are of course, the old-fashioned and common-sensed reasons to avoid the Zipless / 1NS / NSA type of encounter. In some instances, missing women have been found (or, I should say, their bodies have been found), after having last been seen on their way to a first date.

So. Be careful out there.

All that being said, I have had the good fortune to have had two LTRs which began from the very beginning. I would say that is rare and we were both lucky (well, I did present my clinical results and so did she).

It can happen, but for safety and biological reasons, ill-advised. Then there's is the idea of self-worth and morality. Those old-fashioned notions evolved over time for good reasons.

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RE: 10 Reasons to Avoid Dating a Married Man

Marriage is a contract it's about commitment and it protects children legally . I like other women so I'd never want to hurt a woman by being with her cheating other half . If a man cheats on his wife he will cheat on you . If he cheats on his wife he doesn't respect her himself his marriage vows he's basically dishonest. All are traits that are undesirable in a man and equally as undesirable in a woman .cheats deserve each other but often they have a loyal loving partner who they disrespect . If you're in an unhappy marriage cheating won't fix it . Get out of your marriage first .Anyone can be tempted but a person with strength of character will not cheat Cheating hurts everyone especially the betrayed but also your children. Women who only date married men do so because they are psychologically damaged . Some women will go after a married man for his money his wealth she's usually much younger attractive and very few men can resist the younger and beautiful woman because it's hard wired into a man's DNA n matter what they pretend or say . As an older woman you're ever only 2nd choice h ed much prefer someone younger but he can't attract her cos he's not rich enough so you'll do . Cynical moi ??? Life lessons learned . yawn

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sweetiekisses2

RE: 10 Reasons to Avoid Dating a Married Man

Hey i know ten reasons to date married people there lonely deprived of love and happiness and need my bed

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wanderinglonely

RE: Should we 'do it' on the first date?

Maybe I could change my mind Hampton. x

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Hampton69ers

RE: Should we 'do it' on the first date?

im proud woman and a lesbian ive always managed making love at first meetings
professor teddybear

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wanderinglonely

RE: 10 Reasons to Avoid Dating a Married Man

Definitely a no no, only sadness will result.

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wanderinglonely

RE: Should we 'do it' on the first date?

I think if you had sex on the first date it would only go downhill from there. I love desire and would want my man to build that desire. Of course you can still make love on the second date lol.

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wanderinglonely

RE: Is Your Relationship Based on Sex?

I think sex is usually the driving force but if you have nothing in common apart from that things will get strained and the relationship will cool. As a women I feel I have to tempt my lover in all sorts of ways but we would have to have similar outlooks on life.

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wanderinglonely

RE: Why You Should Date Older Guys

I prefer younger guys as they keep me on my toes.

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wanderinglonely

RE: Signs a Guy Is Looking for More Than a Hook-Up

I do find it enticing if my guy asks about the future it does indeed bode well if you really like him and want a long relationship.

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wanderinglonely
wanderinglonely

RE: Making Him Wait: Why it’s Brilliant

I always knew we women had the upper hand in dealing with our guys.

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Caprikious

RE: Making Him Wait: Why it’s Brilliant

Sex as a tool of manipulation, brilliant.
Almost as good as force. *sigh

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RE: The Alchemy of Skin and Scent

Wow... One guy asked me to blow on his face, because he loved the smell of my breath... laugh And another one didn't want me to wear any perfumes because he loved my natural scent... Thank God, I am blessed and smell REALLY good... heart beating devil

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