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RE: Winning Against Your Girlfriend

Yikes. The woman you describe in your essay sounds angry and shrewish. Why would you want to continue being with someone like that? And if your friends have commented that you’re with someone who is “selfish, insecure, and uptight”, why haven’t you taken the hint? Why is winning an argument against an out-of-control woman so important to you? That sounds rather unhealthy. And disturbing. Honestly, intense arguments are not necessary to maintain a relationship. Unless you take great pleasure out of fighting with a moody woman, I think you need to consider getting out of the relationship.

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RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?

As a woman it's I'm sure an entirely different approach than how women scam men .I'd say I get at least 5 a week on this site . In fact any message from outside of my own country I start to think SCAMMER straight away . I've blocked all of north America so I think if I'm still get Americans contacting me every day they're most likely scammers .when you're an older woman like me they flatter you hugely think you'll be taken in by being told all this wonderful stuff . So I prefer a normal guy normal take your time conversation. If a man is effusive telling you how wonderful you are etc etc after just a few messages back away he's most likely insincere a con artist regardless of his nationality . You soon get to recognize the scammers for a start he'll be widowed on 150000 plus a year with a phd even though by his command of written word you know english isn't his first laguage hel'l mention "god fearing "....and marriage in his profile often . Its amaxing how many still getting conned by these criminal types .

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RE: How to Text a Man and Keep His Attention

1) tells me he has short attention span, or for women why keep short?

2) wait for shark to bite, Oh yes adding chum to water that what says to me. after hour and jaws comes to bite. I recommend making time and hour to meet on here rather than using text, data charges are insane on mobile phones.

3) Give him treat , oh yeah I give picture where I going next hope he follow that as means...I going see other men that be shocker. No that be something most women population do by accident, send text by accident to wrong person and goes to guy she online dating. oops? She on surf board, she like give him lessons?

4) Oh you know many guys I talked to flirt very aggressively as if I was blockhead and I am not just annoyed why would bring up hey let have sex first meet up.

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RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

For those people who don't like women who have beards this cause of PCOS symptoms...we can't control it we can try but there not whole lot drugs out there on market that help us. Unless we take Fenugreek seed capsules and Raspberry Tea loose Leaves and it help us handle worst hormone loss of things.

I don't doubt in myself I doubt in my clothes there not lot in market in USA alone that help overweight women to dress properly. Prints and styles suck...lot. All fitter women have nice style stuff but those who overweight considered less fashionable clothes to have wear...because they considered less flirty... they do not have much sex or s*xual attraction buzz.

How odd I am pretty certain women who overweight in UK or Europe have more flirty s*xual attraction than I get, IN California you get zero if your fat there are no men here who find me attractive they find me less appealing.

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RE: How to move on after a difficult break-up

I was dating online someone for four months and it was good relationship and he was working I think he was, but I feel that letting him go was right thing, Even though it pains me, Best not drag him to my home and eat him like some dragon lady I can't be something scary...I have to move on, and keep trucking...

I still feel that painful sting... why did I let him go, But I think he find someone better than me. Maybe fitter. She take care of him and his family, She be in local.

I am not local to anyone nice...


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RE: 6 Texts You Shouldn’t Reply To

Oh this would helped if I seen it. 6 texts warning if he could be really creepy... types which hey he knew where you are located...you know that kind helps...

It something I did see if that was seen as creepy text. It was...

Don't text male body with their location say I wish I could go there because tells them you unable to leave home or your married. I am NOT I am just unable to leave home because I last one to leave means I have stay be permanent care taker.

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RE: Single Men Over 50: 5 Ways to Find the Right Woman

Suddenly good tips for men. It seems to me that a woman has become as a matter of success. The richer the man the younger the woman seeks and pays for it. What do women about 50 years? No one needs her rich inner world and a wide range of interests. ??

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RE: How to move on after a difficult break-up

Breaking up is hardest for the person left behind . People invariably assume if you're a woman that you're partner cheated or walked . Women are empowered nowadays don't have to or won't stay in a damaging relationship . If you're feeling more sad than happy its time to leave........living on your own has lots of positives as anyone who's being on their own for years will testify . It's the feeling of needing to have someone that leads people to hook up with unsuitable people. It's why people stay in unhealthy relationships .....they're scared of being alone .

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RE: How to move on after a difficult break-up

I thank God for my aggressive self after my separation. I hope and i pray that i make it with my baby.Thank you for this

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RE: Single Men Over 50: 5 Ways to Find the Right Woman

Thanks you for your nice words and just nailed it. But not most of old ladies that want young guys as our own are of the same age.

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RE: Is Your Man Cheating – 7 Signs

Men cheat more often than women by a mile! Where r u getting yr info?

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RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

It's an individual choice, backed up with many other attributes besides size. If your not attracted to bbw that's fine.

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RE: Why Long Distance Relationships are Doomed to Fail

Good article and spot on. A long distance relationship ship is impossible as you get older because you often have your own home, family and roots and relocating to another area is not a viable option. Plus both sides usually have a lot to lose if things don't pan out.
We all need someone there...when we need them. Not online or on the phone, just there.

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RE: ScamProof from Root

I scammed a Scammer , He wanted to send me money and i told him cash only because he wanted me to Buy Him wall Paintings and Antiques and send them to him.so He sent me 1500 in Travelers Check,s and I Went to The Casino in my Town and told them I wanted to cash them in Because i never had time when i was away on my Honeymoon.mind you i have never been Married when the time came i told Him i sent what he asked for and Made up some Tracking Number ,,,, then Blocked his Phone Number Maybe the Next time he will Learn Never Trust a very wise Canadian

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RE: ScamProof from Root

I.am so good spotting Scammers The way they Talk.. when they ask for you to chat on hangout right away they were married but their wife died in a car accident or from Cancer they are in the army or some Forces they have one child ...they work Over seas ,,, ... Etc and Right click on their Profile Picture and google search sometimes it will come up as a fake

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RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

I.am not Ashamed of who i.am ,And I know I need to Lose weight ,But i find it very Hard to do ,.. Before you start Judging me .Here is the Reason why I.am Big,.. 1 My Dad,s side of the family were all big ..2 ,I.am a very Picky Eater and I.am not One of those People who sit down with 4 or 5 Hamburgers and a Big Pizza and a Dozen Doughnuts ,I don;t eat Fast food . and I try not to eat Junk food I admit I do love my Sweet,s and My Soda and I have cut down on it A lot ... I go walking every day when the Weather is nice ,and I.am always doing stuff around my Apt i don;t sit On my Big Fat A$$ stuffing my face ,, and Most of my Weight is Caused By Fluid and I.am On water Pill.s to Reduce the Fluid ....I.am Probably One of The Nicest People you would ever want to meet ,... I.am Not a Fake or pretend to be someone I.am not ,,,, I.am a very honest lady ,,, and I don;t have a mean Bone in my whole body

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