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RE: What you should know about Online Dating over 50

The older you get the more difficult it gets, i dont expect to find anyone!

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rainbowdream2017

RE: THERE IS NARCISSISM IN THE FACE BOOK OR THE MADMAN OF THE VILLAGE LIVE?

thumbs up I like some of your made points ...."We have become a kind of paparazzi of our own image."laugh Maybe each of us can see some of that in self lol.
True, a certain amount of healthy Narcissism is a necessary surviving tool 'of a life long romance with oneself' and then there are people with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD)who covertly destroys the people who love them. : cheers:
You make it sound as if identifying a Narcissist is Simple as if 'someone is the centre of his own universe' but how do you recognise a Narcissist when a narcissist is behaving as an introvert or a shy person and working undercover to suck you in liking them (usually they pretend to like everything that you like in making you think your their long searched soul mate )? Let's not forget to say that most Narcissist is very charming people... perhaps appearing like a good sweet sheep, that hides dangers wolf inside, Woolf who will eat and suck all from you and give you nothing back.....and that's why they are called 'emotional vampires.'
How can you tell the difference between a Covert narcissist and an Introvert? The covert Narcissist will not necessarily display Narcissistic behaviour that is immediately recognizable!
We don't need to go into a deep psychological evaluation or become a Psychiatrist to understand all rainbow spectrum of Narcissist personality disorders but it is helpful to be aware of red flags warning signs that can save many people from unnecessary painful experiences like; loss of self-esteem, being financially ruined etc.

Here is some basic summary, simple overview what Narcissists usually do to their targets and how to recognise them:
-They are highly manipulative liars, incapable of openly accepting blame or responsibility for anything that isn't positive, and in fact, they relate any such admission to the weakness of other people.
-They call oneself a perfectionist and/or claim to be "a little OCD"
-They have outrageously adolescent daydreams about being a big famous something-or-other, grandiose fantasies about his or her life (I remember one Narcissist wanted me to believe that his distant ancestor like a great-grandfather was King Henry the VIII rolling on the floor laughing Another thing is that he wasn't much into taking self-portraits, although general belief is that all Narcissist love taking self-portraits, otherwise known as “the wand of narcissism,” but personally I do not think that this is necessarily the main recognition characteristic scold ).
-They are exhibitionist-type, being overly competitive and unacceptably aggressive when it comes to getting what they want, they feel a huge sense of (often unearned) entitlement and will manipulate and lie to exploit others to get what they want in seeking totalitarian despotic, sadistic power and control over others.
In first stage they love bombing you but have no any doubt, they can and will drop you off like a hot potato when you stop giving them Narcissist supply... or it can happen for any reason that doesn't make any sense to you...

People with balanced personality and sense of empathy do not just discard person and disappear without giving any closer but to Narcissist it's a "normal pattern of behaviour" ...


Reasons We (Narcissist) Discard

Silent Treatment or Discard

writing detective Good luck to all. teddybear

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PaulDavidPowers

RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

I kinda fell apart after my last marriage failed. The results has been 100 lbs overweight that I'm battling to lose! Women say that I am an attractive man. Yeah well why haven't I had a date in six years. Is it because I am retired living on 1/3 what I use to make financially. I have to say that another divorce, losing our house and everything was the straw that broke the camel's back. But I am happy to say that that I believe in God and our Lord Jesus Christ! That in Him resides total Healing and Restoration. Paul 240-522-6794

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RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

Recently met a girl at gym,she is considerably overweight.but the silver lining was seems she did with that just fine.even few slim ladies were at the gym same time but coudn't compete with her.cheering cheering

so i think whether you fat or not as long as you give it a run,that just fine....

dancing dancing dancing dancing

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Jada_Bella

RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

Nice Article
Love yourself at any size
Confidence in knowing who you are and respecting yourself will attract the same
Never settle for less, if someone is with you only when your thin its not going to last anyway
Love yourself firsthug

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Hilow

RE: How Age Gaps Can Affect a Relationship

The entire affair is the most optical illusion and not even gods can go beyond their delusions....never mind We.
Appearance and sensuality runs in our veins, how can we settle for that which doe not attract us?..

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Hilow

RE: Romance Scammers, Con Artists, Predators, and Pathological Criminals Have No Guilt

You´r not different from the collective world consciousness in being and neither is any one else.

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Hilow

RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?

Not being separate from life, "which is the real cheater," have not arisen yet from sensuality and pleasure-
The entire creation is a cheat in disguise and our creator is the best deceiver.

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RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

I mean you don't look attraktive. But seems most men like it. dunno

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RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

The overweight woman is desirable i believe that

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overcominglove

RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

If all the women are slim what happens to men who love and admire BBW?

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HoldenCaulfied

RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

Firstly, I'm stating this as a guy that's still carrying a few pounds. I'm perhaps 25 lbs heavier than I should be.

The general laws of attraction seem to state otherwise in relation to weight and desirability. Off course there are exceptions but the general consensus is that the more attractive and fit looking your are corresponds with desire. I mean this in the physiological arousal of human beings to each other.The psychological research seems to be evidence that we are attracted to the fit, lean and good looking mating partners because they will provide offspring good healthy off spring. This stuff is coded into our DNA so this politically correct bullshit is wrong. Again, I am saying this as someone who was badly over weight albeit i have lost a significant amount of weight. My confidence has gone up, my self esteem and I feel healthier. To be propagating this kind of bullshit is wrong. Even as an over weight man, I always always found fit beautiful women far far more attractive than an over weight woman. All my life I have experienced it amongst my friends and any man I knew that we found fit normal weight women far more attractive than an over weight woman. So please stop with the problem. You are not doing someone who is over weight any favours by speaking this bull shit crap. You are trying to normalise something that is unhealthy and damaging to someone by trying to normalise it.

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Akeldama40

RE: Why Women Pick the Bad Guys.

All my days I have seem to attract dominate women hence they see me as pu**y whipped to the 10th degree. Many have no respect because of that. A guy needs to earn that respect. First impression counts. If a guy shows he is strong and in control of his life there is a natural attraction ftom women as they seek a leader not a follower. Ever notice in every romance story there is always a hero and a damsel in distress? No matter how much women today claim they dont need a rescue they dont want to be led around on a leash and they think they are so empowered to run corporations or even the presidency deep down they still want a man who is not a momma's boy or some panty waist. Women may want their equal as men do but, the tide is shifting with empowerment of women who are declaring they had enough of abuse from men and making choices to suit them. There is nothing wrong with that. However, men need to still maintain their status in the race or fall on the wayside. The bad guy vs nice guy is always in conflict within himself. Some men display more of the bad guy persona for protection of his ego against other bad guys. Bad guys also have to be in touch with their goodness offering compassion. Women will sometimes gauge how they will be treated by their men by how men get along with their mother. If men dont get along with mom they wont get along with women in general.

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scouser73

RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

Everyone is attractive no matter ur shape or size

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Endorfinusum

RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

The main reasons that overweight women are attractive to most of the man is tht they propagate the signal implying "I am so powerfull, healthy and nutrition-reserved woman that I can raise up lots of children (i.e. offspring of your genealogy) so that your family name goes on". I am one of them who are attracted to chubby/curvy/overweight women.head banger

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JustRidin

RE: Five Ways for Men to be More Attractive to Women

We'd all look similar and where would any individuals be. Rubbishcool

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JustRidin
JustRidin

RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

I am attracted more to overweight women than average size. I also find overweight women have a better personality than average women.

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HoldenCaulfied

RE: Why Women Pick the Bad Guys.

There is elements of some selective 'half truths' is this article and on the other hand it's totally wrong. It's not a universal given and it's all relative as most things in life are. It's subjective depending on the person. Women with low self esteem and abandonment issues will unconsciously pick the men that will full-fill their sick need for abandonment. They will choose insecure relationships because it will match their insecure relationship with their father. The degree of dysfunction which occurred will be to the same degree that they will the person who will match that dysfunction in their present lives. The worse they were neglected the worse the partner they choose can often be. If they were beaten as children they can often gravitate towards a domestic abuser in later life. However, the converse occurs on the other side. A healthy well adjusted young woman will choose nice men who also have a healthy sense of self esteem and will treat them right. Men also can choose women who match their own childhood relationships with their mothers. There is a theory that we unconsciously choose the very people whom will expose the shortcomings and dysfunctions we need to address in ourselves.
So this article is wrong in that it makes a bold and sweeping generalisations about 'women'. It's actually barbed in a tone of misogynistic resentment towards women. I feel he is actually twisting a certain amount of half truths to take a pot shot at women with his own subjective readings from popular psychology. So women picking bad boys is relative to the degree they have suffered dysfunction and how they feel about themselves and the converse is true where healthy women will choose nice men relative to the their own sense of self worth. The person who wrote this is to be possibly a manipulative individual who uses any awareness and insights into how he can manipulate vulnerable women.

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giannisgenetos

RE: Get More Views to Your Profile

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giannisgenetos

RE: Get More Views to Your Profile

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Crystalgirl1

RE: Forgiveness – Is It Really Possible?

It's possible to forgive but really hard to forget sometimes especially if the hurt you deeply.

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Ste19k

RE: My Addiction to Passionate Men

Sorry for this ..however you sound like a selfish little pratt who just puts yourself first..grow up!

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JustRidin

RE: Forgiveness – Is It Really Possible?

It's a hard pill to swallow, but being able to forgive is possible. It doesn't make you weak. It does take time. You will cool down and get it out of your system, and carry on.

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Uglyduckling51

RE: Just DON'T Do It

Never trust another person, whomever they are. Family, friends, bosses, boyfriend or husband. These people will turn on you and backstab you any chance they get. Love doesn't exist and should never be relied on for trust.
You will always get hurt if you do. My opinion only.

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Drawks24

RE: Forgiveness – Is It Really Possible?

Its ok to hurt people they will forgive you. Maby not today, maby not tomorrow, but someday, later that day doh

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SCHinds

RE: Scam Profile Red Flags

Thanks all, for very useful advice.
I'm pretty much sure that I've found one of those lovely scammers:( on Connecting singles...

Classic signs:
Wanted me to get off the site and give private email very quickly. and proposed after 3 days!:D

Seems to have a lot of photos to back up story about his family history (of a very handsome chap (modelling style poses ) but who unfortunately changed his eye colour in some shots.!:D

The long email a classic cut and paste and have found other examples online where all that differs is the name and date of birth:.
eg. I am a Captain currently serving in the USMC ( United State Marine Corps) Born on October 24th 1967 I grew up in Long Island, went to Centereach HS for my high school diploma and got admitted to Fashion Institute Of Technology to study Psychology and Art History Minor with Major in Advertising

Description Native American with Polish name

Could go on, but need to go and click that block button...

Sorry Zygmunt AKA ReaLifePartnerM from Connectingsingles if you are genuine

but I suspect not and as a good friend told me it all seemed too good to be true!:) which is something is something I'd encourage anyone to do is get a friend to cast an impartial eye over anything you receive.

Interested to know if anyone else has come across this one?

Cheers again all, I think I've had a lucky escape and hope I've given some useful info to prevent this happening the others.

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snugglypoobear

RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

Your weight or size doesn't define who you are ... Only you can do that !! teddybear

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FantasyArtMan

RE: Scam Profile Red Flags

Some very good observations! But don't slam us artistic types that know how to take a great photo! :)

Also, don't be too critical of people's spelling and grammar as indicators of a scammer. Nothing is sadder than a woman telling the world how intelligent she is, with poor grammar and capitalization, no punctuation, and the word "intelligent" misspelled! America is a beautiful land, but evidently grammar, punctuation, and spelling have become a lost art for many. They can still be perfectly wonderful people! :)

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christian7790

RE: Get More Views to Your Profile

I am new to this site. Wish I had knew about it much earlier as it seem to be nice. There´s one thing though that might get fixed here or created and that is all the people who hasn´t been here online for several years.
To me it´s destructive to go through the search and find someone who hasn´t been online for many years.
However I have been on several other sites and there are so many scammers. Hope this is not like them.
This site claim to try at least to get rid of them but there´s always a way for scammers.
Will try this one for some time and hope for the best. Thanks for all the advice that is flowing here.

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completeman01

RE: What Do You Do After Making Love To Your Woman?

You naturally wants to be appreciated so should you do to others especially your lover. It's part of the factors that cements your relationship

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