RE: Four Lines That Should Not be in Your Online Dating Profile
Thats the fact, but most people fail to know that.View Article
RE: How to Be Happy in 8 Steps
Jealousy and competitiveness are totally unrelated. Using them in the same sentence is asinine. Jealousy is unnatural and is invariably a symptom of neurotic insecurity, whereas competitiveness is necessary and a highly sought after quality that is most often found in men (lesser in women as they are on average more agreeable) from the beginning of our species. The two have nothing in common. I'm sure most women would be attracted to a an ambitious, competitive man rather than an docile unmotivated slob.View Article
RE: How to Be Happy in 8 Steps
Yes, all want permanent happiness. This is not only unattainable, but this constant need to attain or become is what sets up the unnatural and the human body reacts. It's the cause of all of man’s stress and anxiety.Science has progressed insofar as to demonstrate that free will is an illusion. Any actions you take or believe you choose are the result of prior causes; such as the cooperation of a hundred billion of neurons in the brain that occur without you being conscious of them. This leads people into the fallacy that they have free-will and that they are some locus of consciousness inside the brain “steering the wheel”. You have as much control of what you are going to think and do next as you have over breathing and the creation of red blood cells in the body. Trying to get answers to questions pertaining to happiness is futile. Following someone else's advice, as though they know when they themselves probably don’t even know what’s good for them! That's how ridiculous this is.
The constant striving to be happy or to be anything than what you akready are creates all our so-called problems. This is simply due to the fact that we're fighting with ourselves non-stop and for an unfortunate majority, only death will relieve them from this dilemma.
As long as one has the desire to be happy, he/she will never be. When we realize that happiness and pain are actually two sides of the same coin; in other words, there cannot be happiness without pain, we cease trying to do anything. We can observe the vicious cycle we were caught in, much like watching a bad movie for the fourth time. What is happiness? It's an idea conjured up in the mind. A mere thought. If anyone has a fundamental understanding of the mind, you will come to realize that thought is the cause of the majority of our suffering. (if you pay attention closely, you will realize that thoughts cannot be controlled and are random). We are not authoring our thoughts. That would require you to think them before you think them. See for yourself. Wait for the next thought that appears (out of nowhere, into consciousness. Did you choose the thought? Everything is a happening.
The body will take care of itself if you allow it to. To conclude it must be made clear that articles of this nature cannot solve anyone's problems. All this self-help knowledge including the ridiculous article above will be seen for what it is. Junk, Nobody can give you what you want. This is something to discover for "yourself". Perhaps the author has good intentions, but what he/she doesn't realize is they are contributing to your miseries. The moment you follow a method, you’ve already created conflict. When you cease this obsession, and let everything happen as they’re supposed to, you may find peace and see that whatever actions you take are right actions.
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RE: Scams Aimed at Seniors and How to Avoid them
On dating sites they target older people many of whom are not savvy about the internet . I'm so wise to them now I can tell all their tricks .... they nearly always call you dear which is laughable they earn 10000 to 15000 a year they have high flying career executive management or some kind of engineering they have masters degree or PhD yet can't write English while telling you they are American citizen with photos that may look much younger than age they say they are ...photos look different from their description of themselves might say in profile black eyes but one one they shows guy with blue eyes .... they want god fearing simple woman .....I've read them all .minute you say scammer they never message back .....never give email they ask for it after first message .they're despicable.View Article
RE: Similarities in Bible and Koran
It's right to be tolerant open accepting of others regardless of religion .I'm an atheist was raised Catholic. Muslim and Christian Judaism all tell same story all very similar with some .differences in customs Religion divides people. Religion stigmatizes separates people .Religion gets taken over by people who want to dominate abuse use others . Look at s*xual abuse in Catholic church ......any religion is open to abuse .Religion holds people back controls them tries to think for people. We are as humans capable of thinking acting without being told what to do by some priest or mullah many of whom are narcissistic types wanting to use the power of their position to spread hate division fear ignorance control . People who are enlightened don't need religion there is no God only fantasy and fairy stories for childlike minds .Religion does a lot of damage and much less gooid . We are all human all with same needs for love happiness success for ourselves those we love and care for each other. Religion serves only to separate divide not unite . Germany knows this better than anyoneView Article
RE: In the Minds of Men: The #1 Most Dreaded Question
I've never met a man who I needed advice from .nor would I give him advice on what to wear even if what he wears is unflattering .I look beyond the packaging it's the person inside that matters . Unsolicited advice is usually not received well or just totally ignored by me . Only jealous types who want to put you down say negative stuff about how you look . Jealousy is horrible and destructive . Just be yourself your best self and if someone wants to change that then don't stick around find the person who likes loves you just for who you are.View Article
RE: 12 Signs It's Time to End a Friendship
All true she said I was her best friend ......::sigh:View Article
RE: 10 Tips a Guy Doesn't Want to Date You
Read the signs, Ladies! Every one of these is true. Don't put up with being an option!View Article
RE: 10 Tips a Guy Doesn't Want to Date You
no. 5 is ok if he is a business man, nobody has to know how his business is goingbut all other is true
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RE: Similarities in Bible and Koran
Dear Larrycool,Your article 'Similarities between Islam and christinaty is wonderful.Your research is wonderful.I cant belive that a German is author of this article.The facts U wrote in this article are true.The way U view Muslims &other affairs is wonderful.Some thinkers&media groups havent presented true picture of Islam.Moreover ISIL is an CIA paid organisation creating misunderstanding between Muslims&Christians.But people like U&Angela Miracle are symbol of hope for Muslims.U are realistic people.Stay blessed.Amin!View Article
RE: Scams Aimed at Seniors and How to Avoid them
There are women, or at least photos of women, on this site, who contact older men and play up to them, encouraging them to change to email and stay in contact because they feel something for them.Eventually money will be expected. Older singles must discuss their attraction and the way these connections are going, with a close, savvey person. An alert, knowledgeable person can pick up the inaccuracies in the received messages from the scammer who is making up their tale as they go along.
Men, be realistic! Don't message with women who are more than 10 years older than you and especially even younger women. Their interest in you is flattering but it is designed to bring you to a state where you will be putty in their hands. Date or converse with the opposite sex near your age!
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RE: Dealing with Jealous Friends
If your friend is jealous ......she is NOT your friend .......I put up with this kind of friend for many years I eventually saw her for what she was a, narcissist using me when it suited her dropping me for "more important " people in her eyes . I'm glad she's no longer in my life she was very fake put on big show of affection if someone around but if no one around shed criticize belittle me or try to .....lots of charm that could turn to rage quickly if even mildest criticism of her and her behaviour .... men too fell for her charm but we're deeply wonder by her infidelity and controlling jealous behaviourView Article
RE: Why You Should Date Older Guys
Older men are easily fooled by much younger women .a beautiful young woman is irresistible to a much older man I'm talking man 55 plus and woman maybe 30 yrs of age . He's flattered he's turned on he convinces himself he's so handsome and irresistible by her messages but she's after his money security. If he has huge wealth shell stick around if not shell find guy with more money. Sad but true ......there's no fool like an old fool .......::
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RE: The Danger in Dating a Control Freak
why is this based on men only as control freaks?View Article
RE: Men to Avoid Dating Based on Their Handwriting Characteristics
"Graphology or handwriting analysis is the pseudoscientific idea that it is possible to assess someone's personality by analyzing their handwriting... no scientifically controlled studies have shown it to be effective."In other words, this is pure bunk.
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RE: Red Flags You Shouldn't Ignore When Dating Someone New
MY girl friend. I CANT TAKE MY EYES OFF HER. she is 76 iam 69. one day she said I will NOT dress like an old lady. she ALWAYS looks like she stepped out of a fashion magazine.View Article
RE: Why You Should Date Older Guys
iam 69. been dating 3 years. i have NO trouble getting young girls to talk about dating in a serous way. i know your going to say they just want my money. after a while i can see those easy. even before the subject of money comes up. most of the girls in there 20-30 say they cant find a good man there age. one girl 30 ish . have talking to about 2 years. says if she cant have me she wants NO one eles. we have never meet. and i am sure she would be a great wife. i NEVER thought that so many in that age range could be / would be serous about a man my age. when i started dating i didnt think the side benefit would be reg friends.View Article
RE: 4 Signs You're Getting Played Online
i am a busy man seeking a good woman,, but it means that no woman wants a true loving here,, i am a busy man but still has time eve in and outside my working hours... but i have not any good woman yet,,, how do i get others to know that i am real and i need a real woman too????
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RE: Should we 'do it' on the first date?
Too many words for such a simple matter. The OP also continues this falacy of showing that women don't like sex as much as men which is simply false. "It creates and imbalance" and all this nonsense, The imbalance is self-created and in your head. (Not an ad-hominem attack).It's pleasure for both but when you start overthinking you create stories and problems, all of which are illusions.
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RE: The Danger in Dating a Control Freak
Not only men are control freaks, I have had the misfortune to run into 2 women who were also major control freaks.Very scary...
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RE: 4 Signs You Might Be Involved With An Abuser
I love the issue this article talks about, controling, manipulating, but not how talks about it. Its narrowed traditionaly, showing men as evil. Woman are worster in that as can create a sense that they are victims!View Article
RE: 4 Signs That You Are A Naive Woman When Online Dating
If a profile is too good to be true it's most likely a scam he'll say his parents died he was an orphan he'll pretend he's religious if be thinks you're religious too he'll have stolen someone's pictures off internet or have no picture at all . His English while mostly perfect will have jarring errors and he'll be asking for your email after couple of messages don't give your email...scammers can get into your bank account if you do online banking . If you're older they assume your naive and many older people are because they new to the internet scene . Also guys that are way younger are looking for sex not a relationship as for men with women way younger most men don't care if she looks good sad but true .if you think he's a scammer say it to him he'll disappear in an instant is what I've found .......View Article
RE: 4 Signs That You Are A Naive Woman When Online Dating
Could not imagine those naïve in the real world, how do they deal with those type of people..Thanks God for the cyber world to help us not wasting time and income with them in the real life.
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RE: 4 Little Red Flags That Are Really Big Red Flags
Leave or move on , is the better solution
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RE: 4 Signs You Might Be Involved With An Abuser
Sadness to any victims...Must be smart and strong to away from them...
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RE: The 3 Don'ts of Relationship Breakups
Cool Article!Any heart breaker and painful should know how to cure their symptom
Thanks a lot!
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RE: 4 Signs You're Getting Played Online
Best advice and all of that fact are true.Experience will lead you to the right track..
Men who behave as these... Shame on them don't they?
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RE: Relationship Tips: How to Deal with your Girlfriend’s Ex
Why need to turn back to the past... OVER means OVERThe great issues still remain only... APPRECIATED!
Seems to be guys prefer to be evil obsession no matter ex. or present.
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RE: Why You Should Date Older Guys
I met someone here who’s 25 years my senior. We hit it off on the get go!I’m now awaiting for the approval of US fiancée visa and hopefully we’d be married before the year ends.
Thank you, CS
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RE: Should we 'do it' on the first date?
This article is intriguing. Firstly, on the subject of Women. Women know the first time on a date if they want or chose to sleep with THAT person, intially. There has to be chemistry and attraction. Despite what anyone claims. Aesthetics play into the equation.
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RE: Should we 'do it' on the first date?
David Beckham.......!!! Oh please dont lower yourself.... He talks like a ' Twat '..... You must love ' Twat '...???View Article
RE: Relationship Tips: How to Deal with your Girlfriend’s Ex
Dont need exs along for the ride.View Article
RE: Is Your Relationship Based on Sex?
But faith is the very very important in every relation
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