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RE: God healed my son of cancer

Glory be Jesus Christ ,our healer.

RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?

so very very true

RE: How to Compliment a Woman

Really is that right,seriously

RE: 4 Signs You Are A Submissive Girlfriend

Very true.

RE: How To Tame Your Need To Chase Him

Advise I can deffinately use....I don't want to
Thanx so much...mwah

RE: God healed my son of cancer

Which god was it? There are much more than 1,000 religions i the world, with a total of much more than 100,000 different gods. Please tell us which of them we should believe in to cure cancer.

You mention Jesus, so you are probably thinking of the Christian good, or maybe the Muslim god; they also believe in Jesus to some degree.

Christian religion is divided into hundreds of different flavors: Armenian orthodox, coptic, mormon, jacobins, anglicans, dominicans, greek orthodox, protestant, jesuite, catholic, presbyterian and so on and on and on. Many of these hate each other. E.g., a Russian-orthodox priest will not allow a girl of his flavor of God to marry a protestant man, since what protestants believe is "wrong" according to the Russian-orthodox. Is it important which flavor of the christian invisible man you are talking to?

Or maybe it is better to believe in medical doctors, who are able to save much more than 50 % of those who get leukemia. Nonbelievers in modern countries have an extremely much better chance of survival than believers in poor countries. It seems that having a good doctor is extremely much more important than having a good god.

RE: Obsession Is Not Love

Ive been in this situation, where a man came on very quickly, of course I was flattered and fancied him so didnt notice the Red Flags , but 'falling in love'' too quickly is one of them. These people take the blood from you... you will give all and they will take it, slowly you will find your life [just like you said ] revolving around this man to the detriment of friends and you will then be dependent on him, or her, it is a painful thing and i would advise anyone to go for counselling after it or if they suspect it. Great article. thanks

RE: The Upside of Living Alone

I enjoyed this.. i really believe you have to be happy alone before you can be happy with somebody and live with them. If we expect somebody to make us happy... We are in for a surprise.. We can only make ourselves happy,, if we come to a relationship looking for a man to make us happy [or woman] then we will be co dependent and also dependent, and needy. Not a good recipe.

RE: How To Know When Your Partner is Using You

Thanks , this is a very good article and worth reading, yep , even at my age !!

RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?

Ha-ha-ha! Splendid! May I give an answer to both sides.
Of coarse the scammers are very polite, chivalry and attractive in words, dear friends. That is their profession and their special field of earning good income. Even - quite good sometimes!
I really enjoy flirting from time to time but that's all!
Real men and real women have other qualities and ways of expressing themselves.Life has changed and we don't live in the old
romantic times. Or let me say it in other words: the romance has changed as well and it doesn't smell pink!

RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?

Excuse me, are you all going nuts here??? How can you post such a silly comment??



1) If women FALL for some cheaters just because they flirt better, something is wrong with the WOMEN. Perhaps they are not out of puberty yet, even aged 60.

2) And what does dishonest complimenting have to do with "willing to express themselves"??

3) True, its easy to fool any woman, just, for instance, by saying she is soooo pretty.
sending her flowers etc. etc. and making false promises till death parts them....

The woman who falls for such illusions should ask herself: "What do i mean by posting here, in my own profile: 'only honest guys please!' 'any liar please forget about me' 'scammers have no chance' etc. etc.

4) The article is discriminating of men! Written in a way as if there were no female scammers. The percentage of women who display an old photograph here, or make false statements, simply because they are tired of working, hence looking for a financial supporter is over 65%. This, too, is a kind of scamming. Of course women never admit their need for an easy life. They call it 'supporting the wife.'

5) How can the writer of this absurd post speak of "manners" just because men still have an ethic code they adhere to, rather than bullshitting around?

6) And there are those who, aged 65, write in their profile 'Looking for Mr. Right' - putting a picture they found ages ago. This shows that women are the dreamers. In fact, 90% here are looking for benefits and advantages of any sort. . . seeking a GIVER. Its a world of TAKE AS MUCH YOU CAN, rather than GIVING.

7) "Many polls have shown (???) that wealthy men want women who have their own career and money...". Well, you can bet any amount, they won't look for a partner here.

RE: Benefits of Being Spiritual

so true

RE: How To Tame Your Need To Chase Him

very helpful :)
i might just try this :) :) :)

RE: How to Attract The Right Dating Partner

good post. Wonder if they change

RE: How to Attract The Right Dating Partner

ye thats true

RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?

p.s that screen has been deleted...lol

RE: God healed my son of cancer

HI ,EVEN IF ITS WAS GOD THAT DID NOT HELP ,,,ALL THAT MATTERS IS YOU THINK HE DID, AND WHAT ANYBODY SAYS YOU THINK THAT HE DID ,,, TERRY,,,,I DONT THINK THAT THE GOD THAT PEOPLE THING OF IS REAL ,,,,IT THE LOVE THATS INSIDE US ALL ,,,GOOD AND EVIL ,,,

RE: God healed my son of cancer

He is God of promises I am a wittiness coz he healed me too glory be to him AMEN

RE: 5 Things You Should NOT Do, If You’re NOT Married

I had been with a gal for just under two years,she had me engage her twice (once with my ring,other was her deceased mothers.) I lived up to all these things mentioned above plus and she was making me meals every day,offered CD's she had from her ex husband and even took me visiting her and my family in both celebration and simple visitation. I raised and trained two dogs for her unasked and unappreciated.I gave myself to her whole heartedly and totally in sincerity,I met her on a dating site I was a beta tester for and in the end lost my home,dating profile and lifestyle because I moved in with her under HER request or suggest.
In the end it all wound up in her favor because she had that princess knows best attitude and expect about things overall...had no idea that she was a secret drunk and then was scrutinized and back stabbed and treated quite unprofessionally by her neighbors whom she was very friendly with as well as drinking partners with and were biased in their reaction to us being internet daters. I escorted her all over the place including overseas and in the end was kicked to the curb in favor of a stranger she met and married because he had a place by the lake which she did also and then inadvertently also discovered he was/is a mega-multiply convicted drunk. She told her friend she grew up with that confided in me she and her husband disliked because of his attitude and demeanor when answering her phone and overall acted like they should know him well even though they only spoke once previous and then were expected to accept and know his name like it was old hat! She then convinced her family he was successful by lying to them about him and to this day I have no doubts she still drinks Rum like a fish.
I left her broken hearted and abused because I refuse to stay where I am mistreated and unloved...she couldn't even be nice to me a s friend in the end and burned all my Art and dispensed of anything that implied me but yet kept all the things around of her ex husband including some of his ashes and previous possessions because it was he whom helped project and propel her to where she is now financially. I helped her also because I made her look good by stopping by her work with flowers and cards of appreciation and even her dogs so she could come out and hug them and talk to her friends at work about them. I paid all the utilities and always did as she asked and respected her greatly including Thanking her for everything she had ever made me food or purchase wise which I explained she did not need to do to please me because SHE was my living pleasure including the intimacy...she would flail her arms and legs in bed and snore like a chainsaw but our relationship went south she started to make unrealistic demands of me and treat me like some fool or worse...I asked her why she wouldn't marry me and both times got the response of;"I can't" which when asked why she simply refused to address...I wanted to walk out on her but kept up the charade hoping to get her to agree to counseling noticing her drinking was rather excessive and nightly until one day she decided to boot me out rather than be honest and work with me on and over it all. I see now she is stuck in a nasty relationship she is fearful of ending because he was her "Bad boy" which she told her friend she secretly always wanted! Imagine the grief in my heart when she became as cold and calloused as marrying a total stranger and not telling me until it was too late and not being willing to work things out as friends when I moved into my own apartment as asked? I almost died from it.
This is a nice column/post Thank you for sharing!

RE: God healed my son of cancer

Blessed Sharnah, My Dear sister in the name of Jesus!

I think you are very brave to publish the story of your son. Many people have been cured and their life has been extented by Jesus Christ in order for them to repent and stop committing sins and help themselves and others to believe in HIM, but they have a kind of fear that people will make them fool; they do not say a word for Him that is everymoment sacrificed to help all of us to love Him, our salvation, the whole humanity.

The point is HOW to believe in God. He revealled Himself to us in order to change our way of thinking and our way of living. TO BELIEVE IN HIM and not in our selves. Therefore we must constantly struggle against our vices and clean our heart of the monster called narkissus. Then, only when our heart is clean, we can love God and the whole humanity, because then there will be ample space for the Holly Trinity and all humans in our heart.

However we must continuously have in mind what Jesus said to the man that was invalid for thirty-eight years, after curring him: "See, you are well again. Stop sinning or something worse may happen to you" (John 5,14).

I do believe the miracle on your son! I have met personally a man that had cancer in his head and a girl that had cancer everywhere in her body and were cured 100%, whilst their relatives were waiting for their death. Praise to our Lord God.

RE: How to Dress to Attract a Man: A Guide for Women over 40

Being well over sixty, I think everyone should dress to how they feel & what is comfortable, but more importantly, clothes that are suitable for your age group. They don't have to be dowdy or ultra expensive, buy a lot of mix & match combinations. Well fitting clothing that don't date is the best way to start, you can always dress them up with accessories. You can look well dressed & smart on a budget, but make sure make up is not cheap & nasty as well & don't overdo it. Clean skin to start with & moisturizer is a must, morning & night, every morning & night. You must take care of your skin if you want to look fresh & chic. Skin care is much more important than the make up you put on it.