So I have a year left in University and I am so excited about completing my degree.
For all those who have been through the process you know it can be very exciting as well as overwhelming at times.
I was suddenly struck with the reality of those who graduated before me, that there is little or no financial security out there
After all my parents investment, I might not be able to find a decent job or I might get laid off.
This bothers me so much.
Just a few weeks before my final exams, my friend introduced me to a few of her business associates and I got the opportunity of a lifetime.
With help from my mom i started my own gourmet hot beverage business and I get to help others to start there own as well as experience the wonders and health benefits of these wonderful products.
At the end of the day guys, no matter what your career is, always have a thing on the side, because you are worth it and so is your family.
Financial Freedom Rocks!!!
So this guy seem very concerned about a previous blog i had written "I need my Space". He thought that my idea of a relationship with space or boundaries were bound to doom
.
Well everyone as there opinion.
What HE SAID:do you know any one looking for "I need MY SPACE!!" never gets a soul mate but only a spouse?
there is no matter of space in true love. its only for them who wants to build walls in their relationship. Though its very common phrase for those who always have relationship problem putting ownself in the center. break the space, break the walls then we could feel real love.
MY RESPONSEThanks for your feedback. I am a very loving person and i enjoy being around the person I am in a relationship with, but trust me everybody need there space.
Have you ever heard of the phrase "absence makes the heart grow founder".
You can show your love in many ways, dropping a note to say i love you, exchanging pleasant conversation with the person's friends or families. But there is a difference when the person goes out of their way to keep you away from family and friends so they can control what you do and say, It is different my friend when that person wants to lock you away in a little world, which only consist of you and him.If someone truly loves you they appreciate the people in your life as well, also your social life. 
Guys keep sending your feedback
HEY YOU!!!! YES YOU. You are wonderfully made, so go right ahead and give yourself a hug. You are
beautiful/
handsome just the way you are.
. Life is way too short for self doubt, love yourself and accept yourself.
simplyked
I am walking into a store and this guy cuts in front of me, grabs the door and before i could reach for it he lets it go in my face.
By this time i am pissed
ok i'll let this one go but after it kept reoccurring for the day, I knew i had to say something about it.
I wonder what is the cause of this specie of men going extinct.
Is it because there is a lack of proper male role models in the home or community?
Is it that women have out grown the company of such a man in the name of INDEPENDENCE, if so
the men are not totally at fault, what is up with women who don't demand this type of respect, or even worst those who refuse it when the men do try to be gentleman-like.
Parents teach your children common courtesies,especially your boys.
To all the gentlemen out there lots of love and respect.
Simplyked...
I really have an idea of how I want my life to be,but sometimes i wonder if I am being too naive or ambitious, when i refuse to lower my standards, when i value myself enough to know i deserve better.
I would like to know, do you know of any real life fairytale? do u believe in such things? (yeah i know there will be hard times and disagreements) having someone who completes not only your life but someone who touches the very depths of your soul
would be very comforting.
I love black men, but I have always wondered what it would be like to date outside of my race.I believe that love knows no boundaries and people should try not to limit themselves as it regards to their dating criterion. hmmmm well that's what i think, what about you?
The heart wants what the heart wants!!
1.You snore
2. You attack your food
3. You feel your always right
4.You are arrogant
5.You dress carefree
6. Your extremely shy
6.Your a gentleman when possible (you do try)
7.Your lousy when it comes on to letting me know how u feel
and the list continues...
Truth is you might not be very good at manipulating the heart,when your heart says yes, you know the rest.
Your partner might be your total opposite
but sometimes that's all you need to complete you
.
This is by no means an excuse to settle for less or become a victim of abuse, but I am just saying, is your list fool proof.
This is just my list,but everyone as their own list hedged into their minds.
Is your partner the opposite of what you thought you wanted?
if so...
let me know
simplyked
I must say thank you guys for the many responses
Have you ever dated someone, whom although is a decent human being annoys you to the point of hatred? Well many people find themselves in such a situation.He/she may invade your personal space and feel that if they are not on the phone with you, they should be beside you or talking to you via messenger.
How do you deal with this situation? Well you tell the person you need your space, lets face it no matter how inlove we believe we are ,we all need personal space.We all need to be left alone sometimes or just hang with our friends.
Life is funny ,as pushing too close and too fast can turn a person off drastically, no matter how strong your urges to love that person is you should learn, not to seem too desperate as this is a major turnoff.Keep it on a level playing field let the person know that you want them as much as they want you. After all why should you make someone a priority in your life when you are only an option in theirs.
Published by Kedesha Blake
What are the plans for today?? What about taking out the family later or having a little lime. Thank God for the weekend
Tell me about your day? did anything fun ?
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