Lets agree to disagree

So this guy seem very concerned about a previous blog i had written "I need my Space". He thought that my idea of a relationship with space or boundaries were bound to doom

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Well everyone as there opinion.

What HE SAID:
do you know any one looking for "I need MY SPACE!!" never gets a soul mate but only a spouse?

there is no matter of space in true love. its only for them who wants to build walls in their relationship. Though its very common phrase for those who always have relationship problem putting ownself in the center. break the space, break the walls then we could feel real love.

MY RESPONSE

Thanks for your feedback. I am a very loving person and i enjoy being around the person I am in a relationship with, but trust me everybody need there space.
Have you ever heard of the phrase "absence makes the heart grow founder".
You can show your love in many ways, dropping a note to say i love you, exchanging pleasant conversation with the person's friends or families. But there is a difference when the person goes out of their way to keep you away from family and friends so they can control what you do and say, It is different my friend when that person wants to lock you away in a little world, which only consist of you and him.If someone truly loves you they appreciate the people in your life as well, also your social life.

Guys keep sending your feedback

Comments (4)

particolor●Inverell, New South Wales Australia

Jul 23, 2011●9,376 Comments

I read that,but who wants the space you or him,I take it as you do??I take that he is overbearing.Is that it..

simplykedOP●Kingston, Jamaica

Jul 24, 2011●11 Blogs●25 Comments

@particolor it is actually from a past experience where the person was very overbearing and controlling and that in turn pushed me away.

moodyblues●CAPE TOWN, Western Cape South Africa

Jul 25, 2011●1 Blogs●20 Comments

I've had this complaint as well, but I agree with you completely. 24/7 together can be a killer. He can go camping with the guys and I can spend some girl time painting my nails.