Okay, I've been single now since march, after I left my husband after 12 years together. Not going to go into a lot of detail but it was a pretty messy ending and it's left me feeling somewhat 'nervous' about hitting the whole dating scene again.
So that's why I decided to try out online dating, somehow it's just not as scary if that makes sense?
Anyways, hopefully i'm now ready to find a new love, if he is out there
How do you know when you are crossing the fine line of being picky to coming across as being arrogant or nasty (which i'm not, I wouldn't hurt a fly).
I'm going to be totally honest, due to my previous relationship, I pretty much felt like I "settled" for someone who turned out to be the most selfish idiot I've ever met. I put my whole life on hold (I stayed at home and brought our kids up while he pursued his career but every time I wanted to start my own goals up, something always came up that meant he always came first. Sometimes I just didn't think my own life was ever going to take off. Finally I'd had enough,he then threw it all away and when he crossed the line from being selfish to something else which I won't go into).
Bottom line is, i've now got this "idea" of exactly the type of guy i'm hoping to meet as nutty as this is probably going to sound. I want him to be passionate about life that he loves his job, it's more than just a job to him. He's gotta stimulate me mentally and understand that my life just isn't always gonna revolve around him, that I have my own career goals and social life as well as two great kids I love to bits. To make me laugh and understand that I'm not really the cuddly type all the time.
Am I being too picky or is there anyone else out there that feels the same way? x
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