Ok so years ago im in a great relationship of 3 years in the running (was long distance but we did visit and such) one day she was on a flight in which came in a day earlier(didnt know till she called to let me know the same day) the day I was planning on picking her up I had called friends of ours to meet me up there to greet her along with 4 dosen of her fav flowers purple lilies and ask her to marry me.Nice right?..anyways she calls saying she messed up.I asked if she missed her flight and she said no..apparently she slept with a random guy who gave her a ride to the hotel she was staying at. I was upset.. but I forgave her ..she left with the guy a couple days later. ..2 Weeks later I get a call from her phone it was the guy she slept with he said she was in the shower and decided to look through her phone and found my number.. to make it short she told him she was single and after we talked a few mins he said his apologies not knowing about me kicked her out and dumped her.. to this day we been friends ever since...lol
Over the years Ive seen both men and woman jump to conclusions about relationship type deals.. Its mostly caused between a few things of miss-communication, txt's not going thru or coming in late and such.. as well as many many other things. People need to learn a few things like being more trusting or patient this is the time of "I want it now or no deal" and alot of relationships end on bad terms cause of it. for example say a girl was suppose to meet a guy and he didnt show txt call or anything.. in that time his phone could have died "more likely if they call and txt alot" a problem with family or something.. like parents taking the phone or something "mostly for teens living at home still" and various other reasons. Ive seen this happen alot even in some of my own relationships and have helped a few friends sort out those misunderstandings as things would become awkward afterwards if they broke up.
A few key things to remember is:
*Rome wasnt built in a day.. "And neither are relationships."
*Patients is a virtue.. "Dont be over sensitive about if someone dosent call you or txt you back within a certain time give people time and you can see the clearer picture."
*Dont stand in front of the bus. "Be patient be trusting but dont be a doormat know limitations on waiting for someone."
*It takes a pound of faith and a ounce of regret to rule a relationship."It takes alot to trust someone but it dosent take alot of mistrust to ruin something good.
Ok so lately Ive gotten alot of nadda past few weeks.. I mean seems like people avoid my profile or something.. I once had a meeting setup and the girl ditches same day.. I havent heard anything from her since.. I mean we wasnt on any negitive terms or anything and she seemed thrilled to meet. Im starting to think Im too easily preyed on by those likeing to find suckers.
Eh.. it dont bother me much but I mean atleast if they arent interested Id like a answer of some type.. even if its as blunt as "I dont like you dont bother me" lol.. I mean Im a very understanding person..
I think my problem is Im too nice -.-" atleast Ive heard that a few times anyways.. but thats normally before I get cheated on. Eh owell what can ya do. Just wantin someone.
Ok this was a joke told to me by a jewish friend..
Ok so a kid and his dad are standing at theyre stove and the man is cooking sour kraut and kosher hotdogs what kind they was and the man jokeingly called them jew-dogs.. the boy said in school we learned that the germans was called krauts in WWII and made the remark "dad putting the Germans on the jews again?" the man stould silent a moment and laughed then replied "only untill the allies top them off" as he squirt ketchup and mustard on his sour kraut dog.
ok this was told by a jewish man so dont call me racist or anything of the sort it wasnt me that made that up... true its a little insulting I think atleast ..but its still a little funny.
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