You believe your partner is
the best thing that could have
happened to you. He/she is
loving, caring and
demonstrative, and perhaps,
you couldn’t have asked for more. But wait for a fight to
happen and then lo and
behold! The floodgates of hell
are ready to break loose. And
you will hear the most vicious
and caustic words ever. So, what do you do while the
tirade is going on – do you
keep quiet, holding hard on to
your self-control? Or do your
storm back? Do you call upon
the same self-control in every relationship? We’d like to
know from you – how vital is
self-control in a relationship?
How is it that you feel when
you are being subjected to the
worst possible things? When do you speak up, if at all?