I've decided that at the end of the month I'm saying goodbye to the site. Even though it's free I haven't had much reason to log on except in times of boredom or just to see who was on. The people i've talked to are gone and since i've never met anyone off here i see no reason to continue. I've enjoyed talking to the people that i have and hope everyone on here finds what they're looking for whether it's on this site, or another or somewhere else.
So, since this is my final hoorah, i decided to revamp my profile and begin the countdown. If there's anyone that'd care to take a look, be my guest. I will actually respond to an email, as long as your a real person that's not playing games and really wants to talk to a nice guy.
To everyone else. I wish you all good luck and happiness. It's been fun.
Some men just don't appreciate what they have. A co-worker recently told me that during her b-day trip with her boyfriend, the couple they were staying with got into an argument. Actually the boyfriend got up in the middle of dinner and verbally berated the girl in front of them calling her names and saying she's only good for a f***. My co-worker showed me some pics and she's a very pretty girl. I've had friends and former relations that have endured abuse in the past. I will NEVER understand why some guys treat beautiful woman like sh**. Or even more so, why some women allow it. Maybe it's fear, maybe it's low self esteem, maybe they think nothings better out there. So here's some inspiration for any female thats ever 'lost faith' in the male gender. No matter how many guys give 'us' a bad name, there's plenty that don't.
For every woman thats been hit by a man, there's one that will caress her face with a warm hand.
For every woman thats been wrongly verbally abused, there's a man that will tell her she's beautiful and whisper compliments in her ear.
For every woman thats been cheated on, there's a man that will be faithful for life.
For every woman that thinks chivalry is dead, there's a man thats waiting to sweep her off her feet.
For every woman thats been taken for granted, there's a man that would feel lucky to have her.
For every woman thats been told to know her place, there's a man thats waiting to put her on a pedestal.
For every woman thats been with a man that won't commit, there's a man that wants to go ring shopping.
In an ideal world, everyone would be able to find their perfect partner, including me, until then..... I'm just trying to keep the faith.
I'm pretty much at the point where I take 'internet' dating as a complete joke. I've been on numerous sites off and on for about 2 yrs. Some free, some paid. And it seems like it's the same old tired story. Though the faces change, though sometimes I see familiar faces on each site i try, woman 'say' they want this, this and this but I all honesty i think their lying their asses off!!! allow me to elaborate. During my time on here i've searched through local people, gone statewide even global. I see lots of attractive woman and some people that just sound cool to email. So i do. Now keep in mind these emails are nice, casual hello's. There's no 'hey baby' or booty call references or flirtation at all. And... GASP, i actually READ their profile and comment on something in it on my message. YET, most are read, ignored or deleted without even a profile click. Now, Common freakin sense says that if i get an email I'm gonna look at their profile. Even if I'm not interested, it's 'at least in my mind' COMMON-FREAKIN courtesy to send back a message of either 'hi, not thank you' or something to that effect. I know there's a lot of freaks out there but to not even bother reading an email someone took the time to send is just RUDE!!!! Woman say their looking for nice guy that treats them right with no drama. Well, when one just happens to come along, apparantly they turn a blind eye to them. I know for a fact i could've saved at least one girl from a bad relationship if she'd gave me a shot. I'm on this site in genuine search for someone, the real thing if you will. I do talk to some people on here and genuinely enjoy it. I think some profiles need to change their headline to 'won't respond so don't bother.' I'm not the boastfull type but i do know that whoever snags me whether online or not will have a guy that a lot of other women wished they had.
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