After cruising months after months, I finally realized that finding a companion in this dating site is ludicrous fantasy. It is a joke or useless and stupid concept. Not because of scammers or con artists.
Human being is not a manufactured product can be matched on the internet like Amazon dot com.
To figure out the complexity of psychology and personality through messages after message or chatting can be done in theory but not plausible and practical at all.
If I meet a person in a class room of graduate school, I would know already she had BS degree and a pretty motivated person in career and study wise without going all the verification process. And I will have plenty of time to observe her or him in the mean time while I’m doing my own task. But on the internet it is a completely impossible dream to achieve the same amount of objective as in the class room even you spend a fortune and time to do so.
And everyone is wrapped with layers of defensive shields whether it is male or female because of the fear of being scammed or hacked. The funny fact is that males are more prone to be scammed but females are thousands times more defensive. Looking all the paid or free dating sites, you will see only sites with young Asian girls with sensual photos targeting males all over the world. I never saw any site with half naked male photos up front targeting women.
I personally know a half dozen guys who got married to young Asian girls from far south eastern country with islands in spite of warnings and was dumped later on once the spouse got the green card. One of the guy even adopted three young children of spouse’s previous marriage and has to pay the child support after being dumped. It is a premeditated plan obviously and well known occurrence but still there are continuous supply of the victims. But the same incidence to female is unheard of. The marriage victim is usually male not female. Somehow woman are more precarious in response than man.
In a nutshell we are not designed to meet on the internet. We have to smell the scents and feel the touch in near proximity just like other animals. Otherwise this dating website will be traded in public and the price of stock will have no limit to go high like Amazon dot com. It is an illusive dream in the fantasy island. I’m done.
It would be better to remove outdated profiles with no activities. Who knows they left to eternity after heart attack or stroke. Old folks like me has more likely higher chance of sending a message to already deceased persons. No one will know the dead has an account on free dating sites which are careless about it.
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