It has been seen in many cases that Intimate relationships create opportunities for lying.
When one such relation is developed then why they do so???
Its obvious that the pace of time is getting rapid with every passing day but it has been experienced that man always tries to go beyond time.
Ok...Maybe its human instinct.
But problem occurs when we see some people busy to find such schemes to defraud the innocents??
Sometimes i feel much dejection about why they use unfair means and defraud their own fellows even they know that this will badly effect such victims???
Yesterday has gone with the wind
Today is kissing my mortal eyes
Tomorrow is knocking at my door
Day after tomorrow
Maybe, I would be no more
I was alone before
I m alone today
&
I would be alone hereafter
People come & go
Meet & greet
Weep & smile
Speak & listen
Then leave with a fake smile & disappear in the mysteries of unreliable time
What remains in the end is nothing but only....
"ME FOR MYSELF"
The worst enemy of friendship is change in behavior of one partner or both.
Yet i cant understand that why and how this change takes place when they are already friends....?????
Today i gone through a profile and feel great pleasure where the member stated that LOVE STILL EXISTS.
Its great passion and positive thinking attitude but on the other hand its also question of the day....
IS LOVE STILL EXISTS??????
Its said by some scholars that.........
All love that has not friendship for its base,
Is like a mansion built upon the sand.
I asked in my previous blog that is love possible in first sight, i received some replies in negative results......
Then what about arrange marriages which are present in a lot of country in its original shape
some people say that between men and women there is no friendship possible. The only passion which can be developed between them is love, worship or enmity.
I think friedship between men and women can be of a high quality bcoz they can express their feelings with each other which they cant do in other case.
But....
The question about a man's and woman friendship is still open.
whats ur opinion???
Friendship is a mutual intimacy of mind which we all naturally crave and is created and sustained through an iterative cycle of building mutual trust through the love-motivated communication.
But....
what about when once we succeed in developing the relation and afterwards we feel that there are still present some misunderstandings and lack of trust.
But on the other hand we still want to sustain the relation.
how can this relation be further sustained???
It has been said that love is the solution to the problem of man's alienation from himself, from others, and from the world. is it so....?
if so, then why mostly people "INFECTED" from love look sad???
some people say....
behid every successful man, there is a woman.
while others say....
women go only behind successful men
In a broad, rational sense, meditation is about living in the present moment. But perhaps it's exact meaning is to be experienced by each individual. Ramakrishna once said, "As many minds, so many paths." Just in the way that two people can watch the same movie and get two entirely different things out of it, meditation also yields different experiences.
It seems a relationship or an event is called meaningful only when it is believed to be for the good. Even the terrible experiences of combat or of being ill or starving or of being shot or of being fired may be called meaningful, but only when it is felt that some greater good (involving, say, greater self-awareness, greater awareness of the good of health, greater appreciation for others less fortunate, greater understanding of personal responsibility or potential, etc.) accrues from the experience. I do not believe I have ever heard anyone describe as meaningful what they perceived as an altogether bad and totally unredeeming experience. And indeed when someone else describes an experience or relationship as meaningful, the question seems to come to mind immediately as to what (good) they got, or get, out of it. If they could think of no good at all, I think we would be puzzled why they considered it meaningful then..........................
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