Arrange marriage or Marriage after Friendship.....
Its said by some scholars that.........All love that has not friendship for its base,
Is like a mansion built upon the sand.
I asked in my previous blog that is love possible in first sight, i received some replies in negative results......
Then what about arrange marriages which are present in a lot of country in its original shape
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It is based mostly on commitments and understanding.
But the commitments come first. And understanding is the language of communicating.
We should put high respect in the marriege to avoid all the acts and thoughts that could destroy it.
I think it is the same in all country. . .
is this a wrong method?
In a perfect arranged marriage I'd expect both would work very hard at making the relationship function. Something that does not always happen in relationships based on attraction. When the fascination is gone often the relationship is too.
I suppose if I had a child and lived in a country where it was common practice I would want a very close relationship with the family from long before the time our children were supposed to marry to be sure everything was going to be as smooth as possible between the bride and groom and out families.
In my country, the parents approval and blessings are very important,and there is also marriage counseling and courses..
But I am sure that no matter what and where the country is, getting the real marriege it is not as simple as just saying the vows....