Trust- We must learn to trust our women, because that is one of the keys to a strong foundation. Don't assume that she is doing something just because you don't know her whereabouts at all times during the day. Besides if you need to know all that then you have serious control issues. But if she is doing something, then check yourself, because you may not be taking care of your business. But some women, like some men are scandalous and if that is the case move on.
Respect- this is major, we must respect our women. There is nothing cute or cool about dishonesty, we should work with each other in a relationship, because not everything will be pleasent, there will be problems, whether they are internal or external, the telling factor will be how a couple approaches those problems. Trust, Respect, and Communication are the keys. Many of us men while growing up were taught that it was cool to be a player, but we don't realize the damage we are doing to a females reputation as well as her outlook on life and future relationships. Society views men who sleep around as players and pimps, but when a woman does it she is a slut or whore. And it doesn't help when we refer to our wives or girlfriends as bitches. How can the woman that married you or the woman that had your children be referred to as a b*tch. Now that I am older I am thankful that my Grandmother, Mother, and 7 sisters did not subscribe to that philosophy, and taught me how to respect and treat a woman. Now does that make me special or better than other men ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!!!! What it does make me is a man who had the benefit of a support system of strong females, who instilled in me the meaning of being a true man, and how to appreciate a womans essence, beauty, and strength, while realizing the special joys that we experience in the treasures that are women.
Communication- It seems that more relationships fail from lack of communication than anything else. The main problem we have as men is we don't listen, many problems in a relationship could be solved if we would just listen. Ask your woman how her day was, and not because you want sex, but because you desire to be an intrical part of her life. Why do you think she doesn't come to you with a problem, because we don't listen. Try sitting on the sofa with your womans feet in your lap and just talk to her, let her know that you are able to do more than just jump up and down on her. Tell her all the things that made you fall in love with her, and show her that nothing has changed. A relationship is like a flower, it must be nurtered and watered every day to keep it alive, communication is the water.
MrB2017 Blog (1)