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I simply love the Vodafone Delights tag line: "Isn't it nice when someone makes you feel special?"

I guess we all feel nice when we are given preferential treatment. So how about being someone else's reason of delight or even just giving them their due respect?

I am sure you have heard the quote, 'Do unto others, what you want others to do to you.' Be nice to people around you. Every time we interact with people, remember that a smile, a wink, a raised hand, a small pat on the back, a firm handshake... that's all it takes to show your appreciation. A lot of times we tend to believe that such small gestures don't make any difference. Think again and I am sure you will think otherwise.

I agree that while at work, it might be someone's duty to do a particular job and doesn't call for a 'thank you'. Yet, we should try to be polite with all those we interact. We should respect everyone and not look down upon anyone. As a team manager would agree, every team member is important in the team. Everyone in the team is like a piece of the jig-saw puzzle and the picture wouldn't be complete without each one of them. Just imagine a day when your maid wouldn't turn up, your office boy or the housekeeping guy is on leave.... the job they do isn't easy. So, respect that!

A lot of times, we may be facing the wrath of someone through no fault of our own. At times, with so much pressure, frustration, and despair all around us we tend to lose our temperament and shout, even abuse people for something they do which upsets us. Look around, the incidents of 'Road Rage' are on the increase. Any provocation and our emotions just erupt like a volcano. It does not get square if we vent out all our frustration on someone else.

Let me clarify that being polite doesn't mean being a soft rubber that anyone can tread over. If your team member is not doing what he is supposed to do and deserves a dressing down, the same should be done in private and not in an open forum. I strongly believe that being polite and giving respect is a sign of strength and not weakness.

Be strong, take charge of your emotions and channel your energy. I know, it's easier said than done.

--- Copyright © 2010 Bhupesh Dhawan

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Today Is Something New

The height of your brilliance does not depend on the size of your head, rather it depends on the limits you're willing to break to achieve excellence. Creativity puts the world in your head and foolishness puts your head in the world.

Have you ever wondered why the world revolves and rotates while you don't even feel it moving? If you understood all the mysteries of life, you'd be a mystery yourself.

We came into this world with zilch, except the nakedness we wore. We are just a breath less to the other end of our hyphen. What have we done to make our hyphen thick? There's nothing you can't do; there's everything you should do so that when that time comes, our deeds will pave the way into the other life where it's an endless hyphen.

Every good deed you do on earth is like a brick you lay in heaven. Some of us have laid firm foundations, others have built their houses, others can't even afford straws and most don't even want a house in heaven.

I don't know how far I've built mine but I know this; I want to build a beautiful house. It is not the length of your prayer that determines its efficacy, it's the strength of your faith that does.

Befriend that shadow that is you. Be proud of who you are. Don't spend life trying to live in someone else's shadow. Like trees, we grow inwards. Having been born from our mother's womb, we then start learning how to give birth to ourselves.

Today is described as something new; don't spend it living an old life.

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As You Go Through Life......

* Winning isn't everything but wanting to win is.

* You would achieve more, if you don't mind who gets the credit.

* When everything else is lost, the future still remains.

* Don't fight too much or the enemy will know your art of war.

* The only job you start at the top is when you dig a grave.

* If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for everything.

* If you do little things well, you'll do big ones better.

* Only thing that comes to you without effort is old age.

* You won't get a second chance to make a first impression.

* Only those who do nothing do not make mistakes.

* Never take a problem to your boss unless you have a solution.

* If you are not failing, you're not taking enough risks.

* Don't try to get rid of your bad temper by losing it.

* If at first you don't succeed, skydiving is not for you.

* Those who don't make mistakes usually don't make anything.

* There are two kinds of failures: Those who think and never do, and those who do and never think.

* Pick battles big enough to matter, small enough to win.

* All progress has resulted from unpopular decisions.

* Change your thoughts and you change your world.

* Understanding proves intelligence, not the speed of the learning.

* There are two kinds of fools in this world.: Those who give advice and those who don't take it.

* The best way to kill an idea is to take it to a meeting.

* Management is doing things right. Leadership is doing the right things.

* Friendship founded on business is always better than business founded on friendship.

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Your Destiny......Your History

So many of us get caught up in the past; past issues, past relationships, past mistakes, etc... We tend to give away our thoughts and energy of today to days and events that no longer exist. An unfortunate reality of this type of thinking is that we tend to lose sight of our true power and purpose. And we lose sight of the truth that we a free to change - to refine, improve, or enhance ourselves at any moment.

The value of a moment is immeasurable. The power of just ONE moment can propel you to success and happiness or chain you to failure and misery.

What if you could break free from the shackles of self blame, criticism, and disempowered limiting thought?

We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past. But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future.

Today, many will awaken with a fresh sense of inspiration and leave the ghost of yesterday behind, why not you?

Today greets you with no rules or conditions. The only requirement to see all it has to offer is to live it full out. Each day brings immeasurable blessings and opportunities for happiness and success. Like a gift, beautifully wrapped at the foot of your bed each morning, today asks that you open it and enjoy everything inside.

Exhaust yourself with all it has to offer! Laugh, cry, say "I love you", say "I'm sorry", truly LIVE the day? when was the last time you did this? Squeeze all the juices the day has to offer, then, at the end of the day, go to sleep knowing that tomorrow morning, another gift will be waiting.

It's when we continue to look into the box of yesterday or last year or ten years ago that we feel depressed, trapped, and defeated. But the good news is that if you just open your eyes and look, you would see today's box, today's gift is waiting. Let go of yesterday, forget it. It's already forgotten you. Embrace the only day in which you have any power. Today!

Make a pact with yourself today to not be defined by your past. Instead, shake things up today! Live through today. Don't just exist through it - LIVE through it! Have a plan for success and make sure your actions reflect that plan.

Your dream is a reality that is waiting for you to materialize. Today is a new day! Don't let your history interfere with your destiny! Learn from your past so that it can empower your present and propel you to greatness

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Words And Their Special Effects!!

* LET ME HELP - Good people/friends do this when they see someone hurt and jump to help. They are sure winners.

* I UNDERSTAND YOU - A powerful tool for healing any relationship and become closer.

* I RESPECT YOU - Another way of showing love in all interpersonal relationship.

* I MISS YOU - This powerful affirmation tells the other person that they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.

* YOU ARE RIGHT - Best effective in diffusing arguments.

* PLEASE FORGIVE ME - Heals and restores broken relationships.

* I THANK YOU - Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy.

* COUNT ON ME - Loyalty is a special ingredient in any relationship.

* I'LL BE THERE - A great gift to give for a relationship in need for renewing love and friendship.

* GO FOR IT - Best way of supporting and encouraging the other person's dreams and desires.

AND THE BONUS

* I LOVE YOU - The most important three words which cover all the above

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HATING PEOPLE IS A WASTE OF TIME LIFE IS TOO SHORT

* Never be awful to anyone, that person you were awful to may teach you the most.

* Always remember...you are a somebody, God didn't take the time to create a nobody.

* Always smile, you never know whose day you might be making.

* Never 'forget' to say hi to anyone, never miss the chance to laugh or smile, never get too caught up in yourself that you forget to help others.

* Never forget that you aren't the only one with problems, and most of all...never forget that when you feel like you only have one friend, that friend will remind you of all the others.

* If you forget about all the bad things in life, the good will take over.

* If fear is staring you in the face, close your eyes so you don't have to look at it.

* Be yourself, you can't be anyone else...The best you can be is you!

I always make it a point to laugh and smile at work.. & never let anyone know whether I am having a bad day or not. Then maybe everyone will feel better by seeing someone who can have a positive attitude about life.

HAPPY NEW YEAR...TO ALL AND BEST OF LUCK TO ALL OF YOU....

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HAPPY HOLIDAY'S

My dear friend's,

As we celebrate the Holiday Season and New Year to come, I want to share something special with you, a message of hope.

It's been said that hope is one of the greatest gifts you can give to another person, especially when they need a little more. May this message of hope warm your heart and bring a smile to your face the whole season through.
Conspire to inspire with hope!

ALL OF YOU STILL HAVE HOPE!!!!!!!

If you can look at the sunset and smile,
then you still have hope.

If you can find beauty in the colors of a small flower,
then you still have hope.

If you can find pleasure in the movement of a butterfly,
then you still have hope.

If the smile of a child can still warm your heart,
then you still have hope.

If you can see the good in other people,
then you still have hope.

If the rain breaking on a roof top can still lull you to sleep,
then you still have hope.

If the sight of a rainbow still makes you stop and stare in wonder,
then you still have hope.

If the soft fur of a favored pet still feels pleasant under your fingertips,
then you still have hope.

If you meet new people with a trace of excitement and optimism,
then you still have hope.

If you give people the benefit of a doubt,
then you still have hope.

If you still offer your hand in friendship to others that have touched your life,
then you still have hope.

If receiving an unexpected card or letter still brings a pleasant surprise,
then you still have hope.

If the suffering of others still fills you with pain and frustration,
then you still have hope.

If you refuse to let a friendship die,
or accept that it must end,
then you still have hope.

If you look forward to a time or place of quiet and reflection,
then you still have hope.

If you still buy the ornaments,
put up the Christmas tree or cook the supper,
then you still have hope.

If you can look to the past and smile,
then you still have hope.

If, when faced with the bad,
when told everything is futile,
you can still look up and end the conversation with the phrase... "yeah...BUT.,"
then you still have hope.

Hope is such a marvelous thing.
It bends, it twists, it sometimes hides,
but rarely does it break.
It sustains us when nothing else can.
It gives us reason to continue and courage to move ahead,
when we tell ourselves we'd rather give in.

Hope puts a smile on our face
when the heart cannot manage.

Hope puts our feet on the path
when our eyes cannot see it.

Hope moves us to act
when our souls are confused of the direction.

Hope is a wonderful thing,
something to be cherished and nurtured,
and something that will refresh us in return.
And it can be found in each of us,
and it can bring light into the darkest of places.

NEVER LOSE HOPE!

Have a Merry Christmas, Happy Holiday Season and the best New Year yet!

Love...

Steveno.....

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Life.........

Life’s Loving Gifts

... An inner journey; accepting and calm

A quieted mind, a healing balm

Centered awareness; treasures shown

Timeless wisdom, we've always known

Smiles of joy, thanksgiving to above

Trusting in our true source of love ...

"Life has a wonderful way of guiding us along the highest path; one which serves our greatest good!"

I understand that some may have difficulty with such a claim, and yet, it has always proven true throughout my life’s experiences. Yes, sometimes we may feel that all is in a state of disorder and that everything is stacked up against our efforts ... indeed, along my personal journey, I can divide my life into those events that have gone my way and those that seemed counter to my goals. So, where were the "loving gifts" in all of those challenges?

Dear friends,

There may be times when we feel anxious, all alone and lacking any true wisdom. Yet, when we choose to really look for these "gifts" we will then begin to realize what our higher selves are lovingly calling to our attention. It is helpful to raise our awareness above what may seem to be the constant "mental noise" generated by our daily challenges.

Yes, this may prove difficult, as many of us have been conditioned since birth to use only a small number of the many potential tools at our command. Yet, when we calmly enter into our place of inner wisdom to search out these gifts they will always be given, even during our darkest hours ... just the faith in that alone will help to bring them into our awareness ... in what seems like an instant!

Life’s Gifts often come in many different disguises ... sometimes they appear as barriers, blocking our goals or even bringing us pain; but yet, they are actually doorways opening into our greatest dreams ... a place to realize true peace and happiness.

So, try this experiment the next time you feel burdened by what seems like a great weight upon your shoulders ... first, bring acceptance upon the situation ... as it is in your present reality, and then, search out its hidden gems! Soon, you will begin to discover its hidden treasures, which will then prove helpful along your life’s journey!

Know that we are all connected to a loving source that always wants to help us, as life was never meant to be a painful struggle. These precious gifts will then help us to get back onto the "right path" towards peace, health and happiness! We need have only a small measure of trust that they exist and are being freely given ... and so, they will soon be brought into our current reality.

This realization will then form an integral part towards our awakening, serving on the journey to reunite in that place where we all originated!

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Trust Yourself With...... Confidence

What a trap it is to forget you are the creator of your reality.

It's a terrible state to be lost in your experience, wondering why you are so far from where you want to be. Not knowing why you can't get a break or how much work you have to do before you see some sign of success.

I can't think of just about anything worse than trying everything you know to do, and still coming up short.

That feeling of helplessness is a killer.

The anxiety of racking your brain with "Where did I go wrong?" "Why isn't it working?"

I believe these mental states are a place called hell. It's not a place you want to stay.

You stay in that place too long and you'll turn nightmares into reality.

"You shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free." john 8:32

Knowing you are the creator of your experience, and how you do it, makes you free!

That feeling of freedom is absolute bliss, it's heaven. Nothing to fear nothing to worry about.

It's the launching pad for an exceptional life.

Grab this truth and hold on to it. Receive it, accept it, and love it. Feel good about it. In fact, make it your daily routine to meditate on it, and feel good about it.

As you keep focusing on this truth, your worries will begin to disappear. Your anxiety will begin to transform into peace. Your peace will transform into confidence. Your confidence will transform into boldness, and your boldness will transform into absolute fearlessness. Your personality will be transformed, and you will feel like a new person. Understand, how you feel is incredibly important.

As you think and speak about your future in this state of confidence and peacefulness, circumstances and troubles that you have been trying to change for ages will fade away.

That success that you desperately wanted, but seemed beyond your grasp, will flow to you effortlessly.

This is because you are the creator of your experience.

But to create the life you desire you must know it and feel it!

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Motivational Quotes

Hi All,

It’s been a while since I posted a “random quotes” entry, so here’s one for you.

These are 10 random quotes for your enjoyment:

1. We wander but in the end there is always a certain peace in being what one is, in being that completely.
-Ugo Betti, Italian poet

2. Nobody is bound by obligation unless it has first been freely accepted.
-Ugo Betti, Italian poet

3. We know what happens to people who stay in the middle of the road. They get run down.
-Aneurin Bevan, Welsh politician

4. You cannot be fuelled by bitterness. It can eat you up but it cannot drive you.
-Benazir Bhutto, former Pakistani Prime Minister

5. The weak have one weapon: the errors of those who think they are strong.
-Georges Bidault, French statesman

6. (People) are mute not only when they fail to speak up about flagrant abuse they become aware of…but also when they fail to speak up for causes or projects that they judge to be morally valuable.
-Frederick Bruce Bird, U.S. author

7. The art of leadership is saying no, not yes. It is very easy to say yes.
-Tony Blair, Former British Prime Minister

8. He who binds to himself a joy
Doth the winged life destroy;
But he who kisses the joy as it flies
Lives in Eternity’s sunrise.
-William Blake, British poet

9. I was angry with my friend:
I told my wrath, my wrath did end.
I was angry with my foe:
I told it not, my wrath did grow.
-William Blake, British poet

10. Without Contraries is no Progression. Attraction and Repulsion, Reason and Energy, Love and Hate, are necessary to Human existence.
-William Blake, British poet

Done!

Another reason I decided to post some random quotes is because they really seem to strike a cord in your hearts. I usually get a lot of replies and comments here in the blog after I post these.

Well, if you liked these, please write a comment down below. Say which ones you liked, share some of your own favorite quotes, and lets all get to know each other.

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Most Important words......

" The six most important words: I admit I made a mistake.
The five most important words: You did a good job.
The four most important words: What is YOUR opinion?
The three most important words: If you please.
The two most important words: Thank You.
The one most important word: We.
The least important word: I."

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Honesty Quotes....

Here’s some “honesty quotes” I’ve been saving for a rainy day:

1) No legacy is so rich as honesty. -William Shakespeare

2) Honesty towards yourself. Looking into your mirror, any time all the time will guide. -Jacob Gelt Dekker

3) Honesty is the first chapter of the book of wisdom. -Thomas Jefferson

4) To measure the man measure his heart. -Malcolm S. Forbes

5) You cannot do wrong without suffering wrong. -Ralph Waldo Emerson

6) Rather fail with honour than succeed by fraud. -Sophocles

7) Work joyfully and peacefully, knowing that right thoughts and right efforts will inevitably bring about right results. -James Allen

8 ) I contend that dishonesty will create a failure force that often manifests itself in other ways—ways not apparent to the outside observer. -Joseph Sugarman

9) Each time you are honest and conduct yourself with honesty, a success force will drive you toward greater success. Each time you lie, even with a little white lie, these are strong forces pushing you toward failure. -Joseph Sugarman

10) It is not fair to ask of others what you are unwilling to do yourself. -Ann Eleanor Roosevelt

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Polite With People

Today Is Something New

As You Go Through Life......

Your Destiny......Your History

Words And Their Special Effects!!

HATING PEOPLE IS A WASTE OF TIME LIFE IS TOO SHORT

HAPPY HOLIDAY'S

Life.........

Trust Yourself With...... Confidence

Motivational Quotes

Most Important words......

Honesty Quotes....

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