It seems like single women (in America) are dominated by the BBW's and single mom's these days... neither works for me though. Is there nothing more, is this all there is?
Having had a fairly nice profile on CS for some 2 years now and been engaged in the forum's discussions, and not met a single soul here, I've just given up on CS. I don't believe there is anybody for me. Nobody I've ever initiated communications with (ie. sent a message or flower to on CS) has ever replied back, and those that have messaged me 1st have been from far away or not at all compatible (ie. single mom's or BBW's). That's just not right I swear!
Single mom's are impossible to date, I know I've tried before and I finally swore them off. There's always a problem with the kids, either the sitter is busy or the father fails to come pick them up or something... and they tend to talk constantly about how aweful the father(s) of their children were and are! It just makes me ill to listen to it all... it's not my fault, I haven't made any single mothers, I have no interest in dating single mothers! I'm sure this sounds bad, but dangit I deserve better than that mess!
BBW's are an attitude as much as a body type I swear. It's not attractive to myself among other single men. There's no point in trying to date somebody you find unattractive... I dunno what else to say.
BBW's do have the advantage over single mom's in that they could change if they wanted to: eat less and move more. It's a simple formula and it's guaranteed to work in 6 months or less if you make it part of your everyday lifestyle... but since BBW is as much about attitude as anything else, it's a forgone conclusion that they aren't going to change. Ergo, there's just no point to trying to date a BBW, I don't find it an attractive attitude or body type either one.
I oh so want a wonderful woman to date, to take out to dinner and a movie, or the horse race track, or going rollerblading on a gorgeous Fall weekend, or boating and waterskiing at the lake in the summertime, or just cuddling up on the sofa in the living room on a cold rainy night by the fireplace watching a movie by candlelight... you readers just have no idea!
Unfortunately the women that would fit that bill tend to be NOT single. Gee, wonder why?
Where I live here in Texas the single men outnumber the single women like 10 to 1 in my observations... everywhere I go, there's single men and couples and that's about it. Unforuntately this seems to mean that if a woman here is single, it's because no single men are interested in her (for afore mentioned reasons at a guess).
I love Texas and being a Texan but the dating scene here is just killing me I swear! I don't have a chance and never have... it's like living "The Bachelorette" tv show every day, where there's entirely too many single men all vying for the attention of 1 single woman.
Yeah I know I'm not winning any points with anybody here, I never even posted a blog on CS or talked about my feelings much in the forums here before this week (for 2 years I've been holding back biting my fingertips)... it's just, I guess I realized it doesn't actually matter what I say so I might as well say what I think. I'm not looking to win any points here, and I have no doubt I'll be heavily criticized if not outright condemned for how I feel... but since I'm not meeting anybody here anyways what does it really matter if I'm criticized and condemned by the people here? LMAO!
<- this is how I feel, just about every day... and I have such a headache you have no idea!!!!!
- Michael ("American by birth, Texan by the Grace of God!")
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