who here can tell me something about long distance relationship in more positive aspect?
i, myself, have never actually dated in the literal sense of the word but i have found myself in quite a few long distance relationships that have gone sour for me to say the least...
to me, long distance relationships are a scary thing because i believe that if feelings are true and mutual through both parties that neither time, distance, or availability should too much of a significant influence on the relationship.
you see i usually find myself continually trying to do the right thing and have never, once, been unfaithful in a relationship. like i said, i never really dated as far as dating goes, but i have been in relationships if that makes any sense to anyone, and so it's easy for me to stay faithful so long as i know my significant other is happy and faithful with me.
i feed off that and it gives me strength to push on until we can see each other again. but when my significant other starts to show signs of doubting, weakening, losing hope, i too feel the effect on that and it makes me lose strength and hope for any kind of future.
i'm only as strong and as confident as you are in a relationship so when i see my significant other losing hope an falling apart i eventually begin falling apart too when nothing i do or way can help her disposition.
i'm out of ideas for handling a long distance relationship. i just got out of one that was very hard on me because of a lot of things i just described as well as many more that i don't wish to share on a blog.
but i am unfortunately in the army so at the very least i still have many more long distance relationships to come.
what can i do to strengthen the resolve of both me and my partner for future reference? because i am currently lost on the concept of love and fidelity.
there are times when i wonder what this world is coming to.
although i am only 23 years old i have always stood by the morals taught to me by my family and life experiences but as i look around it seems as though people are doing the exact opposite.
people cheating on their faithful and loving spouses, lying to get their way, and even going so far as to coerce and intimidate the good hard working people of our time to get themselves ahead.
people have a nasty habit of doing things only in their own interests no matter who they have to step on to get there which is why bad things happen to good people and all the good things happen for people who don't deserve them.
who nowadays really knows the value of money? who really appreciates the things they have no matter how plentiful or few? is there anyone who really appreciates what they currently have or does it take for them to lose that important aspect of their life to realize what they have been missing out on?
try as i might i cannot ever seem to fully understand why people choose to be like this and why good hearted, hard working, understanding people are often left behind to rot. if karma really exists then where is it now?
these are just a series of questions that plague me from day to day and i can't seem to find an answer to them... maybe the world i live in can provide some answers.
since this is my first time experiencing the CS world of operations i'm inclined to announce my initial intent.
this is, again, my first attempt at a CS type environment to see what comes out of it. in it's own right it may be fruitful or it may be fruitless. only time can tell that.
my initial intent of my blogging however is to voice my thoughts and opinions and see how they correspond or contrast with those of the rest of the world.
also i plan to explore the world i've been brought into to get to know this now distant world i find myself in.
having said that i wish you all a good day and i hope to receive your incite in my future blogs to come or an email greeting just to say hi. whichever you like most! ;)
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