Relationships today for me.

TOday, anything goes, and it was only three years ago, that a 23 year old accused me of being age discriminatory, so I took her on in relationship. I lasted 8 months, and found I could not keep up with her energy, nor walking the 44 kms she chose to walk in a day! So she was released to grow up with the age she is in, so that she could use all of that excess energy that she possessed. Having lived in Nimbin over the years, taught me that any model of relationship works these days, from polyamory, to gay, to cougars, and even the reverse, as mentioned above. As I simply cannot keep up with those in their early 20s, I would ask that if the woman has too much energy that could be challenging due to my having lost my edge, then I simply would discourage such a match. I prefer then, that a woman be over 30, at least, and not older than 70. I prefer an open relationship, but stay open to any possibility also, though shy away from one night stands.

I am not a game player, nor do I suffer fools gladly, such as the spammers, who write and tell me from overseas, that they are coming to me, but for some reason have gotten stuck on the way, and they need my financial temporary support! Only a fool falls for such nonsense, and I am not open to such overtures either at home, or from overseas!

I have lived a full and adventurous life, and know that I am still passionate about life, and its full sensuousness. I have deep respect for the universal feminine, and if one has the ability to exemplify this to me, then I gladly can say that I love such a universal display of the feminine, whether in the beauty within, or simply the form it is placed in. I am a typical male, who is visually oriented, so am attracted first to the looks, and then I look for the beauty radiating from within. I treat a woman as perfectly who she is, and support her dreams and personal freedoms.

I am not a control freak, though do enjoy good conversation on any subject, and open-ness generally coming from a committment to honesty. Why be in relationship, if the person one is in it with, is closed down by their own fears and inhibitions? If anything, I will just aid the opening up process, and hopefully vice versa. I chose to write this blog due to having more space on the regular same old, same old narratives that every man and his dog writes. This way, it gives an insight into the who that I am, without blowing another away, from the fullness of knowledge that is best left unsaid. Experience is there just to aid the moment, and to increase the likelihood that this day, will indeed be good, and that the right woman, will eventually be at my door, and she will choose to stay!

Welcome to my world.......Ben