Shaniai
Shaniai
Nov 2013
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not the same

So I have been on two more dates since my date with the guy (let's call him, Mr. Goner) whom I still believe to be one that got away and the problem now is that I found myself comparing them to him and it was like nothing they did was right. I know it is wrong of me to compare but I just cant help it and it came to the point where I am just blowing off someone whom I normally would have gone for just because he didn't match up to Mr. Goner. I go out and it's the same thing, someone shows interest in me and I automatically started to compare him to Mr. Goner and it's 'nerve rocking' cuz I have only been on one date with this guy and I somehow cant get him outta my head no matter how hard I tried, and that's just not me.
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Bajanshay
Bajanshay●Bridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados
Nov 5, 2013●121 Blogs●1,389 Comments
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Wow It seems that your heart is definitely with the one that got away. It is hard to have an unrequited love. sad flower :hug
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Shaniai
ShaniaiOP●Hartford, Connecticut USA
Nov 5, 2013●2 Comments
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that's what have me confused, I know it's not love, or at least it couldn't be - we only had one date... until I took foolish advice and blew it. My mind is constantly telling me I'm crazy and I need to move on, it's just one date but everything else is telling me to wait he will come around and so I block out everyone else not by will but by impulse. But maybe you are right...@ Bajanshay
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Angelpepper
Angelpepper●Glen Ellyn, Illinois USA
Nov 5, 2013●9 Blogs●10,202 Comments
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Shan: motorcycle. . .snowman2 cswelcome To cs blog page!
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NotMissTaken
NotMissTaken●unknown, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia
Nov 5, 2013●20 Blogs●1,011 Comments
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Hi Shinaia! Welcome back! I can relate!! I have been there.. But I cant say im over that. In my case, that guy had everything I wanted in a possible partner, he was tall, intelligent, brave, stable, kind, humble, and plays basketball really well! He was like whatever I asked for and more. They say comparisons are easily done when you've had the taste of perfection. That one thing you want but you can't or refused to have.. Apparently, all I felt after was so much regret about what I did not let happen, and things I could have done differently..

Youll get over. Just let yourself be over the regret first.. Forgive yourself if you think uve done something wrong.. And believe that some things are supposed to happen and be over and done wit..
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GoDaniel
GoDaniel●Leominster, Massachusetts USA
Nov 5, 2013●71 Blogs●2,433 Comments
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It sounds a little like a soap opera
dunno confused
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funlaugh
funlaugh●Whitianga, Waikato New Zealand
Nov 6, 2013●88 Blogs●818 Comments
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Days of our lives , if thats still on.
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GoDaniel
GoDaniel●Leominster, Massachusetts USA
Nov 6, 2013●71 Blogs●2,433 Comments
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@Fun- More like "As the world turns" but only if you have "One life to live" if your living like "The young and the restless" ending up in a " General hospital"
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing laugh laugh
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KNenagh
KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland
Nov 6, 2013●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments
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Hi Shaniai, if you feel that way, maybe take a break from dating until you feel up to actually starting something again. wave
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Shaniai
ShaniaiOP●Hartford, Connecticut USA
Nov 6, 2013●2 Comments
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Thank you Angelpepper. @ NMT and KNenagh, I appreciate your comments and yes I gotta take a break from dating it seems.
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