why do women insist upon looking for a man??

While I agree with some points you mentioned, let me share my thoughts with you. money yes it is important, yes it is need it as it brings comfort, but also some women want other thing .we all have different criteria of the man we looking for ,we want him physically attractive first good looking, slim, caring loving generous honest ect.. This is the wish list we set our selves to start with whether we get it or not that is different issue. just like flowers I prefer freesia over gardenia , that does not mean that tulip or iris are not nice or beautiful, it is just appealing to me more than others ,and some times of the years orange flowers scent is more favorable than any others as we associate it to some memory or good thought ,what I meant to say is that, we are all unique in our needs and demand ,but having said that we are all here looking for love and sharing as we are communicative humane ,can not live alone. it is true women receive many mails I receive around 15 mails a day I can not reply to all as I do not have time for it .I can only reply to the one which really responded to my profile and not copy and past to 100 other women.!!
So I am sure one day you will find your flower where smelling or looking at, will grant you lot of happiness. Best of luck.

WELL THERE ARE PLENTY OF LADIES ON DATING SITES THAT ARE VERY GENUINE AND TRYING TO FIND LOVE.
NO AMOUNT OF MONEY CAN EVER BUY THAT. MARGO.

The women are cruel?Nice example you give,using even the great Verdi.What you'll say about Puchini's"Madam Buterfly"(sorry if I don't write it right)?Is in it also cruel?But cruel man this time.He broke her heart..So the women are,who play games and look at the man's bank account,you think so.Not true,dear.The man do the same things, even in this site.So maybe I would say-girls,be careful!!!!:)

I agree with all 3 of the above. At the end of my marriage I discovered that my ex had married me for 1 reason only, what little money I earned plus the state benefits to which I was entitled to as a low wage earner. You don't need to be wealthy or male for someone to marry you for money. Yes it does damage the ego and combined with other things it can make you mistrust whichever gender let you down. Sooner or later though someone will come along who will win your heart and you have the choice to take a chance and trust them and gain happiness or not to trust and miss out on a truly loving and rewarding relationship. My boyfriend has more money than me but you know what I'd still want him even if he had no money. Having money does not guarantee happiness. The people who are truly rich are those who have an enduring life long love for each other that overcomes any obstacle even poverty.

It is okay, I hope you feel better that you let off steam.
True, some of us women want and go after those with money, some of us are just high maintenence and know that, some of us want to be pampered and spoiled with things and a man with money will take care of those needs. In this day and age some of us women know it will take money to survive (insurance, repairs of cars and house etc.) single women or mom's and their kids need that stability and security so they go after the man that has the ability to do that. Some of us just with no rhyme or reason of it fall for the man that happens to have money. Beautiful or not we women are just people, some of us have good intentions some of us have intentions that may go other directions. Hopefully one can determine that while getting to know one another.

Before, I knew a man from my country who hurt me very much. He was egoist and a liar. Believe me, I know what a liar is. Now I am looking for my love. I am looking for a man who I will love with all my heart and he will feel the same for me. Am I right if I think that all the men are like the man I mentioned? Is this okay, is this right to think like this?

I was thinking about relationships. If you have a serious conversation, on a serious subject, ask loving questions to your partner, ask more , talk gently. Don't just immediately leave.

It is possible that you find your true love but lose it because of miscommunication and misunderstanding.

Whoa....Tut...Tut....Labeling 'America Woman' as 'Gold Diggers'....'Nooooooooooo'.....that I do not believe....



J.D