As you mentioned people have a set agenda here. I like this. Listen with your heart and answer the same is what we have all been taught at an early age not to do because it is weak to do that. We are taught to use our heads / minds because it is stronger. That is the biggest mistake we ever listened to, when it comes to caring about others, having compassion for our brothers and our sisters and understanding people everywhere. When we listen to others stories it creates a safety to be able to be free to express themselves and go to their deep concerns. This may not change the events of the world but it may change one life even our own. That makes it worth while. If we listen with our heart and answer the same it will bring joy, beauty, peace, and love.
True it takes faith. We do what we possible can, doing our best and God steps in, in his time with his super natural abilities and finishes up what needs to be done. Good one.
BBQing meats is one of the things I'm not good at. Sad to say, everyone I know does it so well. So I try and try and try and I'm still trying. One of these days maybe I'll get the hang of it. hehehe
I feel people aren't perfect either. But possibly perfect for each other. All those imperfections still there on the outside but loveingly overlooked for the people we are. Those things that are on the inside though there may be flaws there, but lovingly over looked for the people we are. All those qualities, and things in common help etc. Good one.
Yes, I feel you'll / we'll get the answers. Keeping busy helps. Do things for others. Hang with family and friends. Think positive. Alot of us have been there and understand this. I wish you the best.
RE: I've Learned Something
He wasn't the one for you. Good for you. The right one will come along who will be just right for you.