I've Learned Something

On the 10th May I finally ended the relationship with the guy I met from this site. It was not an easy decision as I really cared about him. When we met things were great we got on well and agreed to discuss problems which we did. Then the texts got fewer and the phone calls were only made if I asked if he was still interested in me to which he always replied yes. I started asking when we could meet again and he always replied soon. A friend of mine not connected with this site suggested I asked if this relationship was going anywhere which I duly did. He said yes and that he'd be down either in the afternoon or evening. I asked him to make it the evening as I was committed to a 9 mile charity walk and he agreed. Anyway I completed the walk, had a quick brownie and latte in the pub and went home to get ready for the date. I waited over an hour and he failed to show up. I text him to ask if he was still coming? No reply. I text again this time asking if he was still interested in me. Still no reply Finally I sent him a text saying that I had wanted the relationship with him but it was obvious by his non attendance on our date and his failure to respond to the texts that he had finished with me. So I said that this time it was over for good. I had tried phoning but it just went to voice mail. I have learned from this and the lesson I've learned is that if a guy keeps making excuses as to why he can't meet a woman and vise versa then they're not interested. I also know what I want from a relationship. Someone who is reliable but most of all honest in that if they don't think it's going to work they will tell me. I will have a lot more respect for an honest person than one who can't even bring himself to text saying he wants the end of the relationship. I changed my profile the next day. I may have hurt for a while but there is no way I'm going to give up looking for that guy to share the ups and downs of my life with. This experience has made me stronger not weaker. I have a lot of love to give to the right guy, a nice ordinary guy who's not perfect but is honest and reliable.