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So reallY...Waht's the point?

Hi my name is Mike. This will be my first blog so be patient. I guess I really don't understand the point of being on a dating site if your not interested in dating. Recently I met someone I thought was a wonderful woman on this site. We talked for a couple of weeks on the phone. She invited me to come see her to meet in person. I thought things went really well. I drove 5 hours, something I wouldn't typically do. We spent a wonderful weekend together, walked on the beach, I even shared my whole life story with this woman. Maybe I gave to much of myself. Any way, I get home happy and excited that maybe she is someone I could really be interested in. She seemed to feel the same way. Then all of a sudden, she doesn't return phone calls, tells me she's "confused", and there is just too much going on in her life. What the hell? I feel like I'm just waisting my time sitting at this computer.
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handymanrichie
handymanrichie●lexington, Kentucky USA
Jun 13, 2009●50 Comments
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Get used to it my friend if you are going to cyberdate.
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imjustme38
imjustme38●Columbia, Tennessee USA
Jun 15, 2009●4 Comments
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I know the feeling Mike. I spent 1 1/2 years talking to this one guy online through emails, by phone, and visited him a few times. Everything was wonderful while we were together and had agreed on moving forward to something more serious the last time I visited. He lived 10 hrs away, I drove to visit him. Anyway after I got back home the last time, he tells me he needs to get his life together before he takes on something else... What?!?!?!? I found out that he had been communicating with his ex girlfriend (she called me)! Why look for someone else if you can't let the ex go?!?!?! I just want someone to be honest! Is that too much to ask??
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vanitystorm
vanitystorm●roxboro, North Carolina USA
Jun 15, 2009●3 Blogs●14 Comments
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ya know that was terrible. i have wasted so much time on dead end relationships that now i am 34 unmarried and childless. This kinda thing happens outside computer dating too. i know you already knew that. People have their motives. some are genuine and some are self-centered. sometimes you don't know someone until u spend time with them. maybe she didn't feel like she could further the relationship and she didn't want to hurt your feelings in person. maybe she used what she thought were "nice" words to let you go. You can spend years with one person and still hear those same words. I don't know. I am at the point where i want to settle down and build a life with a family of my own. Mike, don't give up. I know you got hurt, ticked, and you feel like you wasted your time. it might happen again, but hopefully it won't. But, the right one will come eventually.
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