The Definition of a true man....

By definition - I've learned over the course of time and in the recent days that we all have our definition of a real man. I know the difference between a jerk and man; there are several. Today was an encounter of an individual who called and was being honest that the only they missed about me was that I bought them beer occasionally. Friendship really had nothing to do with it. They were looking for a free ride. Then HE started to belittle me because I don't live in the 1950-60s like he does where all women work white collar jobs and the like. I'm not the A-typical woman who does and everything her man says or whatever.

I guess what I'm getting at is that a "real" man doesn't call and belittle a woman because he has problems or needs to vent and takes it out all on her. So to this I say women and men. By definition what is yours of a "real Man"?