The planet Mars symbolizes a warrior and a protector. The Planet Venus symbolizes love. The basic ability of a man is to protect and fight and the basic ability of a women is to love. The problem with men is that we move women from the planet of Venus (Love) to our planet Mars (warrior and protector). In the process we (men) put to much of ourself into women which causes fighting. We know that women are not made to fight. However, men... if you have a fighting woman that means that she has too much of you inside of her... A woman's purpose is not to bring stress, strife, or contention into the house or relationship, but rather bring love into the house, home, or relationship. Men ask yourself what have I done to breed fighting and conflict into a being that was shaped for love? Just remember men... we love when we feel needed, women love when they feel cherished. Because of life's experience of lesser men... it becomes harder for a woman to receive love because women have so many fasle pretense of what love is suppose to look like... Love through the perspective of a man is base on provision, rather than affection. Men use gifts for affection. "You know I love you because of what I bought you". On the other hand, a woman who thrist for love do not need a gift... if she can get affection. A women would rather have feelings because affection is more than the gift. If there was nothing on the face of the earth but the trees, the grass, water, and mountains. How would you love her? And how would you love him? You got it... now love her that way... at this very moment... for the rest of your life.
I disagree with you that women don't also have fighting personalities. We are all individuals. My father is the one who is more loving, less about fighting, and my mother the one who can't say she loves us and fights...and her being this way has nothing with my father making her that way, it's just who she is. I'm a combination of both, though I've moved away from being a fighter in a relationship since I've learned that nobody wins and it doesn't work. But I am a fighter in other ways. Oh, and it was always my mother who used gifts and shopping trips to show her love and my father who expressed it and showed it.
There is nothing personality-wise that applies to all men and all women. You need to be able to love someone for who they are, not expect them to be like your preconceived notions, or you will be sadly disappointed.
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