Why people make you think they are interested and then let you down? (14)
jpandino2003San Juan, Puerto Rico10 Threads 81 PostsI met someone I few weeks ago and I really liked her but all of the sudden she rejects me saying that a relationship is not possible because I live too far away. I think if she would have given me a chance I could have surprised her by visiting her.
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I just need to to know why do people let you down so horrible and why do they express an interest and then they put up a stupid excuse.
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Hallo,well I would not take it personal because she might have figured you were to far away or maybe thats the only thing she could come up with for some other reason...This happends on the internet more then in real where people with just move on...Don't let spoil your fun and meeting people..I never take things serious on the net until I meet the person in real...Some people just dont want a visit and they want more of the kinda person that will be there whenever she wants to go out if your long distance thats hard and some don't want the hard work that goes with a relationship...Hope this helps....;-))
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I agree with marcy. Don't take it personally. I think if she was blunt enough to tell u that then she was telling u the truth. Considering she could of easily just kept leadin u on. ALOT of people do that online, unfortunately.
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well i can certainly relate to this topic
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Thank you everyone for your response I feel better now and I won't let it spoil it. But sometimes it hurts because people just don't give you a chance to see who you really are and let's just say that I've been through so many rejections so that's why I felt very depressed.
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Thank you Marcy for your advice. Knowing that there is good people still left makes me feel better on this world. Thank you.
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Well,no problem...Have fun and nice to meet you..
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It's very nice to meet you too Marcy and if you like to keep in touch you can email me here. Once again thank you for your advice.
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sometimes people just can't make up their damn minds cause they may have more than one person they like.dont take it personal,just keep on trying.your very cute so i'm sure it wont take long. :)
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Don't worry I get it all the time also. Now I get it from local people, mostly only live a hour away from me. They will ask what I look like or I will send them a pic and they stop speaking to me, how rude, everything is based on looks. And it is sad, but don't worry sweetie, when you least expect it the girl of your dreams will come along to you, and you will deserve her, so don't settle for less, cause it just wouldn't be fair to yourself.
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Marcy and Simmy said it for everyone, I think; also, try not to set your expectations too high, then you won't have as far to fall...%)
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Maybe they are unsure of what they want or if they are ready for a relationship as far as getting over their last love.
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Maybe they should not show an interest if they are not ready. This has happened to me. I have learned from it too.
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