I am really not looking forward to it.. It is something that was set up for me through my kids.. sort of..
There was this guy who asked me out last summer, while I was camping with my daughter and her husband and kids..
He asked me out then while I was sitting there paintning my nails at the picnic table.. I didn't really say yes or no at that time.. but since then, they have come to know him and got it in their heads, that we would be good together..
I was not attracted to him in the first place and never called him back to make a date...
Should I go out with him, and see what happens because they seem to see somethning in him I did not..
Or.... Stick to my guns and tell them.. when I am ready I will find someone on my own......
The13thWarriorMelksham, Wiltshire, England UK1,707 posts
QuietStormF: I am really not looking forward to it.. It is something that was set up for me through my kids.. sort of..
There was this guy who asked me out last summer, while I was camping with my daughter and her husband and kids..
He asked me out then while I was sitting there paintning my nails at the picnic table.. I didn't really say yes or no at that time.. but since then, they have come to know him and got it in their heads, that we would be good together..
I was not attracted to him in the first place and never called him back to make a date...
Should I go out with him, and see what happens because they seem to see somethning in him I did not..
Or.... Stick to my guns and tell them.. when I am ready I will find someone on my own......
if it was me, i would give it a try. provided my instincts didn't tell me otherwise. what have you got to loose? look at it this way.. if you start off with nothing, you can't end up with less!
gordy22222: you tell em c hicky, you dont gotta do nuttin you dont wanns, jus git yer toenails done up right an ya can ketch the world up next year
LOL// Wonder if that will work.. I am thinking because I didn;t pay him muhc attention when he asked me , he coudltn have appealed to me much in the first place is all....But try and tell them that. and I am superficial..
Absolutely, you should go. Enjoy yourself. Even if there is no connection romantically, you can go out and enjoy the evening, and the worst that may happen is that you gain a friend.
dunny2: Absolutely, you should go. Enjoy yourself. Even if there is no connection romantically, you can go out and enjoy the evening, and the worst that may happen is that you gain a friend.
Good point.. You are probably right... I guess we all just can't expect sparks with everyone we see... at least not at first.
The13thWarriorMelksham, Wiltshire, England UK1,707 posts
dunny2: Absolutely, you should go. Enjoy yourself. Even if there is no connection romantically, you can go out and enjoy the evening, and the worst that may happen is that you gain a friend.
yes, i've gained a "very good" friend this way. and she's been there as a valuable second opinion
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There was this guy who asked me out last summer, while I was camping with my daughter and her husband and kids..
He asked me out then while I was sitting there paintning my nails at the picnic table.. I didn't really say yes or no at that time.. but since then, they have come to know him and got it in their heads, that we would be good together..
I was not attracted to him in the first place and never called him back to make a date...
Should I go out with him, and see what happens because they seem to see somethning in him I did not..
Or.... Stick to my guns and tell them.. when I am ready I will find someone on my own......