educational guidance (5)

Mar 21, 2009 10:22 AM CST educational guidance
fleur00
fleur00fleur00., Central Hungary Hungary3 Threads 22 Posts
Hallo everybody!
it may sound silly and does to me smtimes that at my age i hvn t found my way, yet.
i hv a rather good job, socially related and i like that aspect of it. however once i stepped in that career i found out there are some aspects of it that i cannot accomplish, as simple as that. (the physical aspect, it is hard and cannot cope)
so i was thinking of changing my job and starting a new education, by getting a univ digree.
...and i have found out that i dont know what to do other than what i cannot do in my present job. it seems i only want to do what my body cannot do (male job).
...nothing else interests me. no passion.no drive. everyhting and nothing at the same time.
and at the same time i want to get a univ digree:i hv the brain for it and it is professionally necessary.
do i hv other qualities other than those that brought me to choose my present career? if yes, how to find them out? i can t see them.
which direction to take??
i am asking u to share yr similar experiences with me, how u managed to clarify your ideas, yr advice, opinion.
this situation has been gnawing at me!! it makes me suffer.
it may be i was not clear enough in the description above, i will try to clarify if u say it is not clear at all.
thank u a lot in advance!
wave
Mar 21, 2009 2:18 PM CST educational guidance
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
fleur00: Hallo everybody!
it may sound silly and does to me smtimes that at my age i hvn t found my way, yet.
i hv a rather good job, socially related and i like that aspect of it. however once i stepped in that career i found out there are some aspects of it that i cannot accomplish, as simple as that. (the physical aspect, it is hard and cannot cope)
so i was thinking of changing my job and starting a new education, by getting a univ digree.
...and i have found out that i dont know what to do other than what i cannot do in my present job. it seems i only want to do what my body cannot do (male job).
...nothing else interests me. no passion.no drive. everyhting and nothing at the same time.
and at the same time i want to get a univ digree:i hv the brain for it and it is professionally necessary.
do i hv other qualities other than those that brought me to choose my present career? if yes, how to find them out? i can t see them.
which direction to take??
i am asking u to share yr similar experiences with me, how u managed to clarify your ideas, yr advice, opinion.
this situation has been gnawing at me!! it makes me suffer.
it may be i was not clear enough in the description above, i will try to clarify if u say it is not clear at all.
thank u a lot in advance!


Hi there.

If I could clarify? Are you looking to return to studying?

You have to weigh up many things, although now there are many courses that you can do online.

I would have a look around, see what you would like to do, depending on your circumstances.

Research it all thoroughly and then you will have a better idea of what you would like to.

I can understand your thoughts, I am at the end of my teaching career, am looking to take some time out over the next year and see what I would like to do in my twilight years.

I am involved in other projects and I would like to pursue those now.

Get an idea of what you want to do, so that you have to do what you need to be able to want to do.
Mar 21, 2009 5:48 PM CST educational guidance
joyforever06
joyforever06joyforever06., Central Serbia Serbia1 Threads 58 Posts
Sommerauer71: Hi there.

If I could clarify? Are you looking to return to studying?

You have to weigh up many things, although now there are many courses that you can do online.

I would have a look around, see what you would like to do, depending on your circumstances.

Research it all thoroughly and then you will have a better idea of what you would like to.

I can understand your thoughts, I am at the end of my teaching career, am looking to take some time out over the next year and see what I would like to do in my twilight years.

I am involved in other projects and I would like to pursue those now.

Get an idea of what you want to do, so that you have to do what you need to be able to want to do.


Sommeaurer71 thank u so much!
i will put yr advice into practice.
it is so hard to find oneself in the carrer on has always dreamt of and then ....flop ..u realize u r not fit for it...
and after the flop there is nothing ele that is worth it, that raises yr passion.
however there must be a way out.
thnks againbouquet
and good luck to u cheering
Mar 21, 2009 5:53 PM CST educational guidance
joyforever06
joyforever06joyforever06., Central Serbia Serbia1 Threads 58 Posts
fleur00: Hallo everybody!
it may sound silly and does to me smtimes that at my age i hvn t found my way, yet.
i hv a rather good job, socially related and i like that aspect of it. however once i stepped in that career i found out there are some aspects of it that i cannot accomplish, as simple as that. (the physical aspect, it is hard and cannot cope)
so i was thinking of changing my job and starting a new education, by getting a univ digree.
...and i have found out that i dont know what to do other than what i cannot do in my present job. it seems i only want to do what my body cannot do (male job).
...nothing else interests me. no passion.no drive. everyhting and nothing at the same time.
and at the same time i want to get a univ digree:i hv the brain for it and it is professionally necessary.
do i hv other qualities other than those that brought me to choose my present career? if yes, how to find them out? i can t see them.
which direction to take??
i am asking u to share yr similar experiences with me, how u managed to clarify your ideas, yr advice, opinion.
this situation has been gnawing at me!! it makes me suffer.
it may be i was not clear enough in the description above, i will try to clarify if u say it is not clear at all.
thank u a lot in advance!


fleur 00 u r not alone. i also have the same problem and i will follow sommerauer71 advice. let s keep looking around and set ourselves a goal. i hope it will work for me as well as for you. i have no more advice unfortunately
Mar 21, 2009 8:02 PM CST educational guidance
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Ladies

I wish you nothng other than the best in your new ventures and keep us informed of your progress. I will be and as we will all be interested.
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