would you rather have someone beautiful/handsome or some one sweet and charming?????????
I have been here for awhile now.. And some of the guys on this site wont even give me the time of day.. I guess it's because I am not as pretty as some of the other ladies..... So I want to know your opinions ... Do looks really matter that much?
personally I think that a woman who would treat me right or even better than I have been in the past would be a blessing from GOD. I would have to say sweet and charming. Whats on the outside is only material. I am not a material person.
I'm not going to lie and say that looks don't count, because there has to be an attraction. However, most of the guys I've dated haven't been all that good looking, just sweet and pretty wonderful. So, you get another vote for sweet and charming.
thanks for the replies ya'll I do agree with you angel that there should be some attraction .. But I personaly dont think it should be all about looks though....
for me there has to be some kind of an attraction. Like a great smile, the eye...a wink, great mustache. But gotta have the sweet and charming, not to mention a few other certain qualities. Robin
Looks are on the outside only; to make any assumption that the exterior of a person reflects what s on the inside is naive at best and downright dangerous at worst. Oh sure, everyone likes to "show-off" their partner in public, but then what about in private? Looks do not imply intelligence; people's looks change with age, while the qualities of being "attractive"on the inside usually do not. Which is better, when in old age, sitting in your rocker, someone who can still carry on a good conversation, sharing the same interests as you, or some one with only faded looks with ever deepening wrinkles that just sits there with a vacant smile...looks are only skin deep. %)
Looks matter for the instant attraction, i mean you look at them first- and no matter wat anyone says- if u dont find them physically appealing someway then your not really going to be interested. Im not saying there more important however. Personality deffinately out-weighs looks in a big way. As long as i find them cute, and they have a great personality. Then yeah. Im interested. And for me people can b cute by the simplist things- eyes, smiles, nose, watever. Hehe
I fuuly agree with phoenix's observation; you are an attractive woman and intelligent; maibe that is what scares off the obviously shallow males that have unfortunatky crossed your path; hang in there! ps; I loved the Bayou country!! %)
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I have been here for awhile now..
And some of the guys on this site wont even give me the time of day..
I guess it's because I am not as pretty as some of the other ladies.....
So I want to know your opinions ...
Do looks really matter that much?