how important are looks? ( Archived) (40)

Jun 17, 2005 4:35 AM CST how important are looks?
chrislynn
chrislynnchrislynnhammond, USA7 Threads 58 Posts
would you rather have someone beautiful/handsome or some one sweet and charming?????????

I have been here for awhile now..
And some of the guys on this site wont even give me the time of day..
I guess it's because I am not as pretty as some of the other ladies.....
So I want to know your opinions ...
Do looks really matter that much?
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Jun 17, 2005 4:42 AM CST how important are looks?
Motelman2005
Motelman2005Motelman2005Brinkley, USA23 Threads 153 Posts
personally I think that a woman who would treat me right or even better than I have been in the past would be a blessing from GOD. I would have to say sweet and charming. Whats on the outside is only material. I am not a material person.

Sam
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Jun 17, 2005 5:40 AM CST how important are looks?
FiestyAngel
FiestyAngelFiestyAngelEdmond, Oklahoma USA39 Posts
I'm not going to lie and say that looks don't count, because there has to be an attraction. However, most of the guys I've dated haven't been all that good looking, just sweet and pretty wonderful. So, you get another vote for sweet and charming.
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Jun 17, 2005 5:52 AM CST how important are looks?
chrislynn
chrislynnchrislynnhammond, USA7 Threads 58 Posts
thanks for the replies ya'll
I do agree with you angel that there should be some attraction .. But I personaly dont think it should be all about looks though....
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Jun 17, 2005 5:55 AM CST how important are looks?
thephoenix7777
thephoenix7777thephoenix77778 Threads 448 Posts
well chris the guys are being snots or they are just blind because you look like a pretty woman to me
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Jun 17, 2005 6:01 AM CST how important are looks?
doogs
doogsdoogsfife, Fife, Scotland UK4 Threads 83 Posts
i would rather have someone who would treat me nice and i could trust them than just go for looks

but if they had the looks as well its a bonus

i have dated all types some stunning and not so some skinny and not so each of them had their traits that kept me happy
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Jun 17, 2005 6:55 AM CST how important are looks?
aprilblossom
aprilblossomaprilblossom166 Posts
for me there has to be some kind of an attraction. Like a great smile, the eye...a wink, great mustache. But gotta have the sweet and charming, not to mention a few other certain qualities. Robin
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Jun 17, 2005 8:05 AM CST how important are looks?
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
Looks are on the outside only; to make any assumption that the exterior of a person reflects what
s on the inside is naive at best and downright dangerous at worst.
Oh sure, everyone likes to "show-off" their partner in public, but then what about in private? Looks do not imply intelligence; people's looks change with age, while the qualities of being "attractive"on the inside usually do not. Which is better, when in old age, sitting in your rocker, someone who can still carry on a good conversation, sharing the same interests as you, or some one with only faded looks with ever deepening wrinkles that just sits there with a vacant smile...looks are only skin deep. %)
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Jun 17, 2005 8:12 AM CST how important are looks?
solitaire u truly are a sweetheart wanna come home with me *winks
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Jun 17, 2005 8:33 AM CST how important are looks?
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
Hey, I read that you have a hotel for vacations; will ther be a diminuative,slavish midget in a tuxedo to greet me if I come to your fantasy hotel? %)
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Jun 17, 2005 10:55 AM CST how important are looks?
Looks matter for the instant attraction, i mean you look at them first- and no matter wat anyone says- if u dont find them physically appealing someway then your not really going to be interested. Im not saying there more important however. Personality deffinately out-weighs looks in a big way. As long as i find them cute, and they have a great personality. Then yeah. Im interested. And for me people can b cute by the simplist things- eyes, smiles, nose, watever. Hehe
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Jun 17, 2005 2:42 PM CST how important are looks?
how about handsome and not so charming??
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Jun 17, 2005 2:54 PM CST how important are looks?
chrislynn
chrislynnchrislynnhammond, USA7 Threads 58 Posts
Thank you all for replying to my thread....
And thank you phoenix, For the complement!

christi
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Jun 17, 2005 3:08 PM CST how important are looks?
i was always partial to redheads..
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Jun 17, 2005 4:23 PM CST how important are looks?
chrislynn
chrislynnchrislynnhammond, USA7 Threads 58 Posts
LOL.. well thanks thunder
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Jun 17, 2005 4:37 PM CST how important are looks?
and califorication also..
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Jun 17, 2005 4:42 PM CST how important are looks?
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
I fuuly agree with phoenix's observation; you are an attractive woman and intelligent; maibe that is what scares off the obviously shallow males that have unfortunatky crossed your path; hang in there!
ps; I loved the Bayou country!! %)
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Jun 17, 2005 5:21 PM CST how important are looks?
BlondeLightning
BlondeLightningBlondeLightning2 Threads 305 Posts
Hi Chris Lynn,

How important are looks? I like to think this:

Good looks on the outside do not make up for the heart on the inside!

Now you know what I think about that!
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Jun 17, 2005 5:44 PM CST how important are looks?
dempewolfchristy
dempewolfchristydempewolfchristy25 Threads 424 Posts
isnt beauty created from the inside
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Jun 17, 2005 6:39 PM CST how important are looks?
BlondeLightning
BlondeLightningBlondeLightning2 Threads 305 Posts
Ya Christy,

It starts on the inside and radiates outward!
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