friend wants more!!! (40)

Apr 13, 2009 4:44 AM CST friend wants more!!!
puggle
pugglepuggleWex, Wexford Ireland21 Threads 1,393 Posts
sweetvelvet: have fun
will do!! were such close friends that there ``````ll be no suprises.. i know her, she knows me...
Apr 13, 2009 5:08 AM CST friend wants more!!!
Crystal29
Crystal29Crystal29Glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK35 Threads 8,448 Posts
Go for it Puggle...and remember all the romantic tips we discussed with GF and Nitak the other night.... laugh

Good luck with it....love and best wishes..... hug
Apr 13, 2009 6:00 AM CST friend wants more!!!
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
puggle: i`ve recently been approached by a good friend...that her feelings for me have changed from friend to more than friends!
to my shock,for atleast a cxouple of months now!

i have always had strong feelings for her too,but never acted as she was the one insisting"" just mates!""..

i`m confussed!!! is it just familiarity? loneliness? on her part..
awkward to discuss with her as i`d probably mess it up!
advise would be great lads...any or all!!


Go for it hun!!!
Just do it, you are both friends already so thats a great basis for any relationship and to be honest it will feel a little strange at first thinking of a friend in a romantic and physical way but it passes very very quickly. Dont rush into it take it slowly although you know her as a friend you dont know her as a girlfriend so take it slowly and do the dating and the romancing dont presume because you know her that you can rush past that phase you cant its still very important.
Look life is too short just make that leap and do it,you dont want to be sitting back in 5 or 10 years time thinking what if... its better to regret the things you have done than the chances you havent taken.
I would say fair play to the girl for making the first move that must have taken some amount of courage for her to do that.
Im hoping that it does work out for you both but you never know how things will work out but thats just life and if it doesnt again dont think you can go back to being friends you also need that transition period before you can go back to being friends and to be honest some people cant but others can.
Im wishing you all the love and happiness that you deserve hun teddybear teddybear teddybear
Apr 13, 2009 6:11 AM CST friend wants more!!!
nvosiris
nvosirisnvosirismeath, Meath Ireland53 Threads 6 Polls 5,712 Posts
puggle: i`ve recently been approached by a good friend...that her feelings for me have changed from friend to more than friends!
to my shock,for atleast a cxouple of months now!

i have always had strong feelings for her too,but never acted as she was the one insisting"" just mates!""..

i`m confussed!!! is it just familiarity? loneliness? on her part..
awkward to discuss with her as i`d probably mess it up!advise would be great lads...any or all!!


Go for it !!! nothing ventured, nothing gained love
Apr 13, 2009 6:29 AM CST friend wants more!!!
RubyTuesday1
RubyTuesday1RubyTuesday1Dublin, Ireland10 Threads 1 Polls 1,811 Posts
Aw....does this mean you're off the market? crying

Best of luck and I hope it all works out for you.
Just go for it

teddybear
Apr 13, 2009 6:33 AM CST friend wants more!!!
Thedeise
ThedeiseThedeisewaterford, Waterford Ireland174 Threads 3 Polls 1,438 Posts
puggle: i`ve recently been approached by a good friend...that her feelings for me have changed from friend to more than friends!
to my shock,for atleast a cxouple of months now!

i have always had strong feelings for her too,but never acted as she was the one insisting"" just mates!""..

i`m confussed!!! is it just familiarity? loneliness? on her part..
awkward to discuss with her as i`d probably mess it up!
advise would be great lads...any or all!!


If she has always onl wanted to be mates, and you had more stronger feelings, and now her feeling for you have gotten stronger, i would go for it.

Best of luck
Apr 13, 2009 7:56 AM CST friend wants more!!!
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
RubyTuesday1: Aw....does this mean you're off the market?

Best of luck and I hope it all works out for you.
Just go for it


Yeah I know Ruby another good one gone sigh sigh

how are ya girl hug
Apr 13, 2009 8:26 AM CST friend wants more!!!
Ecowarrior
EcowarriorEcowarriorBay of Plenty & Sligo Ireland, Bay of Plenty New Zealand12 Threads 334 Posts
puggle: i`ve recently been approached by a good friend...that her feelings for me have changed from friend to more than friends!
to my shock,for atleast a cxouple of months now!

i have always had strong feelings for her too,but never acted as she was the one insisting"" just mates!""..

i`m confussed!!! is it just familiarity? loneliness? on her part..
awkward to discuss with her as i`d probably mess it up!
advise would be great lads...any or all!!



doh doh

Mate come on, shes drawn you a picture, joined up the dots and you are scared of dunno confused what doh

Shes got to know you and likes what she has found doh shes also had to guts to put herself out there and be hurt, if you reject her.

If you dont react now, shes going to think your not interested doh


Buy some bouquet and bottle of wine , at this point you had better buy some chocolate as well, book the best table in town and, stop helping love across the road like a little old lady
(thanks Bono LOL) Be a man and be romantic, and kiss the girl when you take her home doh
Apr 13, 2009 9:35 AM CST friend wants more!!!
Ecoprincess
EcoprincessEcoprincessSligo/New Zealand, Sligo Ireland48 Threads 1 Polls 1,278 Posts
puggle: will do!! were such close friends that there ``````ll be no suprises.. i know her, she knows me...



theres always suprises, devil wink

enjoy yourselves, be happy and be kind to each other
Apr 13, 2009 9:37 AM CST friend wants more!!!
Ecoprincess
EcoprincessEcoprincessSligo/New Zealand, Sligo Ireland48 Threads 1 Polls 1,278 Posts
Ecowarrior: Mate come on, shes drawn you a picture, joined up the dots and you are scared of what

Shes got to know you and likes what she has found shes also had to guts to put herself out there and be hurt, if you reject her.

If you dont react now, shes going to think your not interested Buy some and bottle of , at this point you had better buy some chocolate as well, book the best table in town and, stop helping love across the road like a little old lady
(thanks Bono LOL) Be a man and be romantic, and kiss the girl when you take her home



Honey hes Irish, hes a bit slower of the mark than the Maori laugh

It took you what, the distance between Mikes and the shop 200 yards laugh laugh to make your mind up - O and a pair of black silky knickers rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

The Irish are a bit slower love kiss
Apr 13, 2009 9:56 AM CST friend wants more!!!
Big_John_Deere
Big_John_DeereBig_John_Deeretullamore, Offaly Ireland21 Threads 3 Polls 399 Posts
puggle: i`ve recently been approached by a good friend...that her feelings for me have changed from friend to more than friends!
to my shock,for atleast a cxouple of months now!

i have always had strong feelings for her too,but never acted as she was the one insisting"" just mates!""..

i`m confussed!!! is it just familiarity? loneliness? on her part..
awkward to discuss with her as i`d probably mess it up!
advise would be great lads...any or all!!




all depends on if you want to be friends r more, a kiss would tell a lot
Apr 13, 2009 9:57 AM CST friend wants more!!!
Ecowarrior
EcowarriorEcowarriorBay of Plenty & Sligo Ireland, Bay of Plenty New Zealand12 Threads 334 Posts
Ecoprincess: Honey hes Irish, hes a bit slower of the mark than the Maori

It took you what, the distance between Mikes and the shop 200 yards to make your mind up - O and a pair of black silky knickers

The Irish are a bit slower love


daydream



Slower doh I really really wont say more here foot in mouth
Apr 13, 2009 3:15 PM CST friend wants more!!!
puggle
pugglepuggleWex, Wexford Ireland21 Threads 1,393 Posts
Ecowarrior: Mate come on, shes drawn you a picture, joined up the dots and you are scared of what

Shes got to know you and likes what she has found shes also had to guts to put herself out there and be hurt, if you reject her.

If you dont react now, shes going to think your not interested Buy some and bottle of , at this point you had better buy some chocolate as well, book the best table in town and, stop helping love across the road like a little old lady
(thanks Bono LOL) Be a man and be romantic, and kiss the girl when you take her home
i`ve been lokin at all posts... i`ll pick yours mate!! I KISSED HER!! SHE KISSED BACK... chance/risk taken!! feel 15 all ova!!...but without the stupidity ..lol..rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Apr 13, 2009 3:18 PM CST friend wants more!!!
Ecoprincess
EcoprincessEcoprincessSligo/New Zealand, Sligo Ireland48 Threads 1 Polls 1,278 Posts
puggle: i`ve been lokin at all posts... i`ll pick yours mate!! I KISSED HER!! SHE KISSED BACK... chance/risk taken!! feel 15 all ova!!...but without the stupidity ..lol..


I just read that too him - hes cooking roll eyes

He says tha, you have balls and women like that, now dont take so long to get around to making her breakfast thumbs up


I agree with him, wink
Apr 13, 2009 3:21 PM CST friend wants more!!!
puggle
pugglepuggleWex, Wexford Ireland21 Threads 1,393 Posts
Ecoprincess: I just read that too him - hes cooking

He says tha, you have balls and women like that, now dont take so long to get around to making her breakfast I agree with him,
we`ll not sleep(i think) for awhile but the kisss were so tender and right!
didn`t want to ruin it by bringin lil brain down under into it!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Apr 13, 2009 3:56 PM CST friend wants more!!!
puggle
pugglepuggleWex, Wexford Ireland21 Threads 1,393 Posts
ladylumps: Go for it hun!!!
Just do it, you are both friends already so thats a great basis for any relationship and to be honest it will feel a little strange at first thinking of a friend in a romantic and physical way but it passes very very quickly. Dont rush into it take it slowly although you know her as a friend you dont know her as a girlfriend so take it slowly and do the dating and the romancing dont presume because you know her that you can rush past that phase you cant its still very important.
Look life is too short just make that leap and do it,you dont want to be sitting back in 5 or 10 years time thinking what if... its better to regret the things you have done than the chances you havent taken.
I would say fair play to the girl for making the first move that must have taken some amount of courage for her to do that.
Im hoping that it does work out for you both but you never know how things will work out but thats just life and if it doesnt again dont think you can go back to being friends you also need that transition period before you can go back to being friends and to be honest some people cant but others can.
Im wishing you all the love and happiness that you deserve hun
shinners!! i do hope that the people on here give you as much time/credit/respect that you deserve! i mean it! that post was both thought out and heart felt,that you`ve my eternal respect and best wishes.. when you find him! let me know... i`ll shake his hand /warn him/congratulate him and tell him how lucky he is!!!

my utmost respects and thanks.

sean
Apr 13, 2009 4:01 PM CST friend wants more!!!
Ecoprincess
EcoprincessEcoprincessSligo/New Zealand, Sligo Ireland48 Threads 1 Polls 1,278 Posts
puggle: shinners!! i do hope that the people on here give you as much time/credit/respect that you deserve! i mean it! that post was both thought out and heart felt,that you`ve my eternal respect and best wishes.. when you find him! let me know... i`ll shake his hand /warn him/congratulate him and tell him how lucky he is!!!

my utmost respects and thanks.

sean



Yep thats our LL applause applause applause

A lady in a million
Apr 13, 2009 4:08 PM CST friend wants more!!!
puggle
pugglepuggleWex, Wexford Ireland21 Threads 1,393 Posts
Ecoprincess: Yep thats our LL

A lady in a million
it is, isn`t it!! one classy lady..
Apr 13, 2009 4:17 PM CST friend wants more!!!
bluebelle4000
bluebelle4000bluebelle4000Meath, Ireland46 Threads 6,001 Posts
puggle: shinners!! i do hope that the people on here give you as much time/credit/respect that you deserve! i mean it! that post was both thought out and heart felt,that you`ve my eternal respect and best wishes.. when you find him! let me know... i`ll shake his hand /warn him/congratulate him and tell him how lucky he is!!!

my utmost respects and thanks.

sean


and thats my buddy teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear
Apr 13, 2009 5:05 PM CST friend wants more!!!
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
puggle: shinners!! i do hope that the people on here give you as much time/credit/respect that you deserve! i mean it! that post was both thought out and heart felt,that you`ve my eternal respect and best wishes.. when you find him! let me know... i`ll shake his hand /warn him/congratulate him and tell him how lucky he is!!!

my utmost respects and thanks.

sean


Ah thanks hun blushing blushing blushing
see I can do serious and grown up when I want - and dont worry WHEN I do meet HIM he'll be too busy to shake your hand grin grin grin banana banana banana
Keep us informed you know we love a happy ending

teddybear teddybear teddybear
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