friend wants more!!! (40)

Apr 13, 2009 3:20 AM CST friend wants more!!!
puggle
pugglepuggleWex, Wexford Ireland21 Threads 1,393 Posts
i`ve recently been approached by a good friend...that her feelings for me have changed from friend to more than friends!
to my shock,for atleast a cxouple of months now!

i have always had strong feelings for her too,but never acted as she was the one insisting"" just mates!""..

i`m confussed!!! is it just familiarity? loneliness? on her part..
awkward to discuss with her as i`d probably mess it up!
advise would be great lads...any or all!!dunno confused dunno confused
Apr 13, 2009 3:34 AM CST friend wants more!!!
boredguy
boredguyboredguydublin, Kildare Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 1,788 Posts
puggle: i`ve recently been approached by a good friend...that her feelings for me have changed from friend to more than friends!
to my shock,for atleast a cxouple of months now!

i have always had strong feelings for her too,but never acted as she was the one insisting"" just mates!""..

i`m confussed!!! is it just familiarity? loneliness? on her part..
awkward to discuss with her as i`d probably mess it up!
advise would be great lads...any or all!!






If i had a penny !!!shock for the amount of time's I've heard that!!!doh wimmim throwing themselves at me....doh laugh rolling on the floor laughing





puggle your a nice bloke and you seem to like her and i bet she a sweet heart ...so why not explain to her you'd love to give it a go like... but lets promise never to lose your friendship.... what have you got to lose..unless your not attracted to her.i say go for it.....yay
Apr 13, 2009 3:38 AM CST friend wants more!!!
puggle
pugglepuggleWex, Wexford Ireland21 Threads 1,393 Posts
boredguy: If i had a penny !!! for the amount of time's I've heard that!!! wimmim throwing themselves at me.... puggle your a nice bloke and you seem to like her and i bet she a sweet heart ...so why not explain to her you'd love to give it a go like... but lets promise never to lose your friendship.... what have you got to lose..unless your not attracted to her.i say go for it.....
thanx mate!! i guess i just needed to hear it from others..
i just hope she feels the same..and its not just false feelingsapplause
Apr 13, 2009 3:38 AM CST friend wants more!!!
Crazylegs
CrazylegsCrazylegsDublin, Ireland71 Threads 6,737 Posts
puggle: i`ve recently been approached by a good friend...that her feelings for me have changed from friend to more than friends!
to my shock,for atleast a cxouple of months now!

i have always had strong feelings for her too,but never acted as she was the one insisting"" just mates!""..

i`m confussed!!! is it just familiarity? loneliness? on her part..
awkward to discuss with her as i`d probably mess it up!
advise would be great lads...any or all!!


just go for it life is way to short applause applause applause
Apr 13, 2009 3:40 AM CST friend wants more!!!
puggle
pugglepuggleWex, Wexford Ireland21 Threads 1,393 Posts
Crazylegs: just go for it life is way to short
cheers cl !!!

it was a little weird the way she came out and said it tho!!
almost like we can experiment and see if its genuine feelings or not... still not quite sure???confused
Apr 13, 2009 3:44 AM CST friend wants more!!!
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
puggle: thanx mate!! i guess i just needed to hear it from others..
i just hope she feels the same..and its not just false feelings


Well you will never know if you dont go!!!teddybear

Its just your fear and sense of making a fool of yourself that is holding you back......why waste anymore time thinking about it just do it, as time is too precious to waste......teddybear

Knowing the bloke that you are she is a lucky girl and would be mad not to see it......I wish you lots of love and luckteddybear
Apr 13, 2009 3:45 AM CST friend wants more!!!
puggle
pugglepuggleWex, Wexford Ireland21 Threads 1,393 Posts
was half looking for someone who had a bad experience in going for it!! so as to get some perspective on the whole thing..
so confussed...and i`m not usually!!
Apr 13, 2009 3:47 AM CST friend wants more!!!
puggle
pugglepuggleWex, Wexford Ireland21 Threads 1,393 Posts
nuala: Well you will never know if you dont go!!!

Its just your fear and sense of making a fool of yourself that is holding you back......why waste anymore time thinking about it just do it, as time is too precious to waste......

Knowing the bloke that you are she is a lucky girl and would be mad not to see it......I wish you lots of love and luck
thanx my noodles!! your a soft sweetie!! hope your(were) right?teddybear
Apr 13, 2009 3:47 AM CST friend wants more!!!
Crazylegs
CrazylegsCrazylegsDublin, Ireland71 Threads 6,737 Posts
puggle: cheers cl !!!

it was a little weird the way she came out and said it tho!!
almost like we can experiment and see if its genuine feelings or not... still not quite sure???


well thats really good actually to see what happens and it sounds like your very good friends so if you guys feel thats its not working out romantically then you can go back to being mates with no damage caused..

oh wine and dine her(and then tell us about it) rolling on the floor laughing

best of luck yay yay
Apr 13, 2009 3:51 AM CST friend wants more!!!
puggle
pugglepuggleWex, Wexford Ireland21 Threads 1,393 Posts
Crazylegs: well thats really good actually to see what happens and it sounds like your very good friends so if you guys feel thats its not working out romantically then you can go back to being mates with no damage caused..

oh wine and dine her(and then tell us about it)

best of luck
wave i think this is one that i`ll have to think long and hard about...i`ve got the kids to consider in all this too!! but i`ll def. keep you all informed to the outcome..
thanks guys, sometimes ya just need to hear out-loud what your heart is tellin you!! KUDOS to all...!!!applause applause applause applause
Apr 13, 2009 3:55 AM CST friend wants more!!!
sweetvelvet
sweetvelvetsweetvelvetdublin, Dublin Ireland37 Threads 1 Polls 6,258 Posts
i agree with nuala ,i could count the amount of times i haven't done things due to fear.so go for itcheering teddybear
Apr 13, 2009 4:00 AM CST friend wants more!!!
puggle
pugglepuggleWex, Wexford Ireland21 Threads 1,393 Posts
sweetvelvet: i agree with nuala ,i could count the amount of times i haven't done things due to fear.so go for it
thanks sv.. appreciated, big time!!! by the way what the hell happened with that kcracer guy? whats the goss??dunno
Apr 13, 2009 4:05 AM CST friend wants more!!!
sweetvelvet
sweetvelvetsweetvelvetdublin, Dublin Ireland37 Threads 1 Polls 6,258 Posts
puggle: thanks sv.. appreciated, big time!!! by the way what the hell happened with that kcracer guy? whats the goss??


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing the what?
Apr 13, 2009 4:09 AM CST friend wants more!!!
puggle
pugglepuggleWex, Wexford Ireland21 Threads 1,393 Posts
sweetvelvet: the what?
didn`t see the thread...what happened!! his profile`s been taken down...confused dunno
Apr 13, 2009 4:31 AM CST friend wants more!!!
puggle
pugglepuggleWex, Wexford Ireland21 Threads 1,393 Posts
Irishminx: You go puggle, feel the fear and do it anyway, the very best of love and luck to you both............................
thanks minxy!!!applause applause applause applause teddybear
Apr 13, 2009 4:34 AM CST friend wants more!!!
ciaran64
ciaran64ciaran64drimnagh, Dublin Ireland217 Threads 4 Polls 5,881 Posts
puggle go fo it mate,u might end up regetting it
Apr 13, 2009 4:36 AM CST friend wants more!!!
leisure07
leisure07leisure07birmingham, West Midlands, England UK29 Threads 1 Polls 7,059 Posts
ciaran64: puggle go fo it mate,u might end up regetting it
its better to be loved and not loved at all ,
Apr 13, 2009 4:41 AM CST friend wants more!!!
puggle
pugglepuggleWex, Wexford Ireland21 Threads 1,393 Posts
ciaran64: puggle go fo it mate,u might end up regetting it
thanks man ..i intend to!! let yàll know the story with time..
Apr 13, 2009 4:42 AM CST friend wants more!!!
sweetvelvet
sweetvelvetsweetvelvetdublin, Dublin Ireland37 Threads 1 Polls 6,258 Posts
puggle: thanks man ..i intend to!! let yàll know the story with time..


have funcheering cheering cheering
Apr 13, 2009 4:42 AM CST friend wants more!!!
puggle
pugglepuggleWex, Wexford Ireland21 Threads 1,393 Posts
leisure07: its better to be loved and not loved at all ,
thanks leis... jez! your brom was un-lucky yesterday!! thought you`s were gonna knick it!!!
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