Raven0: LOL Still two conflicting ideas. Guy says, girl make move Girl says, guy make move. So then no-one makes a move. s'ok I made my move. I guess in the end, it really is just up to the person it involves. Each individual makes their choice, be it wrong or right. For there is no wrong, there is no right.
g33kgurl: but.. ur saying, it is easier for women to take the chance of getting reject, than for men?
No I am not saying that either. Let me try to explain, for the most part, it's just my feeling about this and I am not saying it's written in stone nor am I conveying by no stretch that it is a o.ne way street. If a man is a friend and makes the 1st move and gets rejected, the chances are the friendship will be in jeopardy due to men's insecurity whereas woman are for the most part stronger emotionally, and no it's not easier either rejection wise for women. Bottom line is better shot of remaing friends if woman made the first move and was rejected. I don't know if that explains it but in retrospect I'm giving women more credit than men.
drbombay: No I am not saying that either. Let me try to explain, for the most part, it's just my feeling about this and I am not saying it's written in stone nor am I conveying by no stretch that it is a o.ne way street. If a man is a friend and makes the 1st move and gets rejected, the chances are the friendship will be in jeopardy due to men's insecurity whereas woman are for the most part stronger emotionally, and no it's not easier either rejection wise for women. Bottom line is better shot of remaing friends if woman made the first move and was rejected. I don't know if that explains it but in retrospect I'm giving women more credit than men.
g33kgurl: what happened when u made ur move raven?
He still talks to me. he seemed flattered. and doesn't think I'm a loser for bringing it up. other than that. i really don't know what's gonna happen lol
Raven0: He still talks to me. he seemed flattered. and doesn't think I'm a loser for bringing it up. other than that. i really don't know what's gonna happen lol
well.. at least you tried... sometimes it works sometimes it doesnt i guess.. such is life.. but ya'll never know..
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but.. ur saying, it is easier for women to take the chance of getting reject, than for men?