Is Friendship a better starting point before romance? ( Archived) (66)

Apr 29, 2009 9:07 AM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
Witchaywoman: You never know. You might find out you hate the guy before you have him and find out he's awesome in bed...


or you find a guy who is like edward cullen droolicious - and find out he's a one minute guy in bed...... rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 29, 2009 10:23 AM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
friendship is the best way to start the relationship..leading to love...
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Apr 29, 2009 10:24 AM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
Friends make the best lovers.....or so they say...

roll eyes
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Apr 29, 2009 10:33 AM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
BlueSkyJ
BlueSkyJBlueSkyJWoodland Hil(near Los Angeles), California USA2 Threads 229 Posts
Raven0: For most people starting a relationship is hard enough. But what's the better way to begin it?
Is being a friend first the way to garner attention then eventual love?

Mutual chemistry, mutual attraction is the best way for me
to begin a relationship......I have plenty of friends & if I love
having them, but I'm looking for a girl friend.....When we are
both attracted to each other the friendship develops on a much more
intimate level.....blushing
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Apr 29, 2009 11:13 PM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
BlueSkyJ: Mutual chemistry, mutual attraction is the best way for me
to begin a relationship......I have plenty of friends & if I love
having them, but I'm looking for a girl friend.....When we are
both attracted to each other the friendship develops on a much more
intimate level.....


i completely agree with you blueskyj.. i cannot fathom actually making love to someone i initially considered as my friend! GAAAAAAAAG! although i can deal with being crazily attracted to a guy then being the bestest friends ever later on and still be able to do the deed! grin grin grin grin
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Apr 29, 2009 11:16 PM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
Raven0
Raven0Raven0Right here, Alberta Canada28 Threads 3,454 Posts
That's it.
totally seducing 'em now.
Friend shmend
rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 29, 2009 11:17 PM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
rocketqueen
rocketqueenrocketqueengeelong, Victoria Australia23 Threads 1 Polls 2,003 Posts
Da10th: IMO, the basis of any romance is a strong friendship




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Apr 29, 2009 11:19 PM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
I think that it's important for a relationship to make progress is for the parties involved to form a friendship.
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Apr 29, 2009 11:22 PM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
In response to: For most people starting a relationship is hard enough. But what's the better way to begin it?
Is being a friend first the way to garner attention then eventual love?
That is a good ?. I've heard in some situations it developed into love, whether it worked out I couldn't say. I have 1 female friend(not intimate) and we get along tremendously and we kid around but we both feel it would compromise our friendship and that is too valuable to lose. Tough call Ravencheers dunno
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Apr 29, 2009 11:22 PM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
Raven0: That's it.
totally seducing 'em now.
Friend shmend


friend shmend indeedy! there has to be a physical attraction first off, lets be honest! and friendship can progress later on if it is meant to last.

after all, when i am all decrepit & in my walking stick, i would like to have out of this world memories to fall back on to keep me warm during the winter nights, ya know! yay yay yay yay
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Apr 29, 2009 11:25 PM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
Raven0
Raven0Raven0Right here, Alberta Canada28 Threads 3,454 Posts
g33kgurl: friend shmend indeedy! there has to be a physical attraction first off, lets be honest! and friendship can progress later on if it is meant to last.

after all, when i am all decrepit & in my walking stick, i would like to have out of this world memories to fall back on to keep me warm during the winter nights, ya know!

I'd rather have my castle and minions to fall back on. LOL
But a memory can be pretty decent too.
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Apr 29, 2009 11:28 PM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
Raven0: I'd rather have my castle and minions to fall back on. LOL
But a memory can be pretty decent too.


<<<<<<looking very leery now.....

i'll have a garrison full of lovely little navy guys to do my every bidding of course.. but ahhhhhhh... nothing will be able to compare with memories of hot & steamy nights with some edward cullen lookalike matey! ner ner nerdancing dancing dancing dancing
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Apr 29, 2009 11:29 PM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
Raven0
Raven0Raven0Right here, Alberta Canada28 Threads 3,454 Posts
g33kgurl: <<<<<<looking very leery now.....
i'll have a garrison full of lovely little navy guys to do my every bidding of course.. but ahhhhhhh... nothing will be able to compare with memories of hot & steamy nights with some edward cullen lookalike matey! ner ner ner

army beats navy lalala
nuuuu
But I will admit, Edward rocks!
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Apr 29, 2009 11:32 PM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
starshinebright
starshinebrightstarshinebrightRiverside, California USA189 Threads 1 Polls 6,305 Posts
Big_John: I am back to normal. Life is good again. Thanks for asking.


Good, I am glad!!!!hug
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Apr 29, 2009 11:35 PM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
Raven0
Raven0Raven0Right here, Alberta Canada28 Threads 3,454 Posts
drbombay: That is a good ?. I've heard in some situations it developed into love, whether it worked out I couldn't say. I have 1 female friend(not intimate) and we get along tremendously and we kid around but we both feel it would compromise our friendship and that is too valuable to lose. Tough call Raven

I've got conflicting ideas here.
I know friends of mine have fallen for other friends, and are now married and seemigly happy.
Then there are those whom the very thought has altered the friendship.
A puzzler it is.
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Apr 29, 2009 11:39 PM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
sxc666: I think friendship is a great starting point for a relationship to progress.



And then she whispered into his earwow ....And he said.......devil

yay
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Apr 29, 2009 11:43 PM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
Raven0: I've got conflicting ideas here.
I know friends of mine have fallen for other friends, and are now married and seemigly happy.
Then there are those whom the very thought has altered the friendship.
A puzzler it is.
I say go for it anyway, for some strange reason I can't explain if you make the 1st move it will not affect the relationship, if the man makes the 1st I believe it will and again I do not know why I feel thay way.comfort
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Apr 29, 2009 11:46 PM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
drbombay: I say go for it anyway, for some strange reason I can't explain if you make the 1st move it will not affect the relationship, if the man makes the 1st I believe it will and again I do not know why I feel thay way.



REAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAALLY??? so we can hit on our men friends but not the other way around huh??? that's not fair.. so ther eyou go raven, hit away! ner ner ner.... personally - if i hang out with a guy ie. go pub crawling or start gaming together online or lan parties, he is NOT a date material! UNLESS of course he starts buying me shiny little gifts and taking me to candlelight dinners... thennnnn... i might see him in another light...cheers cheers cheers cheers cheers
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Apr 29, 2009 11:49 PM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
Raven0
Raven0Raven0Right here, Alberta Canada28 Threads 3,454 Posts
LOL
Still two conflicting ideas.
Guy says, girl make move
Girl says, guy make move.
So then no-one makes a move.
s'ok
I made my move.
I guess in the end, it really is just up to the person it involves.
Each individual makes their choice, be it wrong or right. For there is no wrong, there is no right.
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Apr 30, 2009 12:00 AM CST Is Friendship a better starting point before romance?
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
g33kgurl: REAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAALLY??? so we can hit on our men friends but not the other way around huh??? that's not fair.. so ther eyou go raven, hit away! ner ner ner.... personally - if i hang out with a guy ie. go pub crawling or start gaming together online or lan parties, he is NOT a date material! UNLESS of course he starts buying me shiny little gifts and taking me to candlelight dinners... thennnnn... i might see him in another light...
I didn't mean it for reasons you're stating, women are more secure then men and that is why.handshake hug cheers
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