are men too picky these days or can we be too open in our profiles (95)
lancerbora: i was just wondering ...
ive sent a few messages,flowers ,,mainly to guys who have looked at my profile a few times..
and they either dont get back to me,or get back to me and say,,,
i dont want to be involved with girls with kids..
i would prefer you lived closer....
i dont think we would click....
you look nice,but we dont have same interests..
blah,blah..the list goes on...
what ever happened to giving someone a chance..
i wouldnt mind but some of the guys are early forties--surely they too have lived and come with a past-as i do !!!
are you better off with no photos and small amount of info on your profile to keep the mystery...
ive sent a few messages,flowers ,,mainly to guys who have looked at my profile a few times..
and they either dont get back to me,or get back to me and say,,,
i dont want to be involved with girls with kids..
i would prefer you lived closer....
i dont think we would click....
you look nice,but we dont have same interests..
blah,blah..the list goes on...
what ever happened to giving someone a chance..
i wouldnt mind but some of the guys are early forties--surely they too have lived and come with a past-as i do !!!
are you better off with no photos and small amount of info on your profile to keep the mystery...
Hiya
No, i don't think there is anything wrong with being honest. If they can't accept you for who you are then its their problem not yours...JMO
No, If something is going to effect a relationship is best that it is out in the open. I mean you wouldnt want to go out with a guy who wasnt interested in a women with kids would you.
lancerbora: i was just wondering ...
ive sent a few messages,flowers ,,mainly to guys who have looked at my profile a few times..
and they either dont get back to me,or get back to me and say,,,
i dont want to be involved with girls with kids..
i would prefer you lived closer....
i dont think we would click....
you look nice,but we dont have same interests..
blah,blah..the list goes on...
what ever happened to giving someone a chance..
i wouldnt mind but some of the guys are early forties--surely they too have lived and come with a past-as i do !!!
are you better off with no photos and small amount of info on your profile to keep the mystery...
ive sent a few messages,flowers ,,mainly to guys who have looked at my profile a few times..
and they either dont get back to me,or get back to me and say,,,
i dont want to be involved with girls with kids..
i would prefer you lived closer....
i dont think we would click....
you look nice,but we dont have same interests..
blah,blah..the list goes on...
what ever happened to giving someone a chance..
i wouldnt mind but some of the guys are early forties--surely they too have lived and come with a past-as i do !!!
are you better off with no photos and small amount of info on your profile to keep the mystery...
all i know is that i've never recieved any flowers or mail from you? hint hint
wink winklancerbora: i was just wondering ...
ive sent a few messages,flowers ,,mainly to guys who have looked at my profile a few times..
and they either dont get back to me,or get back to me and say,,,
i dont want to be involved with girls with kids..
i would prefer you lived closer....
i dont think we would click....
you look nice,but we dont have same interests..
blah,blah..the list goes on...
what ever happened to giving someone a chance..
i wouldnt mind but some of the guys are early forties--surely they too have lived and come with a past-as i do !!!
are you better off with no photos and small amount of info on your profile to keep the mystery...
ive sent a few messages,flowers ,,mainly to guys who have looked at my profile a few times..
and they either dont get back to me,or get back to me and say,,,
i dont want to be involved with girls with kids..
i would prefer you lived closer....
i dont think we would click....
you look nice,but we dont have same interests..
blah,blah..the list goes on...
what ever happened to giving someone a chance..
i wouldnt mind but some of the guys are early forties--surely they too have lived and come with a past-as i do !!!
are you better off with no photos and small amount of info on your profile to keep the mystery...
Well if I see that a guy has looked at my profile and not made any contact I would presume that he wasnt interested thats just me because I have looked at profiles and if Im not interested then I wouldnt make contact with them. If I saw a guy looking at my profile every day and not contacting me then I would send a jokey email or flower. Then again Im on the site over 2 1/2 years and I could count on one hand the amount of dates Ive been on???????
Stick with it and dont give up.
Anyway would you want some one in your life that was so quick to judge you especially on a few lines
vonney: No, If something is going to effect a relationship is best that it is out in the open. I mean you wouldnt want to go out with a guy who wasnt interested in a women with kids would you.
no,and thats why i state i have a ten year odl daughter who i raise alone,,,
but seriously,i do think maybe guys want gals who are more free..
lancerbora: no,and thats why i state i have a ten year odl daughter who i raise alone,,,
but seriously,i do think maybe guys want gals who are more free..
but seriously,i do think maybe guys want gals who are more free..
Then they are not the guys for you.
Phusion69: all i know is that i've never recieved any flowers or mail from you? hint hint wink wink
afraid of anymore rejection
lancerbora: no,and thats why i state i have a ten year odl daughter who i raise alone,,,
but seriously,i do think maybe guys want gals who are more free..
but seriously,i do think maybe guys want gals who are more free..
Yes that is true for some of the men but not all of them...
ladylumps: Well if I see that a guy has looked at my profile and not made any contact I would presume that he wasnt interested thats just me because I have looked at profiles and if Im not interested then I wouldnt make contact with them. If I saw a guy looking at my profile every day and not contacting me then I would send a jokey email or flower. Then again Im on the site over 2 1/2 years and I could count on one hand the amount of dates Ive been on???????
Stick with it and dont give up.
Anyway would you want some one in your life that was so quick to judge you especially on a few lines
Stick with it and dont give up.
Anyway would you want some one in your life that was so quick to judge you especially on a few lines
no,your right,i do only send flowers to guys who have looked at my profiles a few times,as i figure maybe there shy...
but ive been proved wrong -alot...
ahh i wont give up-there has to be someone out there
i think pictures and an informative profile are the way to go..
best to put the important stuff out there for guys to see, that way, when someone does show interest he'll know the main stuff about u..
i'm one of those guys who wouldnt be into getting into someone who has a chld already.. its nothing against the woman, its juts a personal prefernce that if i was to get into a relationship with someone and maybe start a family, i would want her first child to be my first child too..
just a personal preference, not a slight on single mothers..
keep your profile the same and be patient... i know its an old clice but be open, honest, and the right guy will showhis head eventually.. whether online or the next time your in tescos.. best of luck hun..
best to put the important stuff out there for guys to see, that way, when someone does show interest he'll know the main stuff about u..
i'm one of those guys who wouldnt be into getting into someone who has a chld already.. its nothing against the woman, its juts a personal prefernce that if i was to get into a relationship with someone and maybe start a family, i would want her first child to be my first child too..
just a personal preference, not a slight on single mothers..
keep your profile the same and be patient... i know its an old clice but be open, honest, and the right guy will showhis head eventually.. whether online or the next time your in tescos.. best of luck hun..
gorrestfump: i think pictures and an informative profile are the way to go..
best to put the important stuff out there for guys to see, that way, when someone does show interest he'll know the main stuff about u..
i'm one of those guys who wouldnt be into getting into someone who has a chld already.. its nothing against the woman, its juts a personal prefernce that if i was to get into a relationship with someone and maybe start a family, i would want her first child to be my first child too..
just a personal preference, not a slight on single mothers..
keep your profile the same and be patient... i know its an old clice but be open, honest, and the right guy will showhis head eventually.. whether online or the next time your in tescos.. best of luck hun..
best to put the important stuff out there for guys to see, that way, when someone does show interest he'll know the main stuff about u..
i'm one of those guys who wouldnt be into getting into someone who has a chld already.. its nothing against the woman, its juts a personal prefernce that if i was to get into a relationship with someone and maybe start a family, i would want her first child to be my first child too..
just a personal preference, not a slight on single mothers..
keep your profile the same and be patient... i know its an old clice but be open, honest, and the right guy will showhis head eventually.. whether online or the next time your in tescos.. best of luck hun..
thats ok,ive had that said to me already,that the guy wouldnt want a girl with a child already...
its personal preference...
my chin is up,get my arss to the next meet,i reckon
DUBLINGUY1973: Yeah maybe but say they get to know you and then decide they dont want to be with someone with kids later. That would hurt more i think. I think sometimes its better to know where you (not them) stand sooner rather than later.
oh god i didnt mean not mention my daughter----
my daughter is my oxegen,,my first and last thought every day.
i just meant general stuff
lancerbora: thats ok,ive had that said to me already,that the guy wouldnt want a girl with a child already...
its personal preference...
my chin is up,get my arss to the next meet,i reckon
when i lived in england,was binging my ex,s daughter up as my own,best thing i ever didits personal preference...
my chin is up,get my arss to the next meet,i reckon
ciaran64: when i lived in england,was binging my ex,s daughter up as my own,best thing i ever did
lancerbora: thats ok,ive had that said to me already,that the guy wouldnt want a girl with a child already...
its personal preference...
my chin is up,get my arss to the next meet,i reckon
its personal preference...
my chin is up,get my arss to the next meet,i reckon
my cuz has just married his mot he meet her 4years ago at the time her kid was 5. i say fair play to him.
Im constantly accused of being too fussy but I dont think I am I have an idea of what type of man Im looking for and Im not going to settle for anything less Im not looking for mr. perfect just a mr who is perfect for me.
Maybe you should look at these men as not being the right ones for you rather than you not being the right ones for them maybe by not replying or contacting you they are actually doing you a favour
I have an idea of what type of man Im looking for and Im not going to settle for anything less Im not looking for mr. perfect just a mr who is perfect for me. Maybe you should look at these men as not being the right ones for you rather than you not being the right ones for them maybe by not replying or contacting you they are actually doing you a favour
ladylumps: Well if I see that a guy has looked at my profile and not made any contact I would presume that he wasnt interested thats just me because I have looked at profiles and if Im not interested then I wouldnt make contact with them. If I saw a guy looking at my profile every day and not contacting me then I would send a jokey email or flower. Then again Im on the site over 2 1/2 years and I could count on one hand the amount of dates Ive been on???????
Stick with it and dont give up.
Anyway would you want some one in your life that was so quick to judge you especially on a few lines
Stick with it and dont give up.
Anyway would you want some one in your life that was so quick to judge you especially on a few lines
go away out that .. i think only one guy left on here you haven't gone on a date with 
ladylumps: Im constantly accused of being too fussy but I dont think I am I have an idea of what type of man Im looking for and Im not going to settle for anything less Im not looking for mr. perfect just a mr who is perfect for me.
Maybe you should look at these men as not being the right ones for you rather than you not being the right ones for them maybe by not replying or contacting you they are actually doing you a favour
Maybe you should look at these men as not being the right ones for you rather than you not being the right ones for them maybe by not replying or contacting you they are actually doing you a favour
was checking out ur profile there, don't get the wrong idea
Phusion69: my cuz has just married his mot he meet her 4years ago at the time her kid was 5. i say fair play to him.
you have a nice attitude...
i guess guys need to remember,a mother is also her own person too..i want someone for me...
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ive sent a few messages,flowers ,,mainly to guys who have looked at my profile a few times..
and they either dont get back to me,or get back to me and say,,,
i dont want to be involved with girls with kids..
i would prefer you lived closer....
i dont think we would click....
you look nice,but we dont have same interests..
blah,blah..the list goes on...
what ever happened to giving someone a chance..
i wouldnt mind but some of the guys are early forties--surely they too have lived and come with a past-as i do !!!
are you better off with no photos and small amount of info on your profile to keep the mystery...