Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!? (56)

May 1, 2009 6:46 AM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
Cool_Doc
Cool_DocCool_DocDublin, Ireland1 Threads 16 Posts
Hey everyone ,
I hope if Iam wrong and this is not correct !
I am here in Ireland 4 18 months now and always I have this impression.
I don't know what the reason 4 this but may be coz it is very difficult 4 strangers to cope with the iriish culture !
May be it is more easy 4 irish lady to connect with a man from same kind !!!
I travelled around the globe and seen alot . It is always a credit if u r a stranger in many parts of the world but not here.
I know many foriegners r not a good standard but not all of them .
i know many of them r doctors and teachers and people who r doin good in the community.They pay the taxes and r also very well behaved and respectable .
Ireland is still not a multiethnic community like UK or the state yet but it will become so soon.
I have been to pubs and clubs in Ireland before and sometimes I am rejected before even I say a word ( so , Iam rejected just by the way I look , and my sight is not that bad !!!!!!)
It is very healthy to try something new and different .
In the other hand , I saw many irish men dating ladies from other ethincities .
Anyway , these r few ideas I jus want to share !!!!!
Please feel free to express yr ideas .
cheers.
May 1, 2009 7:11 AM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
boredguy
boredguyboredguydublin, Kildare Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 1,788 Posts
hi cooldoc cswelcome won't call you C/D....doh and welcome to the forums....




as a small island not use to the massive about of foreigners coming to this country and the change been so quick it may take time ... i also find that some ppl foreigners don't want to mix with us... dunno




but it's early days yet for you on here .. I'm sure you'll take the fancy of some Irish lady... beer



anyway cswelcome thumbs up
May 1, 2009 7:17 AM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
chuckles25
chuckles25chuckles25Dublin, Ireland73 Threads 3 Polls 5,479 Posts
boredguy: hi cooldoc won't call you C/D.... and welcome to the forums....

as a small island not use to the massive about of foreigners coming to this country and the change been so quick it may take time ... i also find that some ppl foreigners don't want to mix with us...

but it's early days yet for you on here .. I'm sure you'll take the fancy of some Irish lady...
anyway



Exactly,

I mainly go for blokes around my age and from the same country. why???
because thats just who i am. i can relate to ppl from my own background,

Heya BG Hows you today ?

wave
May 1, 2009 7:22 AM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
boredguy
boredguyboredguydublin, Kildare Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 1,788 Posts
hi sweetie ...blushing
May 1, 2009 7:23 AM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
chuckles25
chuckles25chuckles25Dublin, Ireland73 Threads 3 Polls 5,479 Posts
boredguy: hi sweetie ...


Hows things,

You goin to the meet next wknd?

wave hug
May 1, 2009 7:32 AM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
ciaran64
ciaran64ciaran64drimnagh, Dublin Ireland217 Threads 4 Polls 5,881 Posts
chuckles25: Hows things,

You goin to the meet next wknd?
morning chuckles,dave,
May 1, 2009 7:40 AM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
Ecoprincess
EcoprincessEcoprincessSligo/New Zealand, Sligo Ireland48 Threads 1 Polls 1,278 Posts
Well my Greg (Ecowarrior) is about as foreign as you can get rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

and take my word for it he can be strange too
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
May 1, 2009 7:44 AM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
Cool_Doc
Cool_DocCool_DocDublin, Ireland1 Threads 16 Posts
Hey there ,
Thanks 4 yr lovely reply .
I am very interested in the irish culture .It's unique.
Irish r wonderfull , peacefull , respectable , have sence of humour and full of life .
My only issue is that always a starnger is a 2nd option when it comes to dating .
I agree many strangers don't want to mix with u but not all of them.
I would love to know the irish more !!!!!!
May 1, 2009 11:01 AM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
readyornot0
readyornot0readyornot0stratford- on -slaney, Wicklow Ireland49 Threads 3 Polls 1,242 Posts
ha ha irish ladies dont like no one so dont be disheartened
May 1, 2009 11:34 AM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
shadowlord69
shadowlord69shadowlord69dublin, Dublin Ireland76 Threads 3,778 Posts
Ecoprincess: Well my Greg (Ecowarrior) is about as foreign as you can get

and take my word for it he can be strange too




aaahhhh the very person was it you who were saying to watch whale wars ? if so not bad rolling on the floor laughing they even survived trying to kill each other in the boats when they tried to launch them rolling on the floor laughing
May 1, 2009 12:20 PM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
eternal82
eternal82eternal82Dublin, Ireland2 Threads 175 Posts
In response to: Hey everyone ,
I hope if Iam wrong and this is not correct !
I am here in Ireland 4 18 months now and always I have this impression.
I don't know what the reason 4 this but may be coz it is very difficult 4 strangers to cope with the iriish culture !
May be it is more easy 4 irish lady to connect with a man from same kind !!!
I travelled around the globe and seen alot . It is always a credit if u r a stranger in many parts of the world but not here.
I know many foriegners r not a good standard but not all of them .
i know many of them r doctors and teachers and people who r doin good in the community.They pay the taxes and r also very well behaved and respectable .
Ireland is still not a multiethnic community like UK or the state yet but it will become so soon.
I have been to pubs and clubs in Ireland before and sometimes I am rejected before even I say a word ( so , Iam rejected just by the way I look , and my sight is not that bad !!!!!!)
It is very healthy to try something new and different .
In the other hand , I saw many irish men dating ladies from other ethincities .
Anyway , these r few ideas I jus want to share !!!!!
Please feel free to express yr ideas .
cheers.


Well, I can't complain, I had been with an Irish girl for 2 years wink .Online dating is not the way to go with, if you really looking for some sort of relation with Irish girls or girl in general, I experienced that women in general don't trust men easily and certainly trust level goes down more when it comes to trust a foreigner, so it is very hard to express yourself fully to a girl sitting other side of the chat window and also any girl look for 'spark', making long story short, u should really apprear as strong and good personality and any girl will be with ya, I have tried and tested this formula, it works surely.professor
May 1, 2009 1:08 PM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
Cool_Doc
Cool_DocCool_DocDublin, Ireland1 Threads 16 Posts
Thanks eternal82 ,
I am glad that u found someone ,
I am not looking just 4 a date or something ,,,
It's bigger problem ,
I meant n work in the street and everywhere in ireland
If u look different , u always under suspicion .
Hope to hear from u soon and thanks 4 the advise .
May 1, 2009 1:10 PM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
Cool_Doc
Cool_DocCool_DocDublin, Ireland1 Threads 16 Posts
hey Crystal29 ,
Thanks 4 yr reply .
i can't believe even u felt that .
I thought it's a colour thing !!!!
U know ! Obama now is the president of the USA ,
all these colour boundaries r obselete now .
People should keep up with the change .
cheers
May 1, 2009 1:46 PM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
I don't think it's necessarily a case of Irish women not being interested in foreign guys...well not always.

I think sometimes people assume that is the case and therefore don't give women a chance. I was out at a club a few months ago with a friend. 2 men asked if they could share our table and of course we said no problem. My friend and I got chatting with them and kept chatting with one when they other went to the bar. When the one at the bar came back he said he had found some of their own people so goodbye.

I have come across this sort of thing quite a lot. A lot of Irish women are only to happy to get to know someone better..regardless where they're from. We don't always get the same in return though.

The only thing that would put me off chatting with a foreign man is if he hasn't bothered to learn English..especially if he has lived here for a while. Or if he speaks in English to me but keeps interrupting and chatting/laughing etc in his own language with his friends. I admit that I feel they are being derogatory or at very least secretive.

Sorry for the length of this..you did ask!!


teddybear
May 1, 2009 2:05 PM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
Cool_Doc
Cool_DocCool_DocDublin, Ireland1 Threads 16 Posts
Dear wexlady41 ,
Thanks 4 yr participation.
I agree with u . that wat the guys did was unaccepltable .
BUT , my point is , I was expecting more understanding from a nation like the irish .
A nation famoused by the love of travel , famous of being peacefull .
A nation was under influence of others 4 hunderds of years .
Poor people from othe parts of the world look up 4 the irish .
I know that now Ireland is one of the most important supporter . of poor and underdeveloped countries.
BUT , socially inside ireland its differenent.
N.B:
Many of the foriegners here r doctors , nurses , proffessionals who pay thier taxes and provide service to others .
Many of them r polite , respectable and wit good personalities .
I think its the problem of different culture .
We should spend more time working in this and I am sure everything will be ok.
cheers
May 1, 2009 2:12 PM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
Irishminx
IrishminxIrishminxCork, Ireland16 Threads 2,282 Posts
Cool_Doc: Hey everyone ,
I hope if Iam wrong and this is not correct !
I am here in Ireland 4 18 months now and always I have this impression.
I don't know what the reason 4 this but may be coz it is very difficult 4 strangers to cope with the iriish culture !
May be it is more easy 4 irish lady to connect with a man from same kind !!!
I travelled around the globe and seen alot . It is always a credit if u r a stranger in many parts of the world but not here.
I know many foriegners r not a good standard but not all of them .
i know many of them r doctors and teachers and people who r doin good in the community.They pay the taxes and r also very well behaved and respectable .
Ireland is still not a multiethnic community like UK or the state yet but it will become so soon.
I have been to pubs and clubs in Ireland before and sometimes I am rejected before even I say a word ( so , Iam rejected just by the way I look , and my sight is not that bad !!!!!!)
It is very healthy to try something new and different .
In the other hand , I saw many irish men dating ladies from other ethincities .
Anyway , these r few ideas I jus want to share !!!!!
Please feel free to express yr ideas .
cheers.


Welcome to CS cool Doc, relax, you are only a baby, age wise, relax, you'll find her.

I wish you much luckireland

Minx wink
May 1, 2009 2:31 PM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
Cool_Doc
Cool_DocCool_DocDublin, Ireland1 Threads 16 Posts
Dear shameg,
I totally agree with u !!!!!!
People r different .....
The question is how to build trust !!!!!
If u know any answers please share it with us
cheers
May 1, 2009 2:38 PM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
samisalah
samisalahsamisalahdublin, Dublin Ireland86 Threads 297 Posts
hi everyone, from my experience it might be more difficult to be in a relationship with someone from a different country. irish girls don't like foriegners. they call them strengers even if you try to be more irish then the irish themself. so my advice don't waste your time and money on irish girlsprofessor
May 1, 2009 2:40 PM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
doh
samy as provacitive as ever rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
May 1, 2009 2:41 PM CST Why Irish ladies not interested in foriegners !!?
Cool_Doc
Cool_DocCool_DocDublin, Ireland1 Threads 16 Posts
Dear Irishminx ,
I first thought why this young lady saying i am a baby , so , I checked yr profile
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I cant believe it
What is yr secret ????????????????!!!!!
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