MR RIGHT / MISS RIGHT (55)
If there's always something that doesn't click, then you have to ask yourself how important is that one thing. You have to look at the big picture. If you set out to find Mr-Right, you are straight away putting pressure on yourself.
flirtycat: How is it that findin Mr Right is so difficult. My own view is that there's always something that does'nt match up between the 2 of u. He's either too old or too young for me. If I'm attracted to him, he does'nt have the personality I'm looking for or vice versa.Don't get me wrong, I love kids as I'm qualified in childcare but I'd prefer to meet som1 who has no kids but definitely wants to in future.
WHATS UR VIEWS ?
WHATS UR VIEWS ?
hi flirtycat welcome to the forums...
i don't believe in a miss right ....
no such thing as perfect match,i dont think so anyway..if i was to wait for everything to fit..i would die alone....
once there is " something" that makes me want to be with that person ,thats enough for me to try make it work
once there is " something" that makes me want to be with that person ,thats enough for me to try make it work
yeah i think its easy to meet someone with some of the qualitys yopu looking for not so easy to find someone that has most or all
lot of women both in here and out in real world i found either physically attractive or attracted by personality sometimes both but somthing missing in most cases
lot of women both in here and out in real world i found either physically attractive or attracted by personality sometimes both but somthing missing in most cases
btw welcome to cs
flirtycat: How is it that findin Mr Right is so difficult. My own view is that there's always something that does'nt match up between the 2 of u. He's either too old or too young for me. If I'm attracted to him, he does'nt have the personality I'm looking for or vice versa.Don't get me wrong, I love kids as I'm qualified in childcare but I'd prefer to meet som1 who has no kids but definitely wants to in future.
WHATS UR VIEWS ?
WHATS UR VIEWS ?
so if you met someone who ticked all the boxes BUT had kids but not living with him you would not consider him ?
shadowlord69: so if you met someone who ticked all the boxes BUT had kids but not living with him you would not consider him ?
gud point mate
ciaran64: gud point mate
hi c
kids are a package deal and lets face it at our age most dates you go out with kids be involves from 1 of the couples most likely
shadowlord69: hi c
hi there u gudtallaght_guy: kids are a package deal and lets face it at our age most dates you go out with kids be involves from 1 of the couples most likely
o no now i have to agree with you 
Personally I'd see the other person having kids as an advantage. I'm a big kid myself and have always been good for them. Not that I'd actively seek out someone with kids.
scribbler83: Personally I'd see the other person having kids as an advantage. I'm a big kid myself and have always been good for them. Not that I'd actively seek out someone with kids.
sorry but how do you mean ADVANTAGE ?
i dont mind kids myself im at age where very unlikely il have any of my own and was raised by a stepdad myself
did go out with 1 girl from here and to be honest was more nervous meeting her kids than our first date but kids were great and i got on well with them , though relatonship didnd last though
did go out with 1 girl from here and to be honest was more nervous meeting her kids than our first date but kids were great and i got on well with them , though relatonship didnd last though
dont have kids myself,but when lived in england,reared my ex,s daughter as me own,even though were no longe together still look upon her as my daughter
ciaran64: dont have kids myself,but when lived in england,reared my ex,s daughter as me own,even though were no longe together still look upon her as my daughter
tallaght_guy: i dont mind kids myself im at age where very unlikely il have any of my own and was raised by a stepdad myself
did go out with 1 girl from here and to be honest was more nervous meeting her kids than our first date but kids were great and i got on well with them , though relatonship didnd last though
did go out with 1 girl from here and to be honest was more nervous meeting her kids than our first date but kids were great and i got on well with them , though relatonship didnd last though
still plenty of time to get caught tg
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