MR RIGHT / MISS RIGHT (55)

May 4, 2009 6:13 PM CST MR RIGHT / MISS RIGHT
shadowlord69
shadowlord69shadowlord69dublin, Dublin Ireland76 Threads 3,778 Posts
wexlady41: I don't think there is any such thing as Mr. Right... if by that you mean someone who has all the attributes you like and none of the ones you don't.

None of us is perfect. If we were we wouldn't be on here!!

I don't mind whether someone has kids or not. I have kids. Although mine are older..I still have to be available to them and any man would have to understand this.

I used to think someone who has kids either living with him or who is involved in their lives would possibly be more understanding. This is not always the case though.



good point
May 4, 2009 6:14 PM CST MR RIGHT / MISS RIGHT
ciaran64
ciaran64ciaran64drimnagh, Dublin Ireland217 Threads 4 Polls 5,881 Posts
wexlady41: I don't think there is any such thing as Mr. Right... if by that you mean someone who has all the attributes you like and none of the ones you don't.

None of us is perfect. If we were we wouldn't be on here!!

I don't mind whether someone has kids or not. I have kids. Although mine are older..I still have to be available to them and any man would have to understand this.

I used to think someone who has kids either living with him or who is involved in their lives would possibly be more understanding. This is not always the case though.
thumbs up
May 4, 2009 6:17 PM CST MR RIGHT / MISS RIGHT
notoverthehill2
notoverthehill2notoverthehill2dublin, Dublin Ireland685 Posts
wexlady41: I don't think there is any such thing as Mr. Right... if by that you mean someone who has all the attributes you like and none of the ones you don't.

None of us is perfect. If we were we wouldn't be on here!!

I don't mind whether someone has kids or not. I have kids. Although mine are older..I still have to be available to them and any man would have to understand this.

I used to think someone who has kids either living with him or who is involved in their lives would possibly be more understanding. This is not always the case though.

dito
you cant always drop everything when you have kids

well when is the picnick rolling on the floor laughing
give us a shout when the sun starts to shine ..ps i might have to bring the kids alongwave
May 4, 2009 6:20 PM CST MR RIGHT / MISS RIGHT
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
notoverthehill2: dito
you cant always drop everything when you have kids

well when is the picnick
give us a shout when the sun starts to shine ..ps i might have to bring the kids along


Hey George.

I have a big garden and a dog..and a 5 minute drive to the beach. They would have a great time.

wave wave
May 4, 2009 6:24 PM CST MR RIGHT / MISS RIGHT
engjay
engjayengjaywexford, Wexford Ireland13 Threads 549 Posts
Kids are for life, a partner doesnt last that long these days, like everything else even people seem to be throw away... Society really does seem to be fekd, bigtime..
May 4, 2009 6:27 PM CST MR RIGHT / MISS RIGHT
notoverthehill2
notoverthehill2notoverthehill2dublin, Dublin Ireland685 Posts
wexlady41: Hey George.

I have a big garden and a dog..and a 5 minute drive to the beach. They would have a great time.

wow know that could be a plan handshake yay
May 5, 2009 5:43 AM CST MR RIGHT / MISS RIGHT
Ecowarrior
EcowarriorEcowarriorBay of Plenty & Sligo Ireland, Bay of Plenty New Zealand12 Threads 334 Posts
flirtycat: How is it that findin Mr Right is so difficult. My own view is that there's always something that does'nt match up between the 2 of u. He's either too old or too young for me. If I'm attracted to him, he does'nt have the personality I'm looking for or vice versa.Don't get me wrong, I love kids as I'm qualified in childcare but I'd prefer to meet som1 who has no kids but definitely wants to in future.

WHATS UR VIEWS ?



Relationships are all about compromise and reaching common ground, committment to making that relationship work.


Perfection in relationships is an space for boredom and complayancy, working at the relationship is what makes it work, making things work together is the glue that sticks you together.


this is the lesson we have just learnt, my wife to be and I



grin
May 5, 2009 5:51 AM CST MR RIGHT / MISS RIGHT
Spartan88
Spartan88Spartan88Dublin, Ireland47 Threads 1 Polls 1,103 Posts
This day and age the dating scene seems to have changed so much! Hi Everybody!!! If you find SOME things about someone that you find you like then you should give it a go. But you need to respect that the other person has kids, and accept them. Me personally, a partners kids would never bother me. Its the person your loving, and thier kids are a part of them too. :)professor
May 5, 2009 5:52 AM CST MR RIGHT / MISS RIGHT
Crazylegs
CrazylegsCrazylegsDublin, Ireland71 Threads 6,737 Posts
Spartan88: This day and age the dating scene seems to have changed so much! Hi Everybody!!! If you find SOME things about someone that you find you like then you should give it a go. But you need to respect that the other person has kids, and accept them. Me personally, a partners kids would never bother me. Its the person your loving, and thier kids are a part of them too. :)


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May 5, 2009 5:52 AM CST MR RIGHT / MISS RIGHT
Spartan88
Spartan88Spartan88Dublin, Ireland47 Threads 1 Polls 1,103 Posts
Ecowarrior: Relationships are all about compromise and reaching common ground, committment to making that relationship work. Perfection in relationships is an space for boredom and complayancy, working at the relationship is what makes it work, making things work together is the glue that sticks you together.this is the lesson we have just learnt, my wife to be and I
Very well said Ecowarriorgrin
May 5, 2009 5:56 AM CST MR RIGHT / MISS RIGHT
Spartan88
Spartan88Spartan88Dublin, Ireland47 Threads 1 Polls 1,103 Posts
Hi CL :)
It's true though. Me being serious for a while.
If you love somebody and they have a child, you need to accept that child too. Think of that child as part of the person and something, i mean, someone to be treasured. hug
May 5, 2009 5:58 AM CST MR RIGHT / MISS RIGHT
candyshop
candyshopcandyshopkilkeny, Kilkenny Ireland25 Threads 842 Posts
Spartan88: Hi CL :)
It's true though. Me being serious for a while.
If you love somebody and they have a child, you need to accept that child too. Think of that child as part of the person and something, i mean, someone to be treasured.


A child will always come first to a single parent no mater how good the relationship is..

Kids are part and parcel of the deal..
May 5, 2009 6:01 AM CST MR RIGHT / MISS RIGHT
mollycoddle
mollycoddlemollycoddleco galway, Galway Ireland1 Threads 58 Posts
I HAVE FOUND THE LOVE OF MY LIFE ON THIS SITE HE HAS NO CHILDREN I HAVE 5 CHILDREN ALL FLOWN THE NEST I ALSO HAVE 12 GRANDCHILDREN AND HE IS GETTING TO KNOW THEM NOW AND HE IS LOVING IT SO THERE DOES NOT SEEM TO BE A PROBLEM AT ALL.THATS PART OF ME AND IT IS NOT A PROBLEM FOR HIM. GOOD LUCK IN YOUR SEARCH DONT GIVE UP.comfort hug heart beating teddybear
May 5, 2009 6:02 AM CST MR RIGHT / MISS RIGHT
Spartan88
Spartan88Spartan88Dublin, Ireland47 Threads 1 Polls 1,103 Posts
candyshop: A child will always come first to a single parent no mater how good the relationship is..

Kids are part and parcel of the deal..
yup....
well said my dear....And should always be. thumbs up thumbs up

All I need to do now is find a girlfriend laugh
May 5, 2009 6:04 AM CST MR RIGHT / MISS RIGHT
mollycoddle
mollycoddlemollycoddleco galway, Galway Ireland1 Threads 58 Posts
Spartan88: yup....
well said my dear....And should always be.

All I need to do now is find a girlfriend
YOU WILLhelp peace applause
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