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May 29, 2009 2:07 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
romancefairy1963
romancefairy1963romancefairy1963Pompano, Florida USA1 Threads 20 Posts
1. Whine about their ex's? Unless asked you should not sit through a date and whine about your ex. If you become a couple then talk about it.

2. Talk about how good you are in bed? If you have to say it then you probably are not.

3. Think its okay to feel you up on a first date? Heard of respect? Unless it was agreed upon before hand.

4. Talk about all their internet dating experiences? I think its a need to know basis.

5. Put 20 year old pictures on their profile and when you meet them they look older then they really are? Heard of a camera?

6. Dont have the decency to tell you at the end of the date that they dont want to or intend to see you again and never call? Thats rude. Just politely say your not the one for me shake hands and go about your business.

Are we adults or high school kids. Games, games, games. Internet games. Does anyone anymore think that humans have feelings? Or are we all so inhumane that we just dont care?
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May 29, 2009 2:10 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
romancefairy1963: 1. Whine about their ex's? Unless asked you should not sit through a date and whine about your ex. If you become a couple then talk about it.

2. Talk about how good you are in bed? If you have to say it then you probably are not.

3. Think its okay to feel you up on a first date? Heard of respect? Unless it was agreed upon before hand.

4. Talk about all their internet dating experiences? I think its a need to know basis.

5. Put 20 year old pictures on their profile and when you meet them they look older then they really are? Heard of a camera?

6. Dont have the decency to tell you at the end of the date that they dont want to or intend to see you again and never call? Thats rude. Just politely say your not the one for me shake hands and go about your business.

Are we adults or high school kids. Games, games, games. Internet games. Does anyone anymore think that humans have feelings? Or are we all so inhumane that we just dont care?


OK...uh oh


CAN WE STILL TALK ABAUT ITdevil
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May 29, 2009 2:11 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
romancefairy1963
romancefairy1963romancefairy1963Pompano, Florida USA1 Threads 20 Posts
Funny grin
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May 29, 2009 2:13 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
pebblesbamban
pebblesbambanpebblesbambanPennsylvania, USA3 Threads 4,038 Posts
I don't know what to do.....dunno
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May 29, 2009 2:15 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
Number one, and number two...UGH!!! I dated a clown, not a real one, and he just kept telling me he knew he could satisfy me. It gave me a headache.
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May 29, 2009 2:17 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
pebblesbamban: I don't know what to do.....


What ever you do...just dont hump his leg...grin
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May 29, 2009 2:29 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
romancefairy1963
romancefairy1963romancefairy1963Pompano, Florida USA1 Threads 20 Posts
Oh I will never give up but cant the losers create their own website. Im going to start one called Americas Most Unwanted Men lol head banger
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May 29, 2009 2:37 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
romancefairy1963: 1. Whine about their ex's? Unless asked you should not sit through a date and whine about your ex. If you become a couple then talk about it.

2. Talk about how good you are in bed? If you have to say it then you probably are not.

3. Think its okay to feel you up on a first date? Heard of respect? Unless it was agreed upon before hand.

4. Talk about all their internet dating experiences? I think its a need to know basis.

5. Put 20 year old pictures on their profile and when you meet them they look older then they really are? Heard of a camera?

6. Dont have the decency to tell you at the end of the date that they dont want to or intend to see you again and never call? Thats rude. Just politely say your not the one for me shake hands and go about your business.

Are we adults or high school kids. Games, games, games. Internet games. Does anyone anymore think that humans have feelings? Or are we all so inhumane that we just dont care?


People are just being themselves.

How else you are going to get to know them?
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May 29, 2009 2:39 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
SensualVixen
SensualVixenSensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA30 Threads 1,726 Posts
I'll try not feel up my date on the first date......
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May 29, 2009 2:41 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
romancefairy1963
romancefairy1963romancefairy1963Pompano, Florida USA1 Threads 20 Posts
How are you going to get to know them? Most of the time there isnt going to be a second date so why do we need to know them. Just have dinner, a drink, and talk about intelligent things.
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May 29, 2009 2:57 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
Laura25: People are just being themselves.
How else you are going to get to know them?



Well put Laura.

In fact its good that people expose their true nature like that, it saves months and years of wasted time and lots of heartache and frustration too.

The worst case is the expert liar who doesn't reveal his/her true nature until after the marriage.

And there are plenty of those around.
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May 29, 2009 2:58 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
romancefairy1963: How are you going to get to know them? Most of the time there isnt going to be a second date so why do we need to know them. Just have dinner, a drink, and talk about intelligent things.


Well, what sounds intelligent to one person is not always intelligent to another.

If I don't feel like getting to farther know my first date, I don't plan a big night out, where there is no escape.

I mean, c'mon, we are all different and they are what they are - humans being themselves.

Can be annoying at times, yes, but that's a chance we are taking.

I personally just laugh it off.
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May 29, 2009 3:00 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
RayfromUSA: Well put Laura.

In fact its good that people expose their true nature like that, it saves months and years of wasted time and lots of heartache and frustration too.

The worst case is the expert liar who doesn't reveal his/her true nature until after the marriage.

And there are plenty of those around.


thumbs up

Absolutely.
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May 29, 2009 3:05 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
wixomwizard
wixomwizardwixomwizardWixom, Michigan USA35 Threads 3,636 Posts
Laura25: People are just being themselves.

How else you are going to get to know them?


If you want to feel me up on our first date hun, you better get a work permit, 'cause it's gonna be whole day job to cover that much ground.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing blushing hug teddybear bouquet
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May 29, 2009 3:08 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
romancefairy1963
romancefairy1963romancefairy1963Pompano, Florida USA1 Threads 20 Posts
lolrolling on the floor laughing
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May 29, 2009 3:16 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
sambhava
sambhavasambhavaVasteras, Vastmanland Sweden3 Threads 1 Polls 584 Posts
It seems to me that men just don't know how to treat a lady... Florida, eh...? If you've got a big house with a swimming pool then I'll come over and be all those things you'd expect from a man...
In response to: 1. Whine about their ex's? Unless asked you should not sit through a date and whine about your ex. If you become a couple then talk about it.

2. Talk about how good you are in bed? If you have to say it then you probably are not.

3. Think its okay to feel you up on a first date? Heard of respect? Unless it was agreed upon before hand.

4. Talk about all their internet dating experiences? I think its a need to know basis.

5. Put 20 year old pictures on their profile and when you meet them they look older then they really are? Heard of a camera?

6. Dont have the decency to tell you at the end of the date that they dont want to or intend to see you again and never call? Thats rude. Just politely say your not the one for me shake hands and go about your business.

Are we adults or high school kids. Games, games, games. Internet games. Does anyone anymore think that humans have feelings? Or are we all so inhumane that we just dont care?
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May 29, 2009 3:21 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
perezg
perezgperezgRome, Lazio Italy10 Posts
I would say that people are different, with different issues. when a man starts filling me up like that, i take it to my advantage and i sit back and listern. in fact I encourage him to talk more and even ask honest questions. This way I get to understand what kind of a person this person is for my decision making just incase. This has saved me many times while I would have fallen a victim.
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May 29, 2009 3:30 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
romancefairy1963
romancefairy1963romancefairy1963Pompano, Florida USA1 Threads 20 Posts
I have a big condo with a pool hows that for your fancy lol
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May 29, 2009 3:36 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
Snuggs09
Snuggs09Snuggs09Somewhere, New Jersey USA128 Threads 1 Polls 2,615 Posts
romancefairy1963: Oh I will never give up but cant the losers create their own website. Im going to start one called Americas Most Unwanted Men lol



I have a few I can add to that list.yawn
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May 29, 2009 3:38 PM CST Why on a first date do people have to
Snuggs09
Snuggs09Snuggs09Somewhere, New Jersey USA128 Threads 1 Polls 2,615 Posts
perezg: I would say that people are different, with different issues. when a man starts filling me up like that, i take it to my advantage and i sit back and listern. in fact I encourage him to talk more and even ask honest questions. This way I get to understand what kind of a person this person is for my decision making just incase. This has saved me many times while I would have fallen a victim.



I do the same for two reasons: I know he's not for me so why should I get in a discussion with him; secondly, even though he's a narcissist, I don't want to hurt his feelings, so I go with the flow and get out of there as soon as I finish my coffee.
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