0neGoodManOPRugby, Warwickshire, England UK5 posts
I seem to be getting the same issues dating online, the fact I have kids and have been married (all be it for just 7 months)
Most sites are geared more to less complications, 'single, never married no kids' of which I could easily get dates.
Do you agree these generic sites are not the best for guys like me who have the classic 'baggage'? And that one should look more for either 'no strings' sites (mostly scams anyway) or 'married with children' kind of sites to get attention??
What are your thoughts... Ive spent 60 quid just this month on paid sites replying to ads and getting nothing, and countless hours on the free sites (most just want to get on the web cam for $$$ or people dont reply and take things seriously because its free). Im looking where to fire my cash next month...
SummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK8,842 posts
Are you new to this site then?
The majority of people on this site seem to have children. Some singles mums and even single dads. There are an awful lot more men who have children that dont live with them.
Oh and as for 'baggage'..... there is tons of baggage here too but no one seems to mind at all
0neGoodMan: I seem to be getting the same issues dating online, the fact I have kids and have been married (all be it for just 7 months)
Most sites are geared more to less complications, 'single, never married no kids' of which I could easily get dates.
Do you agree these generic sites are not the best for guys like me who have the classic 'baggage'? And that one should look more for either 'no strings' sites (mostly scams anyway) or 'married with children' kind of sites to get attention??
What are your thoughts... Ive spent 60 quid just this month on paid sites replying to ads and getting nothing, and countless hours on the free sites (most just want to get on the web cam for $$$ or people dont reply and take things seriously because its free). Im looking where to fire my cash next month...
I doubt it is your kids putting them off.
Your impatience is making you come across a bit desperate though so that could be sending them red flag signals.
Good luck though in your quest and give it a bit more time
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Most sites are geared more to less complications, 'single, never married no kids' of which I could easily get dates.
Do you agree these generic sites are not the best for guys like me who have the classic 'baggage'? And that one should look more for either 'no strings' sites (mostly scams anyway) or 'married with children' kind of sites to get attention??
What are your thoughts... Ive spent 60 quid just this month on paid sites replying to ads and getting nothing, and countless hours on the free sites (most just want to get on the web cam for $$$ or people dont reply and take things seriously because its free). Im looking where to fire my cash next month...