All of life if a learning experience and some are not fun. ( Archived) (2)

Been in here a week and a target of 3 reported scammers and many unhappy fears for most of it. i made a noise on many topics to see if anybody wanted to discuss them further with no success at all?

i've long considered i needed a learming forum in my project and felt uneasy about the idea all along. never knew how i wanted to approach it and avoided entering them because i was pasted next last time too? only by being willing to put myself into them and fight the ghosts that may emerge was the best test i could think of?

this experience has shown me there is little fun in them and they take a huge amount of emotional energy to push through with any valid points wherever people pick up their sticks again.

after so little time i just feel tarred and i see it sticks. so, i've decided i won't have a forum now. and for those of you who have decided i'm the greatest mongel who ever set foot in here, that's ok, your stance is useful too.

i applaud you for speaking out in what you feel is protection of the innocent. but i also invite you to remember, if your words intend hurt they don't nurture you or your victims or even the site hosting your hot emotions do they?

Are we all having fun yet? are you learning useful happy things for your encounter with singles trying to connect with others in here too?