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Sep 6, 2009 1:05 PM CST In a relationship.
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
For those of you who ARE in a relationship,
what's your opinion (if any) when it comes to
wanting to show in your profile that you have
a SO?Do you feel that you have to show others
that you're in a committed relationship?
If in a relationship,has your SO viewed your
profile?Did he/she proofread?If that's the right word.
Do you both discuss what's to be said in your profile,
or what's not to be said?What about your pics,do you
decide what to upload on your own or is it discussed as well?





Just curious as to what YOU have to say.conversing



conversing
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Sep 6, 2009 1:09 PM CST In a relationship.
Polarbutterfly: For those of you who ARE in a relationship,
what's your opinion (if any) when it comes to
wanting to show in your profile that you have
a SO?Do you feel that you have to show others
that you're in a committed relationship?
If in a relationship,has your SO viewed your
profile?Did he/she proofread?If that's the right word.
Do you both discuss what's to be said in your profile,
or what's not to be said?What about your pics,do you
decide what to upload on your own or is it discussed as well?Just curious as to what YOU have to say.
i posted in my profile that i had found the one and not interested in any thing else, no it was not discussed but she basically did the same, it just save wasting people's time if you have so jmo
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Sep 6, 2009 1:14 PM CST In a relationship.
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
caspatch: i posted in my profile that i had found the one and not interested in any thing else, no it was not discussed but she basically did the same, it just save wasting people's time if you have so jmo
thumbs up

Now if you're in a committed relationship
and it doesn't work and you've pics up
of your SO,do you delete them or hold on
to them? (pics).dunno
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Sep 6, 2009 1:20 PM CST In a relationship.
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
My partner is fine with what i do here, if he wants to read what i write he does, same with any mail i get.

He knows of the people i talk to regularly here and its not a problem.

Sometimes i post something that does have inuendo, but he knows that is my sense of humour and its who i am, and wouldn't want me to change.

I think its about honesty and trust bouquet
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Sep 6, 2009 1:23 PM CST In a relationship.
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
morgan5: My partner is fine with what i do here, if he wants to read what i write he does, same with any mail i get.

He knows of the people i talk to regularly here and its not a problem.

Sometimes i post something that does have inuendo, but he knows that is my sense of humour and its who i am, and wouldn't want me to change.

I think its about honesty and trust



Yes it is about trust.But,deep down inside,
do you think he is insecure or jealous
for you being here?Just curious.hug
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Sep 6, 2009 1:28 PM CST In a relationship.
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Polarbutterfly: Yes it is about trust.But,deep down inside,
do you think he is insecure or jealous
for you being here?Just curious.
I don't think so he is very secure in himself and have never known him be jealous, his view is i am with him because i want to be, so he has nothing to be jealous of.

I was on here when we met and when we started to get serious we talked about CS and why i was here, and that was fine.

He has friends some female and i am fine with that, because i trust him wine
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Sep 6, 2009 2:16 PM CST In a relationship.
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
If I was in a relationship, I guess I wouldn't be on here because I'd be too busy with doing things for and with him.
I don't mean this in a nasty or negative way. Those are just my feelings.wine
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Sep 6, 2009 2:18 PM CST In a relationship.
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
ladyfingers: If I was in a relationship, I guess I wouldn't be on here because I'd be too busy with doing things for and with him.
I don't mean this in a nasty or negative way. Those are just my feelings.
thumbs up
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Sep 6, 2009 2:24 PM CST In a relationship.
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
Thanks for agreeing PB. I noticed that when you were in one, you took time off.hug
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Sep 6, 2009 2:25 PM CST In a relationship.
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
Were?smitten
ladyfingers: Thanks for agreeing PB. I noticed that when you were in one, you took time off.
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Sep 6, 2009 2:25 PM CST In a relationship.
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Now if you're in a committed relationship
and it doesn't work and


Change all your pics if this is the case...
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Sep 6, 2009 2:26 PM CST In a relationship.
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
Polarbutterfly: Were?


Whoops, sorry. Thought it were a were. My bad.blushing
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Sep 6, 2009 2:28 PM CST In a relationship.
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
laugh
ladyfingers: Whoops, sorry. Thought it were a were. My bad.
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Sep 6, 2009 2:43 PM CST In a relationship.
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
Polarbutterfly: For those of you who ARE in a relationship,
what's your opinion (if any) when it comes to
wanting to show in your profile that you have
a SO?Do you feel that you have to show others
that you're in a committed relationship?
If in a relationship,has your SO viewed your
profile?Did he/she proofread?If that's the right word.
Do you both discuss what's to be said in your profile,
or what's not to be said?What about your pics,do you
decide what to upload on your own or is it discussed as well?Just curious as to what YOU have to say.


My last 'serious other' hated the internet; just used it for business and nothing else.

I immediately changed my profile - and no..... she never saw it as she was totally didinterested.

Ok? dunno
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Sep 6, 2009 4:24 PM CST In a relationship.
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
I just recently posted a pic of him and me..

but when i found him..i changed my profile right away..

but really i dont think many read what you write anyway becos i still get mail from them stating they want a relationship with me...

but also some didnt beleive and wanted to see pictures of him and me..

so i just thought what the hell..

I know that i am with someone and dont need to prove anything to anybody..

So most can kiss my behiney..

grin
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Sep 6, 2009 4:27 PM CST In a relationship.
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
kissmedeeply: I just recently posted a pic of him and me..

but when i found him..i changed my profile right away..

but really i dont think many read what you write anyway becos i still get mail from them stating they want a relationship with me...

but also some didnt beleive and wanted to see pictures of him and me..

so i just thought what the hell..

I know that i am with someone and dont need to prove anything to anybody..

So most can kiss my behiney..


thumbs up

So aggressive.grin


Got me a pic. hug
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Sep 6, 2009 4:29 PM CST In a relationship.
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Polarbutterfly: So aggressive. Got me a pic.


Medunno

I amangel
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Sep 6, 2009 4:29 PM CST In a relationship.
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
kissmedeeply: Me

I am
hug
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