Is it what’s inside that counts - or is everyone really looking for someone beautiful? ( Archived) (126)

You know what troy, i understand where you're coming from on that. People sometimes say one thing but mean something else. It seems as if these days people are more superficial than they used to be. I know my mom taught me to treat people the old fashioned way, with decency and respect because if i did that then they would treat me that way also. Things don't always work out but i keep holding out that that special woman is out there. Hang in there.

Around and around life goes and where it ends, nobody knows. While I've been watching the thread I can relate, actual stories from friends, who no longer date.

Besides that sad affair I can tell, of a lot who are married and ended up in...._ell. They all chose people for "reasons" at the time...one old b/f married the secretary for his attorney, in his divorce, at the time. He's ended up in another fiasco, but she had land and a farm, so he's now the master.

To retire at night next to someone who's there, who never stops thinking and always cares. The view from the bridge isn't very pretty, of all those who remarried, not one was successful. Personally, I'll remain in a solitary state, and hope for a better fate. It's now 2006 creeping forward in years, as we go.

I dont think it is because you have disability .I have many great guy friends who have not had much luck on online sites as they get russian scams,money cam schemes or women who do not even bother answering their messages. So I dont believe it is because of your disability that they dont respond. It is just fact of internet that most women/men are not as honest and considerate as you or me when it comes to treating others as we wish to be treated. You should thank God that you dont get involved with such people. Thank you for sending me messages and hope you luck in finding the woman that you deserve. Sincerely,Rose

Well looks are important no matter what anyone says if you do not have a physical attraction to a person The relationship will probably go no where at all. But I feel that though they are important that they are not the only deciding factor.

Extremely attractive people probably get more e-mail and attention because they attract the eye right away. If someone is plain Jane they usually have to work a little harder to get noticed and usually it is do to their personailities that get them noticed.

Either way...The only way to get to know what someone's got on the inside is to get to know them. Looks do not tell what is inside.

I think when people say looks do not matter and go after the "attractive" looking people that maybe they are just seeing what happens?