Are You A Sulker??? ( Archived) (60)

Sep 29, 2009 5:50 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Sulking after a disagreement with someone is something, i just can't understand dunno

If i have something to say i need to say it, talk it thro to find a resolution then forget it and move on.

Respect we are all different, but what is the point of the 'Silent Treatment'?

It achieves nothing and ends up in a real unpleasant atmosphere confused

What are your views?

Do you sulk?

How do you react when people sulk around you?

wine bouquet
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Sep 29, 2009 5:51 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
morgan5: Sulking after a disagreement with someone is something, i just can't understand

If i have something to say i need to say it, talk it thro to find a resolution then forget it and move on.

Respect we are all different, but what is the point of the 'Silent Treatment'?

It achieves nothing and ends up in a real unpleasant atmosphere

What are your views?

Do you sulk?

How do you react when people sulk around you?


apparently eric say i sulkdunno
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Sep 29, 2009 5:52 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
kissmedeeply: apparently eric say i sulk
laugh bouquet do you think you do? hug
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Sep 29, 2009 5:53 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Remember we are not all the same..and we do things differently..

some sulk..some punch..fight..kick..

Some walk out..Some can talk

but for me..i cannot say anything until i calm down..

If i am pushed then watch out..it will be worse then before..

I need time to cool downwave
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Sep 29, 2009 5:53 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Eclipse1: I get right to the point so much so that they sulk even more
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing I can't bear it and have to distance myself from the person bouquet
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Sep 29, 2009 5:54 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
morgan5: do you think you do?


Well i fold my arms and turn my head away and dont say anything...so i probably do..dunno
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Sep 29, 2009 5:54 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
kissmedeeply: Remember we are not all the same..and we do things differently..

some sulk..some punch..fight..kick..

Some walk out..Some can talk

but for me..i cannot say anything until i calm down..

If i am pushed then watch out..it will be worse then before..

I need time to cool down
Understand that, but if you have talked it thro reached a resolution, why then sulk and don't speak? confused
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Sep 29, 2009 5:55 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
morgan5: Sulking after a disagreement with someone is something, i just can't understand

If i have something to say i need to say it, talk it thro to find a resolution then forget it and move on.

Respect we are all different, but what is the point of the 'Silent Treatment'?

It achieves nothing and ends up in a real unpleasant atmosphere

What are your views?

Do you sulk?

How do you react when people sulk around you?


If i don;t have the intetion of being someones friend in the future will talk out after that stay distance.

For a real friend won't just give up like that. wave hug
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Sep 29, 2009 5:56 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
whaaat: If i don;t have the intetion of being someones friend in the future will talk out after that stay distance.

For a real friend won't just give up like that.
Hi Whaaat hug bouquet
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Sep 29, 2009 5:56 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
morgan5: Understand that, but if you have talked it thro reached a resolution, why then sulk and don't speak?


Probably at that point i dont want to talk things through...need time to think..away from that person
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Sep 29, 2009 5:57 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
I can't do the silent thing for longer than a few minutes, i just talk to much rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 29, 2009 5:58 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
morgan5: I can't do the silent thing for longer than a few minutes, i just talk to much


Oh but that kills eric when i am silentroll eyes
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Sep 29, 2009 5:59 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
kissmedeeply: Oh but that kills eric when i am silent
me too laugh then i end up starting another row over the sulking rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 29, 2009 5:59 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
morgan5: Nooo its her sister


She has a sister? dancing
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Sep 29, 2009 6:00 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
kissmedeeply: Probably at that point i dont want to talk things through...need time to think..away from that person
Mmmm kinda makes sense hug wine
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Sep 29, 2009 6:01 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
morgan5: me too then i end up starting another row over the sulking
Well i think at the time its better for me to be silent..if not..i may say things i may later regret/or not grin
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Sep 29, 2009 6:01 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
RobertC2: She has a sister?
yep, twins hug
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Sep 29, 2009 6:04 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
morgan5: I can't do the silent thing for longer than a few minutes, i just talk to much


wow Morgan that is good character, my ex was the same talks too much (good thing) when we fought, reconciled after 5 minutes cause he talked too much and had to laugh immediately after the fight rolling on the floor laughing bouquet
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Sep 29, 2009 6:08 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
Me i like to say what i have to say then end of .........I have found if im getting the silent treatment ....a cup of cold water accidently thrown tends to get her vocal cords working again grin innocent
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Sep 29, 2009 6:10 AM CST Are You A Sulker???
Ziva1
Ziva1Ziva1In the middel of nowhere.., Lapland Finland60 Threads 3,813 Posts
NOOOO! cant Sulk, need to spit it out, cant stand the silent treatment...only makes me mad........so childish...teddybear handshake
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