Mulberry4000Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK138 posts
candio: I was the same way. Left with the clothes on our backs. No money, bank accounts or car. I may have stayed in a shelter but it was for a very short time until I had EARNED enough to get an apartment. I didn't parade men around my children. I remained single and didn't date until they were almost 18. I never tried for or received a single dime from their father. He never bothered to check to see if the kids were even dead or alive. HE DIDN'T GIVE A DAMN ONE WAY OR THE OTHER. Such a poor victimized father that he was.
Any man can be a father. It takes a REAL man to be a DAD. Not very many of them around here. Kudos to the real men of the world.
solsticemoon: they are like a wrestling tag team..when one wants a rest the other takes over guess its taxing their brains arguing with so many at once
Some people just ain't got stamina these days! When the heat is one they just melt into oblivion.
rubendario: I think these characters are just playing us...getting us all riled up..then just letting us post. I think they may be forum post testers or something .
they're definitely something ruben..and it isnt anything good! night sweetie xx
Just do comment on that single woman are quick and easy to jump into a relationsship. Don't know about that. I have been single for 8 years now. I had one relationsship in all this time. I scheduled my dating when my kids was with my ex-husband with whom I by the way get along just fine.
I dont think many people become single parents because they want to.
It is very often thrust upon them.
My children are all well adjusted and my oldest is a member of MENSA (I doubt u even know what that is)
I, for one, am extremely careful who i introduce my children too, as a revolving door of men in my life sets a bad example + can be heartbreaking + confusing for kids when they are little.
However, You are propogating an outdated stereotype of single parenting.
Mulberry4000: YOu wake up and if you belive the propaganda then fare game to you just want some slapper on here. If you really know what the system is like then you would not be stating what you are saying.
99 per of fathers want their kids, the csa and the family courts, caffcass make sure they do not get them.
Slappers? Nice one.
Geez i can see why ur single still, such a charmer n all, lol
I do think the OP was about single PARENTS, not single mothers.
Hey listen, none of us are here to agree the system is perfect by any means, humans will be human and make decisions that they may think, but are not necessarily, in the best interests of the child.
Father, mother, judge or social worker.
Its sad all round
We can all wish for true justice + equilibrium, but the worlds not perfect, and neither are people
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