Ziva1: i have over 200....do i really need more........
Then you can't be lonely .........and you can also hug trees ....actually its the in thing to do ..........remember we all love you ............oh yeah I forgot ....someone doesn't .....your threads keep getting pulled ...
Ziva1In the middel of nowhere.., Lapland Finland3,813 posts
almera03: Then you can't be lonely .........and you can also hug trees ....actually its the in thing to do ..........remember we all love you ............oh yeah I forgot ....someone doesn't .....your threads keep getting pulled ...
I know.........dont worry me.If they get a kick out of it , so be it, as long as their happy.... Huggen tress, a bit cold for that now, will get stuck to one..
Anuna: so feeling myself lonely I know life is wonderful but I am sad! Still I don't have my b/f . So lonely here I am for 4 months, but sad again .
Hang in there Anuna; remember that the answer to your problems in life isnt' a boyfriend. A half of a person doesn't make a whole relationship.
Be comfortable and confident about yourself and be happy for the person you are. Once you are a whole person, that guy will come and you will be ready for it.
Only whole people make good relationships. You should want someone, not need them. I wish you the best and hang in there,
Anuna: so feeling myself lonely I know life is wonderful but I am sad! Still I don't have my b/f . So lonely here I am for 4 months, but sad again .
Whether you have a boyfriend or not shouldn't determine your level of happiness because that has to come from within yourself. Be joyful in yourself and your life and it will attract others to you. I read a book once that talked about being the "best you" that you could be and when potential partners came along then you'd attract them to yourself. When you think of it - it makes perfect sense because if you improve yourself and have a happy life - then you'll have all the more to share with someone special.
Remember that friends/family can be wonderful as well and its vital to have a healthy GROUP of people surrounding you in your circle of life. One person cannot possibly satisfy everything that you need in your life - we take/give in every interaction that we have with those that surround us. To expect one person to fulfill all our needs is unrealistic and certainly more than any one person could satisfy. That will kill your relationship before it even starts to blossom and flourish.
langleygirl: Whether you have a boyfriend or not shouldn't determine your level of happiness because that has to come from within yourself. Be joyful in yourself and your life and it will attract others to you. I read a book once that talked about being the "best you" that you could be and when potential partners came along then you'd attract them to yourself. When you think of it - it makes perfect sense because if you improve yourself and have a happy life - then you'll have all the more to share with someone special.
Remember that friends/family can be wonderful as well and its vital to have a healthy GROUP of people surrounding you in your circle of life. One person cannot possibly satisfy everything that you need in your life - we take/give in every interaction that we have with those that surround us. To expect one person to fulfill all our needs is unrealistic and certainly more than any one person could satisfy. That will kill your relationship before it even starts to blossom and flourish.
In response to: so feeling myself lonely I know life is wonderful but I am sad! Still I don't have my b/f . So lonely here I am for 4 months, but sad again .
This is also another reason why women get with bad guys and never leave. They are so in need of a relationship that if they get with a bad guy they are obsessed with keeping him. Their identity is in their relationship. They feel they will die without it.
Again, be happy with yourself and then a guy will come along. good luck.
mjames: Hang in there Anuna; remember that the answer to your problems in life isnt' a boyfriend. A half of a person doesn't make a whole relationship.
Be comfortable and confident about yourself and be happy for the person you are. Once you are a whole person, that guy will come and you will be ready for it.
Only whole people make good relationships. You should want someone, not need them. I wish you the best and hang in there,
Sound advice! Live your life and enjoy each day. If he shows up it will be good; if he doesn't show up it will be good because you would have accomplish whatever you wished to.... Smile each day and set goals and then go out and do them.
Pixels: Come on baby. I have received so much wonderful support here, I am sure you will meet the right person when you least expect it
Oh yes! That is so true..I'd been here 6 months and then all of a sudden out of the blue find myself chatting one day to a lovely guy, with a definite emotional connection...... So never say never..be patient, stop focusing on it as a place to meet the man of your dreams.Enjoy the forums and wham..stuff happens when you least expect it!
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
solsticemoon: Oh yes! That is so true..I'd been here 6 months and then all of a sudden out of the blue find myself chatting one day to a lovely guy, with a definite emotional connection...... So never say never..be patient, stop focusing on it as a place to meet the man of your dreams.Enjoy the forums and wham..stuff happens when you least expect it!
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Oh i see its man or mouse syndrome..