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Oct 12, 2009 9:34 PM CST how do you tell a friend you have a crush on them?
fantasticvoyage1
fantasticvoyage1fantasticvoyage1Nevada, Iowa USA13 Threads 65 Posts
Advice please..
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Oct 12, 2009 9:37 PM CST how do you tell a friend you have a crush on them?
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
fantasticvoyage1: Advice please..


.........Simple really .......'Tell them' and get it over and done with.....grin

J.Dgrin devil
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Oct 12, 2009 9:39 PM CST how do you tell a friend you have a crush on them?
LovelySerene
LovelySereneLovelySereneKansas City, Kansas USA15 Threads 1 Polls 286 Posts
I wish I could help...but I wouldn't know. Just be honest with your feelings and tell your friend, the sooner the better
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Oct 12, 2009 9:40 PM CST how do you tell a friend you have a crush on them?
mouse141
mouse141mouse141wellington, Wellington New Zealand1 Posts
just tell them if anything they will no but if they are with someone don,t do it and then see whats happens
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Oct 12, 2009 9:40 PM CST how do you tell a friend you have a crush on them?
fantasticvoyage1
fantasticvoyage1fantasticvoyage1Nevada, Iowa USA13 Threads 65 Posts
i should of been more specific i mean lesbian crush
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Oct 12, 2009 9:41 PM CST how do you tell a friend you have a crush on them?
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
Just tell them.handshake
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Oct 12, 2009 9:41 PM CST how do you tell a friend you have a crush on them?
saseez
saseezsaseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 Posts
i guess just tell her straight ( sorry no pun intended) laugh
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Oct 12, 2009 9:43 PM CST how do you tell a friend you have a crush on them?
bjsss
bjsssbjsssMelbourne, Victoria Australia5 Threads 3,536 Posts
tell them how u feel wine
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Oct 12, 2009 9:43 PM CST how do you tell a friend you have a crush on them?
fantasticvoyage1
fantasticvoyage1fantasticvoyage1Nevada, Iowa USA13 Threads 65 Posts
But she may avoid me after that, i need a way to tell her and let her know that i won't be after her if she's not interested.
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Oct 12, 2009 9:44 PM CST how do you tell a friend you have a crush on them?
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
fantasticvoyage1: But she may avoid me after that, i need a way to tell her and let her know that i won't be after her if she's not interested.


You just said it...just tell her be honest, say the above and deal with whatever happens...that's all you can do.handshake
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Oct 12, 2009 9:46 PM CST how do you tell a friend you have a crush on them?
fantasticvoyage1
fantasticvoyage1fantasticvoyage1Nevada, Iowa USA13 Threads 65 Posts
well how would you take it?
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Oct 12, 2009 9:49 PM CST how do you tell a friend you have a crush on them?
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
fantasticvoyage1: well how would you take it?


Not sure who you were directing the question to but I'll answer.

If the person is truly your friend and is not interested, then the person would probably say "Thanks but no thanks, still friends? we're cool." If the person is interested back, then hey! great!

Everyone in the world has gone through the dilemma doesn't matter if they are straight, bi, gay, transgender, whatever. The only thing you can do is be honest, tell them how you feel and deal with the outcome. Good luck!
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Oct 12, 2009 9:56 PM CST how do you tell a friend you have a crush on them?
fantasticvoyage1
fantasticvoyage1fantasticvoyage1Nevada, Iowa USA13 Threads 65 Posts
Good answer, i guess i'm just afraid cause when this happens i wind up hating myself for it. I've got other friends but i'd miss her most if i scare her off. That's why i did this thread, i guess what i really wanna know is opinions from women and men on how you'd handle it if ur friend told you they liked you and they were gay or lesbian.
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