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Hi Everyone,

Just wanted to say again how much I enjoy this site, it has brought me much happiness. I have found my True love here, and am looking forward to a life of happiness with him. The one thing that does bother me is the attacks against some people, I have just always tried to live by if someone does or says something that bothers you just turn and walk away don't give them the satisfaction of reacting. Plus I don't like hurting anyones feelings even if I don't care for the type of person that they are being at the moment.
The other thing that kind of bothers me, is Posts like that seem to receive many responses, why? There are other posts or comments to posts that seems not to receive hardly any response, Ok I guess I am whining,please be nice my feelings get hurt easily, and yes I guess I am PMSing right now, But I feel like I may be zinxing there are alot of posts that are hardly responded to, and then the ones where people are making zabs at people are responded to overwhelminly, So my question is how do people choose what they want to respond to? Please Tell me it is not my writing/spelling/or that my feet just stink up the whole cybre space, remember I am a gentle soul, But why does everybody always pick on everybody? I have really grown to like alot of people on this site, that I would love to have become longtime friends, and LIKE I said I just had to whine a little , now does anyone have any cheese to go with it?

Hugs and Love to all of you
Deb

congratulations to you, deb, i think it's wonderful that you are happy and have found your match. may it continue to be everything you desire.

i think the reason people respond is that...those posts take us on a visceral level, and can cause negative emotions in us. we get riled and jump on in.

it's just like in real life...when someone calls you a name...you often feel you have to at least verbally remark.

Awh Thanx, I guess I am just not one to say mean things, what is the old saying why can't we all just be friends and get along now dont take that as I am saying I am old I will never admit to being over 25,

I think the negative just draws people for whatever reason...I personally try and comment on posts that have the least amount of replys because I am to lazy to read and I guess I would like what i write read. If there are too many reply's do people actually read them all??????? You sound like a person with a very good heart....

well, you are quite rare and special then.

and...i'll stick with, um, 29. yeah, 29.

You are sweet, You I think are one that I would love to have as a long time friend, Thank You
Deb