Marriage "Afterlife" ( Archived) (9)

Nov 7, 2009 1:20 AM CST Marriage "Afterlife"
Once we Have Been Married for Years, and hit Single, Dating, Stages Again, We DO THINK DIFFERENTLY! Ha! with a little more Wisdom, But Late Dating Can Be Very Hard and a Slow Process, so what kinds of things have "WE" as individuals, Done differently, To Make The Next Relationship Better.....

Or Lessons Learned?


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Nov 7, 2009 1:22 AM CST Marriage "Afterlife"
My List Is Looooooong!scold roll eyes laugh
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Nov 7, 2009 1:26 AM CST Marriage "Afterlife"
Apostophe
ApostopheApostopheBoksburg, Gauteng South Africa64 Threads 1,937 Posts
HotrodLarrys: My List Is Looooooong!



Some of us are so wise it borders on cynical and so we are left ever searching, never finding again.


Aaaah life is a journey - enjoy the ride someone said.


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Nov 7, 2009 1:43 AM CST Marriage "Afterlife"
Apostophe: Some of us are so wise it borders on cynical and so we are left ever searching, never finding again.Aaaah life is a journey - enjoy the ride someone said.


Hello Apostophe, I have to say, There could be those that Never Find Love Again!

I, after several Years Divoriced, Se People Who Still, Will not Help Themselves, or LOOK AT SELF, so to say, Seems its allways someone else is the Problem, But Keeping ones Body, and Mind in Order, Finding OUR weaknesses, and Working on SELF, WEhile we are single, so we are prepared to go on Journey 2, or 3...... Or 26?doh rolling on the floor laughing


My Point is, Time to LOOK AT SELF, and clean up all your bad Habits, Ect, Or most dont do Nothing but continue STUCK, same habits, no excercise, Live like a Slum, Smells Like a Slum, and thinking Life should get Better??????????

Where are our Minds People????

Do People even Look at self???? and Clean up???????uh oh uh oh wink sad
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Nov 7, 2009 1:50 AM CST Marriage "Afterlife"
Apostophe
ApostopheApostopheBoksburg, Gauteng South Africa64 Threads 1,937 Posts
Agreed Hotrod.


But is it really all that important to hitch up? Yeah I know the qeustion is what I'm I doing here? Can't give you an honest answer.

Got hooked here, was so exciting, the whole concept when I joined just over a yeart ago. Had me a ball then but I must wean myself off and continue in real life soon.


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Nov 7, 2009 2:08 AM CST Marriage "Afterlife"
Apostophe: Agreed Hotrod.But is it really all that important to hitch up? Yeah I know the qeustion is what I'm I doing here? Can't give you an honest answer.

Got hooked here, was so exciting, the whole concept when I joined just over a yeart ago. Had me a ball then but I must wean myself off and continue in real life soon.


Thats about how i feel , tho this point when we just relax, and in Nutral, but doing our own thing, we will eventually find it hopefully, But When Desperation isnt a big factor, (as it seems to feel that way at times)conversing Then when we relax a bit and slow up, then is our better chance for Love to happen as it could be a new Neighbor, we just never know when either.cheers
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Nov 7, 2009 9:52 AM CST Marriage "Afterlife"
They say its when you stop looking that Love finds usyay heart wings
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Nov 7, 2009 12:45 PM CST Marriage "Afterlife"
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Do People even Look at self???? and Clean up???????


You bring up an excellent point! As a person who always appreciates learning, and that includes learning about myself and about relationships, I have by now read several books, listened to and attended in person a couple of really good seminars and watched quite a few movies that I believe will help me eventually. Apart from that, needless to say, I have done tons of thinking and lots of working on myself. (And I am really beginning to like the end result!) Obviously I'm still here, but I know that WHEN that time comes, I'll be much better suited for a relationship with another person than I was even a few years ago, and it's a good feeling. Still, I continue to learn and "look at self"!
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Nov 7, 2009 12:49 PM CST Marriage "Afterlife"
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
I just stayed stayes still this time. I did not offer info that was not asked for. Some days I did not offer info at all. I allowed the men to do the talking. And I let my "ears" hear everything. Even stuff that was not said.professor
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