sultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados3,203 posts
jeepers: If it gets any better I'll have to pay to be here $$$$ ! Beautiful blue skies, cooling down a bit...85F. Nice light breeze...ipod, camera,dog,day off, .....Yippee !!!!
goood for you enjoy your day off
its 89 here and windy..............n o day off for me though ...im at work right now ............
Thank you !! To everyone that responded . I didn't realize there was so many very inteligent and realy good lookin people on this site . And I has met some realy great people on here. one that is special .
when is it time to say that you will never find your soul mate?
Well, kinda depressing in a way, but if you are over 35 years old, then I say that you probably have already met them, but weren't attracted to them, broke up because of selfishness (your part or the other), considered them 'Just a friend' or you know who they are and are currently with them, or probably going to get back together, or mourning thier loss.
IMO there are many factors in this day and age that might keep soul mates apart. One biggie being your spiritual state; if you do not trust God to bring you these gifts and seek a mate on your own, then you never know what you are going to get. Another thing is; If you dont like yourself, then how are you going to like your other half? -You mey well have met that one and passed them by- You may well have already dated your soul mate, but because you were wanting certain things in a relationship ie: entered into the relationship for selfish reasons, you ended up breaking up when the hard times came. I would seek within your heart how commited you are in general to working through difficult times in your life in and if you find that you normally cut and run instead of openly and humbly admitting your own part in a problem and are commited to work through it for everyones benefit besides your own, then you might have lost your soul mate somewhere back there.
Big_John: I agree totally. I will never say never. I will search and hunt for someone until I am six feet under.
what is interesting to me about this topic is; Who is to say that in your looking you wont find someone who completely fits the bill, but then many years later find that what you thought you needed or wanted wasn't right for you?
Like, you may say that you want to find a man or woman who works really hard (when you actually are lazy and NEED someone who works only moderately so that YOU can learn to work harder and thereby come to a wonderfull balance?) Things like this...Or if you are a totally vain person, maybe the one who is right for you isn't as physically beautifull (outwardly) but is someone who is inwardly full of beauty and charachter. And through this person you learn what is truly important.
There is no substitute for a relationship with God and trusting in HIM first to bring what you need to your life.
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