Was i very wrong? (50)
lack29Limerick, Ireland1 Threads 20 PostsIm 29 and i met a 22 year old girl on a weekend away in August. She lives 60 miles away but we kept in touch and we met 3 times and got on well. She told me last week she was coming to my local town to see a big DJ and she would meet me. We met on the night and she was with her friend, her friends brother and about 5 of his friends. She told she was going away with them but would be back to me in a while which was fine. But she never came back so i was hurt. She rang me after to ask me to her hotel but i was drunk and upset and told her i was hurt she never came back to me so i just went home and we have had no contact since. Did i go over the top?
lack29: Im 29 and i met a 22 year old girl on a weekend away in August. She lives 60 miles away but we kept in touch and we met 3 times and got on well. She told me last week she was coming to my local town to see a big DJ and she would meet me. We met on the night and she was with her friend, her friends brother and about 5 of his friends. She told she was going away with them but would be back to me in a while which was fine. But she never came back so i was hurt. She rang me after to ask me to her hotel but i was drunk and upset and told her i was hurt she never came back to me so i just went home and we have had no contact since. Did i go over the top?
no not at all if the shoe was on the other foot u would be called a player
no you didint.. you told her how you felt...next time get a girl a bit more local...
Not over the top. You were right to speak your mind. You probably would have scored, but by the sounds of it, she didn't want you mixing with her friends which makes it hard to form a relationship.
I couldnt imagine going to her home town, meeting her for a minute going off with a group of mainly women and ringing her after asking her back to my hotel. Id at least show abit of courtesy. I know it was nothing serious, cant believe im so upset over it.: 
lack29: I couldnt imagine going to her home town, meeting her for a minute going off with a group of mainly women and ringing her after asking her back to my hotel. Id at least show abit of courtesy. I know it was nothing serious, cant believe im so upset over it.:
Some times we get attached to people without being able to explain it.
lack29: I couldnt imagine going to her home town, meeting her for a minute going off with a group of mainly women and ringing her after asking her back to my hotel. Id at least show abit of courtesy. I know it was nothing serious, cant believe im so upset over it.:
u say it was nothing serious but ur heart is telling a different story.......or why would u feel so upset?????have u been in touch with her at all even a mail or a text??
curveee: u say it was nothing serious but ur heart is telling a different story.......or why would u feel so upset?????have u been in touch with her at all even a mail or a text??
Well i did like her but i thought she was a bit immature so i never thought it would get serious. She text me 2 weeks ago to say she was mad about me but was too young for a relationship which was fine. I just couldnt get her behaviour the other night. I know she propably got carried away with the DJ but even one drink would have been grand. I text her yesterday to say i was sorry if i gave out but i was hurt she never came back. She hasnt replied so i deleted her number. 
lack29: Im 29 and i met a 22 year old girl on a weekend away in August. She lives 60 miles away but we kept in touch and we met 3 times and got on well. She told me last week she was coming to my local town to see a big DJ and she would meet me. We met on the night and she was with her friend, her friends brother and about 5 of his friends. She told she was going away with them but would be back to me in a while which was fine. But she never came back so i was hurt. She rang me after to ask me to her hotel but i was drunk and upset and told her i was hurt she never came back to me so i just went home and we have had no contact since. Did i go over the top?
you the the right thing, and to be hinest dont be upset over her cos she sounds like a player and your better off not having anything to do with her....if she had met up with a diff guy after she left you, you wouldnt even have got a call. so chin up and move on and as we say hereNEXT!!!!!!!!
navbabe: you the the right thing, and to be hinest dont be upset over her cos she sounds like a player and your better off not having anything to do with her....if she had met up with a diff guy after she left you, you wouldnt even have got a call. so chin up and move on and as we say hereNEXT!!!!!!!!
Your right, she probably has slept with a few fellas over the weekend. I just couldnt imagine been that horrible myself. lack29: Your right, she probably has slept with a few fellas over the weekend. I just couldnt imagine been that horrible myself.
well see that just how us nice guys get taken in cos we could never do something like that and it doesnt really enter our heads that others can and do....just put it down to a learning experience and move on navbabe: well see that just how us nice guys get taken in cos we could never do something like that and it doesnt really enter our heads that others can and do....just put it down to a learning experience and move on
Think your right, she's not worth getting upset over. 
lack29: Im 29 and i met a 22 year old girl on a weekend away in August. She lives 60 miles away but we kept in touch and we met 3 times and got on well. She told me last week she was coming to my local town to see a big DJ and she would meet me. We met on the night and she was with her friend, her friends brother and about 5 of his friends. She told she was going away with them but would be back to me in a while which was fine. But she never came back so i was hurt. She rang me after to ask me to her hotel but i was drunk and upset and told her i was hurt she never came back to me so i just went home and we have had no contact since. Did i go over the top?
Well dude it seems , to me, you're better off without her, I know you're hurt now but in the end she wasn't for you,lack29: Im 29 and i met a 22 year old girl on a weekend away in August. She lives 60 miles away but we kept in touch and we met 3 times and got on well. She told me last week she was coming to my local town to see a big DJ and she would meet me. We met on the night and she was with her friend, her friends brother and about 5 of his friends. She told she was going away with them but would be back to me in a while which was fine. But she never came back so i was hurt. She rang me after to ask me to her hotel but i was drunk and upset and told her i was hurt she never came back to me so i just went home and we have had no contact since. Did i go over the top?
Did you go over the top that night when you said you were hurt? If you didnt, then just move on. They come and go man! Just count your blessings nothing else happend. Personally if she went off that night on me and said she would be back and didnt, i would of went of myself and forgot her. She cant be that interested in you if she didnt want you by her side that night so move on and dont upset yourself over it buddie.
BiggieSmalls: Did you go over the top that night when you said you were hurt? If you didnt, then just move on. They come and go man! Just count your blessings nothing else happend. Personally if she went off that night on me and said she would be back and didnt, i would of went of myself and forgot her. She cant be that interested in you if she didnt want you by her side that night so move on and dont upset yourself over it buddie.
well said.
lack29: I didnt say anything too bad, just said i couldnt believe she didnt come back for even one drink. Youur right mate, she's no loss.
Oh well you seem to have handled the situation like a gentleman, her loss if anything
aside from anything else i would never arrange to meet someone and leave and expect them to wait around till i was ready to join up with them again....its the height of ignorance. your soooo well out of it....count your lucky stars
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