Was i very wrong? (50)
charliesgirlmeath, Meath Ireland1 Threads 313 Postsseems she was lead by her mates and prob didnt pull then decided to ring you to fill the gap and hey you didnt fall for it.......well done clap yourself for makin a good decision move on next next
well sounds like she was ashamed to be seen with you!
i know the feeling when you get close to someone and you get to know them very well and then they turn around and treat you in differnt way can be hurtful,she sounded like she wanted things her way and was playing you along!you did the right thing plenty more fish in the sea chin up and best of luck
i know the feeling when you get close to someone and you get to know them very well and then they turn around and treat you in differnt way can be hurtful,she sounded like she wanted things her way and was playing you along!you did the right thing plenty more fish in the sea chin up and best of luck
In response to: Im 29 and i met a 22 year old girl on a weekend away in August. She lives 60 miles away but we kept in touch and we met 3 times and got on well. She told me last week she was coming to my local town to see a big DJ and she would meet me. We met on the night and she was with her friend, her friends brother and about 5 of his friends. She told she was going away with them but would be back to me in a while which was fine. But she never came back so i was hurt. She rang me after to ask me to her hotel but i was drunk and upset and told her i was hurt she never came back to me so i just went home and we have had no contact since. Did i go over the top?
Yeah, all she wanted was a bit of no strings fun obviously and i find that hard because i begin to get feelings for that person. Well i havent got my hair cut in ages, going to cut it today to give me a boost, im feeling better though.
Yeah, all she wanted was a bit of no strings fun obviously and i find that hard because i begin to get feelings for that person. Well i havent got my hair cut in ages, going to cut it today to give me a boost, im feeling better though.
Yeah, all she wanted was a bit of no strings fun obviously and i find that hard because i begin to get feelings for that person. Well i havent got my hair cut in ages, going to cut it today to give me a boost, im feeling better though.
Yeah, all she wanted was a bit of no strings fun obviously and i find that hard because i begin to get feelings for that person. Well i havent got my hair cut in ages, going to cut it today to give me a boost, im feeling better though.
Oops multiple posts, can someone delete them for me, don't know how, thanks.
lack29: Yeah, all she wanted was a bit of no strings fun obviously and i find that hard because i begin to get feelings for that person. Well i havent got my hair cut in ages, going to cut it today to give me a boost, im feeling better though.
Well for once its not Samson and Delilah 
lack29: Yeah, all she wanted was a bit of no strings fun obviously and i find that hard because i begin to get feelings for that person. Well i havent got my hair cut in ages, going to cut it today to give me a boost, im feeling better though.
to be honest, i think you went totally over the top, how does anyone know that she slept with loads of fellas, thats totally wrong. You didnt give her a chance to explain, and she is young. Maybe it was a genuine thing and she just couldnt get back to you, id give her a quick text, you were obviously getting feelings for her for a reason, and 1 mistake isnt a disaster
best of luck
Let's not blame the girl in this. Ye had different ways of looking at what was going on, it didn't work out, it's no one's fault. Let's not attack a poor girl who we don't know and is not here to defend herself.
plenty more fish in the sea you will meet someone better
lack29: I know, i text her to say i was sorry but she has'nt replied and i don't think she will. i know she's young , i should have said nothing but the demon drink was a factor too, not that drink should be an excuse. Ill have to learn from my mistakes.
you shouldnt feel bad about it!they way i look at it is that she didnt treat you with much respect and you apologized not many would do that
lack29: Thanks, i not that upset over not meeting her anymore, im just sick at letting myself down and giving out to her, feel awful but i said sorry, not much more i can do.
Thanks. my apology was "sorry i was mean to her but i was hurt she didnt come over to me as i had told my friends about her and i was embarrassed she didnt come over, sorry anyway". In fairness my friends and my brother never brought it up again. I suppose my pride was hurt too.
lack29: Thanks. my apology was "sorry i was mean to her but i was hurt she didnt come over to me as i had told my friends about her and i was embarrassed she didnt come over, sorry anyway". In fairness my friends and my brother never brought it up again. I suppose my pride was hurt too.
how are you mate, im a limerick man myself.. anyways i read your thread, sounds like she might have a few guys on the go. but anyhow, chin up bud and you will be all the better and stronger for the next lady
lack29: Sound mate, off to the gym, work up a sweat and try and forget her.
get yourself a lady and work up a sweat
quickly forgotten then budDon't worry yourself, it's no good. You did nothing wrong, let this old lady tell you 
And if the girl is 22 and states she's too young for a relationship, you should read "not mature enough" instead.
Remember the old fairy tale.... you have to kiss many many frogs before you find a prince, or in your case, a princess!
And now go and enjoy life! It might not be all that grand, but the graphics are really cool
And if the girl is 22 and states she's too young for a relationship, you should read "not mature enough" instead.
Remember the old fairy tale.... you have to kiss many many frogs before you find a prince, or in your case, a princess!
And now go and enjoy life! It might not be all that grand, but the graphics are really cool
we all go through tough times someone better will come along give it time!i know it takes a while to get over someone that you got on well with and really liked but only you will know when your ready to move on!
lack29: Thanks. my apology was "sorry i was mean to her but i was hurt she didnt come over to me as i had told my friends about her and i was embarrassed she didnt come over, sorry anyway". In fairness my friends and my brother never brought it up again. I suppose my pride was hurt too.
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